Being widowed in middle age or old age is definitely a very painful thing. Usually divorced or widowed people want to find a wife, because no one wants to live alone, so finding a wife is something that many single men and women want to do. thing.

Being widowed in middle age or old age is definitely a very painful thing. Usually divorced or widowed people want to find a wife, because no one wants to live alone, so finding a wife is what many single men and women want to do. thing.

Some people are not so picky and just think the other person has good character. It doesn’t matter whether they have money or not. It doesn’t matter whether they are clever or not. It doesn’t matter whether they are good-looking or not. However, some people may have better conditions and may also think they are excellent. So the vision is relatively high. In short, there will be some requirements.

Aunt Li has requirements for the partner she wants. She said: "I want to find a wife. The partner can have no money or pension, but he must meet the following five requirements."

Narrator: Aunt Li

I am this year I am 56 years old. I retired early and have been retired for two years. I work in a large company and have a monthly pension of 6,000 yuan. In addition, I have a deposit of 700,000 yuan and four houses for rent, so I should be from middle to upper class society, which means I can be considered a rich wife.

My husband passed away when I was young. He was only 50 years old when he died. I was only 45 years old at that time. My husband died of cancer.

My husband and I never had any conflicts during his lifetime. He was a good character, but unfortunately his life was not good. Two years after his death, I tried to find a man, and some people introduced me to him, but when I thought about my son still studying, I gave up the idea of ​​finding a wife.

My son was in his first year of high school at the time. A rich middle-aged man said that I was good-looking, elegant, and talented. He said he wanted to be with me, but I ignored that man. It's not that I reject the man, but I want to wait until my son goes to college before considering this matter. I'm afraid that my remarriage will have an impact on him.

That man thought I didn’t like him, so he never contacted me.

After my son went to college, my best friend and I traveled to many cities, visited many tourist attractions, took many photos, and ate many delicious foods. I have no regrets in this life. After

came back, I thought about looking for a wife. The man before had already got a woman, and how could I find one? I looked for her on a blind date forum.

There is a place in our city where many middle-aged men or women held signs to go on a blind date, so I went on a blind date. After talking to several men, I found that they were not suitable, so I stopped going.

Later, my son graduated from college and opened a sales company. He would also transfer 10,000 yuan to me every month. He was a filial son with a successful career and never spent any money from me in college. I was very relieved.

He already had a girlfriend when he was in college, and they got married not long after they came out of society. After getting married, they gave birth to a fat and white grandson in more than a year.

I took care of my son’s grandson for three or four years. When my grandson entered the early childhood education class, I returned to my hometown because I was afraid that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would not get along over time.

My son has been persuading me not to go back to my hometown because he said he wants to provide for me in old age, but I really don’t want to trouble them. I always think it would be more appropriate for us to live separately, because raising children is not for old age.

After my son became a big boss, he paid me a certain amount of living expenses every month. I always said he didn’t want it, but he asked me to accept it again and again, so I had to accept the money happily.

My relatives and neighbors say that I am very happy because I am rich and my children are filial.

But I don’t feel that I am very happy. Instead, I feel that I live a very lonely life. Moreover, I am so rich that sometimes I feel insecure. I also envy those men and women who are very loving, so I thought of going on a blind date.

Sometimes I have some physical problems and I go to the hospital, but there is no one to serve me in the hospital. My son is so busy, and I don’t want to trouble him. Even if my son is not busy, I don’t want my son to serve me, because I live in my hometown and it’s too far away. . I remember one time when I went to the gym and sprained my waist, I went to the hospital and stayed there for a week. Later, I felt that the smell of the hospital was bad, so I went home.

Sometimes I really feel that I am quite bored. All my girlfriends and friends have partners, and I am embarrassed to ask them out to play with them all day long. I think that if you want to be happy and live a life that is not boring, you must find a wife.

Since last year, I have wanted to find a partner. I want to find a man who meets my requirements. A man can satisfy me only if he meets these five requirements.

A man with a good temper

Basically everyone wants to find a man with a good personality. Only a man with a good temper can make a woman happy. This kind of man must be gentle and careful, and be especially nice to me. I remember that my husband used to be this kind of person. Whenever I had a conflict with my mother-in-law, he would always defend me.

In fact, it took countless attempts for my first child to be successful. At that time, my mother-in-law asked me why I still hadn’t given birth to a child after being married to my husband for five years. My husband deceived my mother-in-law and said that he wanted to live a life of two with me before having another child.

Unfortunately, I finally got pregnant with a daughter. My mother-in-law favored sons over daughters and kept scolding me for not having a boy. I said it was not up to me, and my husband stood up and put in good words for me.

The most painful thing is that I miscarried my first pregnancy again. The reason was that I fell clumsily. My mother-in-law was afraid that I was the reincarnation of a broom star, so she always wanted my husband to divorce me, but my husband firmly believed that I could. He wanted to give birth to a boy. I was fertile, so he took me to several hospitals, and then slowly adjusted my body, not letting me work, and took great care of me. Only then did I get pregnant with the second child smoothly, and then finally gave birth. A son was born.

But during the confinement period, because I wanted to give birth to the baby smoothly and was afraid of falling down again, my mother-in-law said that I was lazy. She said that she had given birth to a baby before, so why was she not as pretentious as me. At this time, my husband stood up and spoke for me again.

2. I cannot be allowed to do housework or take care of my grandchildren by myself

I know that many men looking for a wife actually want to find a nanny. They want to find someone who can help them take care of the housework, cook, wash and take care of their grandchildren. Of course , some men do it to satisfy their own needs, but most men want to find a nanny because there is no beauty left to enjoy.

I have a best friend. After she got divorced, she married a second husband. As a result, they got divorced half a year after the marriage. The marriage was quick and the divorce was quick. My best friend said she couldn’t stand that man anymore. He kept asking her to be a nanny. She brought his son's grandchildren.

3. You need to have pension money.

You need to have a certain amount of pension money. The pension money does not need to be much, as long as it can support him. I don’t need him to support me because I have a house and money.

I think having pension money is a reflection of a person's personality and wisdom. If two people are too far apart, it is really not a good thing. I don’t ask him to be better than me, nor do I ask him to be as good as me. I just hope that he won’t be too far behind me. I think that as long as a man wants to take responsibility for his own life, he will have pension money.

4, the appearance should not be too bad

Because my height is 1.68 meters, so I want to find a man with a height of 1.68 or above. This will make me feel more secure, and my appearance is not bad, so my partner’s facial features cannot be She looks crooked, her skin shouldn't be too dark, and she should be about the same age as me. I don’t want pretty girls either, because pretty boys are immature and I don’t like them either.

5. Organize a grand wedding for me. The cost of the wedding will be no less than 200,000.

I am a woman who cares about face. I have never lost face in my life, so even if I remarry, I have to find a man who can arrange a luxurious and grand wedding for me. If the other party cannot do this, then there is no need to discuss it.

But I don’t know why. It’s been so long and I’ve been on blind dates many times. When those men heard the five requests I made, they got up and left. This made me puzzled. My request wasn’t difficult, right? What's the problem? Are my requests too much?

Conclusion:

Both remarriage and marriage are important. You must not ignore the importance of marriage. Marriage is not a child's play. You cannot live with a man who will hurt you. You must find a man who is good to you, and this man is Good tempered and noble character. However, being too picky is not a good thing, so it is best to be content with what you have, and the wedding does not need to be too grand.