Introduction: In everyone’s mind, nannies are the most popular nowadays. Why are they so popular? Of course, this is because the wages in the nanny industry are high, especially for live-in nannies. The salary is basically 5,000 to 6,000. No one is willing to work below this sala

Introduction:

In everyone’s mind, nannies are the most popular nowadays. Why are they so popular? Of course, this is because the wages in the nanny industry are high, especially for live-in nannies. The salary is basically 5,000 to 6,000. No one is willing to work below this salary.

The reason why nannies’ wages are so high is that the aging population has become more and more serious in recent years. Many elderly people do not want to go to nursing homes, and their children are not around, so they have to hire a nanny to take care of them. Because the employer’s salary is high, the requirements for nannies are also high. It’s high and there are many conditions.

Many nannies, when faced with many demands from their employers, will tolerate it for the sake of salary. After all, they are not children, and there is no job that they can’t just do if they don’t want to do it, even if they really don’t want to do it. , but real life has to make people bow to it, unless they are really forced to do so.

In our minds, live-in nannies have high wages and their employers demand a lot, and nannies basically tolerate it as much as they can. Have you ever seen an employer where a live-in nanny only has a salary of 3,000 and demands more?

A nanny met her employer who offered her a salary of 3,000 per month as a live-in nanny, but the demands were too much. The nanny was so angry that she directly angrily yelled at the employer and said she would quit. Let’s take a look at what happened!

The self-report of a 47-year-old Ms. Ji:

I am 47 years old and live in Lichuan, Hubei Province. My family has not been well off since I was a child. My parents only sent my two brothers to study. They said that girls will get married sooner or later, and all they need is to be virtuous and virtuous. No high level of knowledge is required.

also said that in ancient times, it was a virtue for a woman to have no talent. As long as I can support my husband and educate my children in the future, knowledge is not very important. Now I feel that I have really suffered the loss of being uneducated.

html I got married to my husband when I was 216, and we gave birth to a son and a daughter. The son went to serve in the army, and the daughter got married far away. My husband and I were left to work every day, and now we don’t even have a house.

I still live in the house I rented before. My husband and I have lived in a rental house for nearly 20 years. Now I am thinking about what if my son marries a wife in the future without a house. At first,

could only go into the factory to do mailing work. Later, my hand speed became slower and slower. I sat in the factory every day and didn’t want to go into the factory anymore, so I started to work for my husband. He drove a big truck and went out to haul goods. Won't come back for a few days.

They basically didn’t have any holidays. When they came back, they just changed clothes and went out again the next day. After driving for him for a while, I realized how uncomfortable it was to sit in the car and run around every day.

I ate in the car, drank in the car, and slept in the car. Basically, I ate, drank, and pooped in the car. Later, I couldn’t stand the pressure and I changed my job.

I work as a nanny. Nanny’s salary is high now, and the requirements are also high. In order to get a job with a salary of five to six thousand a month, I studied for a month and got a nanny certificate. The

training institution has a very good policy. As long as you study there, there will be resource introductions. At the beginning, everyone had no customers and could only take the first step through the training institution.

But I was not very lucky and did not find a suitable employer at the first time. After watching other people who studied at the same time as me find their favorite employers, I felt a little impatient.

thought to myself that my studies were not worse than theirs, so why didn’t any employer hire me? Is it because my own image is not good? Or do I just not look like I can take care of people?

In short, I had mixed feelings in my heart, so I started to look for channels on my own. After all, in this society, it is better to seek help from others than to seek help from myself. There was no employer in the training institution asking me to take care of the elderly, so I looked for it myself. According to the introduction of the training institution, I looked for it from online channels.

After searching for a week or two, I finally found a brochure from an employer who wanted to hire a nanny. However, it showed that the salary was only 3,000, and she also had to be a live-in nanny.

earns 3,000 yuan and works as a live-in nanny. I really don’t want to go, but seeing that all the students in the same group as me have found employers and have begun to receive wages, but I haven’t even earned back the tuition fees, I feel very unbalanced. .

Finally, I made up my mind to apply for a job with this employer who paid RMB 3,000 per month. I called the employer according to the information in the brochure and made an appointment with the employer before going to the employer's home for an interview.

As soon as I arrived at my employer’s house, the person who opened the door for me was an old man in his 60s who looked about 50 years old. I didn’t think much about it at the time. He was definitely not taking care of this healthy old man. Given his current physical condition, No one needs to take care of you.

As soon as I walked in, the old man asked me: "Will you do it as a live-in nanny, the salary is 3,000 yuan? If you don't do it, you can leave."

I thought that there were employers in other colleges, and I couldn't be left behind, even if it was 3,000 yuan. , I also earned back my tuition fees, so I told the old man without hesitation that I would do it.

