Most mistresses don't have a good life after they take over. This is not chicken soup but reality. Those high-ranking mistresses who were able to handle cheating men when they were mistresses could also outsmart their original wives. After succeeding in becoming the wife, she bec

Most mistresses don’t have a good life after they get promoted. This is not chicken soup but reality.

When they were mistresses, they could not only catch cheating men, but also outsmart their original wives' high-ranking mistresses. After

succeeded in becoming a wife, she became the wife of a cheating man. The cheating man couldn't handle it anymore.

also made his own marriage a mess. The mistresses would even regret it. It would have been better if they had not taken the position in the first place.

Why do the mistresses after taking over the position have a worse life than when they were having extramarital affairs?

Many mistresses often have these problems when they get along with cheating men.

• The first question is, being the wife of a cheating man is not as practical as being a mistress. Before

came to power, the cheating man bought his mistress a car and a house, giving him tens of thousands of dollars a month in pocket money.

The mistress needs to pay less. She can get this by sleeping with the cheating man and saying a few sweet words.

Sometimes many mistresses lose their temper and receive various extra luxury bags from cheating men.

After taking the position, the mistress has to pay more, doing housework and taking care of the entire family.

even has to live in harmony with his ex-wife's children, take care of the parents of cheating men, etc.

However, what the mistress can get does not increase as much as she pays, but instead continues to decrease.

has only 5,000 yuan in living expenses per month, which is considered too much for cheating men. If he wants to buy a bag, he will be considered as having trouble living.

Because during an extramarital affair, the mistress wants a lot. A cheating man will satisfy the mistress in order to maintain the relationship.

But he will still be dissatisfied in his heart and feel that the mistress is greedy for money. After he becomes a leader, he will take every precaution to prevent the mistress from grabbing property.

After the mistress took over, her life was miserable, so she might as well continue to be the mistress.

• The second question is that the relationship with the cheating man is not as good as before, which is directly reflected in daily interactions. Before

came to power, cheating men talked sweetly and coaxed mistresses in various ways every day.

On various holidays, anniversaries, cheating men prepare surprises and gifts for their mistresses. After

came to power, men who cheated had fewer sweet words and more picky words.

There are no surprises or gifts for holidays, anniversaries, and I would rather dislike the mistress.

Even the man who cheated on his mistress on his birthday said he had a social event outside and could not go back to let his mistress spend it alone.

The mistress must not let the cheating man do it for her. The cheating man will think that the mistress is being unreasonable.

Mistresses probably can’t figure out why men immediately change their appearance as soon as they get married.

• The third problem is that the mistress will find that the original wife is divorced, but it is still affecting her and the cheating man.

Before he came to power, the cheating man felt that his mistress was better than his original wife, and he praised his mistress every day for despising his original wife.

In front of the mistress, basically all cheating men will slander their first spouse and say all kinds of bad things about her.

The original wife is not as beautiful as the mistress, her personality is not as gentle as her, and she is not as good at talking as her mistress.

The cheating man told his mistress that he had no feelings for his original wife and wished he could get divorced as soon as possible and escape from the misery.

Once the mistress takes over, the cheating man will begin to miss his original wife and dislike his mistress as being inferior to his original wife.

The mistress is not as good as the original wife in life. The mistress cannot live well, cannot do housework well, and the dishes she cooks are not as delicious as the original wife.

If the divorce between the first wife and the cheating man is more serious, the relationship between the first wife and the cheating man is fine.

If the original wife wants revenge and continues to associate with the cheating man, the mistress will find out that she and the original spouse have exchanged identities.

The original wife became the mistress who won the hearts of cheating men, and the mistress became the first wife who was disliked in every possible way.

The above three problems are the problems that most mistresses will encounter after they successfully take over.

With so many problems mixed together, the mistress has no ability to solve problems and cannot maintain the marriage.

There is nothing she can do. After taking the position, if she lives a good life with a cheating man, she will still be abandoned by the cheating man sooner or later.

This is a kind of retribution for the mistress. The best punishment is to experience the pain of the original wife.

Why does the mistress become like this after taking over? There are three main factors.

• On the one hand, there is a big difference between a marriage relationship and an extramarital affair.

Extramarital affairs are purely materially dominated by cheating men. Only the mistress can get what he is willing to give.

If he is not willing to give it, the mistress will not get anything. If the mistress cheats on the man, he does not need to give it.

This kind of relationship makes the cheating man feel at ease, because his money is always his and the mistress cannot take it away.

But the relationship between marriage is different. Property is shared. He will not give the income of a cheating man after marriage, and his wife will receive half of the wife's income if she divorces.

A cheating man will feel that his mistress can take her away if she wants, so naturally he will take every possible precaution.

It is said that couples who are close to each other may seem to have the closest relationship, but in fact, they are often the most distant relationship.

• On the other hand, it comes from the mistress. People who are used to mistresses cannot be wives.

Because the wife and the mistress need to do completely different things.

The mistress only needs to please the cheating man, while the original wife also has to shoulder various responsibilities.

Many mistresses think that after they become the wife of a cheating man, she will be the same as before.

This is basically wishful thinking. Men have completely different requirements for mistresses and wives.

They only require that the mistress can make them happy, that the mistress can be coquettish and cute, and that she can satisfy him by sleeping with him.

But their requirements for their wives are that they can go to the hall and the kitchen, and they must also be able to act coquettishly and cutely, etc.

The mistress has not changed her mentality and identity, so naturally she cannot get along with the cheating man.

• The last aspect is caused by cheating men.

What you can’t get is always in commotion. The first wife and the mistress are red roses and white roses.

When you are a mistress, you can leave at any time. What you don't get from the mistress is the cinnabar mole on your heart, and what you get is the rice grains on your clothes.

After the mistress took over, she couldn't live without the cheating man, so she became the mosquito blood on the wall, and the first wife who stayed away from the cheating man became Bai Yueguang.

Therefore, a high-ranking mistress may not necessarily have a good marriage. It is better to continue to be a third party if you are a high-ranking person!

Lan Fang wrote this article not only to warn mistresses, don’t think that you win if you get the upper hand, it may be the beginning of your tragedy.

is also to remind the first wives that the reason why mistresses are difficult to fight is because they are mistresses.

Cheating men have different requirements for them. If the first wife wants to separate from her mistress, she can try to increase the cheating man's requirements for her mistress.

allows the cheating man and the mistress to have conflicts because they cannot meet each other's needs, and become a resentful couple, and finally part ways.

If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow Blue Fang and chat about your situation via private message.

I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.