Thirty years ago, a senior I knew had her husband file for divorce because he was dissatisfied that she was too busy at work. She is so strong that she lives alone with her daughter, and she is still alone to this day.
At that time, I had just graduated and started working. This senior led a working group to our unit for inspection. This is how she and I met.
They and their group lived and ate in a guest house inside the unit. After spending a few days together, we became familiar with each other. Later, due to work relationships, we kept in touch frequently and became friends who were both teachers and friends. Both of
's seniors work within the system. She has strong professional skills and is a forthright person. She speaks and acts resolutely. According to current terms, it looks a bit tomboyish, but in the eyes of men, it lacks femininity.
Her marriage failed, largely due to her career. At that time, she often led teams to conduct grassroots inspections. Sometimes she would go to remote areas for several days, abandoning her home and career.
She is a good person at work. When she is busy, she does not care about her family. She has a carefree personality. She is as good at drinking as men. She is particularly famous in the industry.
In the eyes of men, a woman like this is a good buddy and a good leader, but definitely not a good wife.
was without exception. Her husband couldn't stand her strong-woman behavior and filed for divorce within a few years of marriage, and even beat her to get the divorce.
This incident caused quite a stir in the county town at that time. Many people familiar with her knew that she was so strong that she resolutely divorced and raised her daughter who was still in elementary school alone.
Her ex-husband did not want to live in her shadow. Shortly after the divorce, he transferred his job to the provincial capital. The two parties had almost no contact except for their children.
This senior of mine is quite capable and visionary. When the real estate market was just liberalized in the early years, he disposed of the bungalow and bought a building, and he got out of hand.
I changed my house all the time, selling the old one and buying a new one, and it was a constant process. The houses we live in now are getting bigger and bigger, the decorations are getting more and more beautiful, and the locations are getting better and better. It's a pity that I am always alone, alone.
Over the years, many people have introduced her to many people, but they all fell through.
She is very capable at work and has good conditions in all aspects. She is considered a prominent figure in our small county.
God is so unfair. She, who is excellent in all aspects, has a bumpy road to remarriage. Men who are worse off than her feel that they are not worthy of her and shy away; men who are better off than her find fault with her.
In short, I have never met the right person, and I am single and lonely. A man raised his daughter on his own.
Thirty years have passed. After her retirement, she was so strong that she was hired back by her original employer and continued to be responsible for her original job. This shows her ability.
Senior's ex-husband did not develop well after arriving in the provincial capital and was depressed. Later, I reorganized my family and had no children. I died of kidney disease a few years ago.
When my senior’s daughter got married, we all went over to attend the banquet and send our blessings.
Her son-in-law looks honest and handsome. The only flaw is that he comes from a rural area and his family's economic conditions are not very good. She and her daughter are classmates. They fell in love and got married freely. They can be called a talented man and a beautiful woman.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. Just some time ago, I heard that the senior’s daughter was also divorced. It's a pity that two people without children separated just after talking about it.
As for the specific reason, she didn't tell us, and we didn't dare to ask more. We all kept silent so as not to affect the mood of our seniors. After all, divorce is not a good thing.
Nowadays, mother and daughter live in a house each, and they are alone when they come in and out. It is strange and deserted to think about it, which is heart-wrenching.
I still can’t figure out why marriage is so complicated. It’s okay if parents are divorced, why is it the same with children’s marriages?
There is nothing that can be done about the divorce of parents, and the divorce of a young daughter. Will unhappy marriages be inherited?