Then the old man started to introduce me: "My surname is Wang, you can just call me Brother Wang. The house is not big, 80 square meters, two bedrooms and one living room. You live in the second bedroom. I have a daughter who lives in a first-tier city during the Chinese New Year." "

" My wife divorced me a few years ago. Your usual job is cooking, laundry, and housekeeping. The most important thing is that I paid you a salary. I suggest that you have to change every request. If you want to do it, you must complete the things within your scope of work. Can you do it? "

" Yes, Brother Wang. "

" Then you sign the contract in black and white. Two copies. After signing, I will join the job tonight. "

" Where is the person you want to take care of? "

" When I heard what Brother Wang said, I suddenly felt like this nanny. My job doesn't seem to be easy to do. Being so young and still in good health, it doesn't look like I need anyone to take care of me at all. But I've been paid and the contract has been signed, so I can't regret it.

I came to Brother Wang’s house that night. The first thing I did when I woke up the next day was cooking and cleaning. It was really busy on my first day at work because Brother Wang’s house was very messy.

The shoes and socks smelled very bad, and the sheets and pillows also had a smell of sweat. They all had to be removed, washed, and replaced.

Although the salary is only 3,000, the work content is still relatively easy. The house is not big, it is easy to clean, and there are not many people. It is easy to cook, and I don’t change clothes every day. I still have four days of rest every month. , wind or rain does not affect my work.

But over time, this wonderful working atmosphere came to an end. After working at Brother Wang's house for two months, I became more and more familiar with the family and understood Brother Wang better and better.

Not only was he talkative and bad-tempered, I couldn't refute him. I had been a nanny in his house for so long, so I didn't raise any objections, but he started to make various demands on me.

was fine at first. Brother Wang just said he was tired and asked me to wash his feet and help him put on his shoes and socks when he went out.

went on to become more and more unscrupulous. The most outrageous thing was that once when we were eating, Brother Wang looked at me and said, "I injured my hand yesterday. I can't move my arm and can't pick up the chopsticks. You feed me."

Intimate gestures, this behavior was not something I could do as a nanny, so I jokingly rejected Brother Wang.

"Brother Wang, you are a man after all. Don't be so pretentious. If you can't lift your right hand, you still have your left hand. They all say that people who use their left hand more are a hundred times smarter than ordinary people. Brother Wang, why don't you give it a try?"

Me He handed the chopsticks to Brother Wang, but in the next second Brother Wang said angrily: "I can pick up the food myself, but do I need your help? Besides, you are here to be a nanny. Isn't it your job to take care of the employer when his hand is injured?" If you don’t want to do this job, leave now.”

I had no choice but to feed Brother Wang. I still felt very embarrassed. What made me most angry was not the embarrassment of feeding, but the fact that I finished cleaning up. I saw Brother Wang holding up the tea cup with his right hand, effortlessly.

"Brother Wang, don't your hands hurt and you can't lift your arms? You can't even pick up the chopsticks. How do you hold the teacup so steadily?"

"I have to report to you first when I do something?"

I'm so embarrassed. I know what to say. After getting along with him, Brother Wang seemed to habitually make demands on me. I had to accompany him when he went for a walk, and I had to be his partner when he danced.

When eating, I help him blow the food to cool down. When washing his face, I have to get him a towel. When brushing his teeth, I have to squeeze out the toothpaste for him in advance. When washing his feet, I have to wash his feet, and then After drying, pour the foot wash water.

What I can’t stand is when Brother Wang goes to bed. Before he goes to bed, Brother Wang says to me: “Wait until I fall asleep before you go back to sleep.”

This makes me very happy. You sleep in the room, close the door, and I’m in the room. Waiting for you to fall asleep on the sofa in the living room? Then I know when you are asleep and when you are not asleep. When I can't bear it anymore, I explode instantly.

looked at Brother Wang and said angrily: "I only earn 3,000 a month as a live-in nanny. Other live-in nannies earn 5,000 or 6,000. If you ask for more than 5,000 or 6,000, I will tolerate it. 3,000 is the salary." You demand so much salary, and you have to fall asleep first before I go to sleep. You close the door and fall asleep. I know when you fall asleep. I will quit this nanny."

Just think about it. Angry, three thousand salary, asking for so much, I blame myself, just like a new official taking office, he is too eager for quick success and quick success. If it weren't for the same group of trainees who have found employers, I wouldn't have to rush. In the end, I couldn’t continue working on

. After I finished arguing with Brother Wang, I asked him to pay me my salary, and I went home directly.

Conclusion:

As nanny wages are high, everyone wants to get a share of the nanny industry, but what cannot be seen on the surface is always haze, oppression, and various unreasonable conditions and requirements. You You can never imagine how much darkness is hidden under the bright surface, and how many uncertain factors are inside.