There is a song that calls for men to improve themselves! When a man gets married, he must be able to take on the responsibility of supporting his wife and children. Otherwise, he will be looked down upon by his wife and disrespected by his children. As we all know, it is not eas

There is a song called "Men should improve themselves!" When a man gets married, he must be able to take on the responsibility of supporting his wife and children. Otherwise, he will be looked down upon by his wife and disrespected by his children.

As we all know, it is not easy for ordinary men to get a wife nowadays, but for honest men who don’t know how to make money, getting a wife is even more difficult!

Although Dabao in the village is an only child, he is very honest and indifferent, giving people a feeling of being useless. He is almost thirty years old and still has no partner, so his parents are extremely anxious.

's father has a cousin who has been out of the fifth server. Although they are not related by blood, the two of them move around frequently and are closer than real brothers. The cousin has a daughter named Jiuju, who is a few years younger than Dabao. Her father hopes that the cousin's daughter will marry Dabao. For the sake of the cousin's love, the cousin agrees.

Parents have the final say. Although Jiuju is dissatisfied with Dabao, under the strong interference of her parents, Jiuju still marries Dabao.

After the two got married, Jiuju said to Dabao: There is no money to spend on farming at home, so why don’t I farm at home and you go out to work? Dabao said yes. However, Dabao came back after being away for more than a month. Jiuju asked him why he came home so early. Dabao said: I found a job in a factory, and the workers bullied me! Jiuju was so angry that she shook her head and said to Dabao: "I am not familiar with the place where I live. If I don't go to another place, I will get you a bag of rice to sell on the street and learn to do agricultural and sideline products business!" Dabao carried a bag of rice to the street and soon returned home empty-handed. Jiuju asked: Where is the rice? Dabao said: Someone else took it away! Jiuju asked again: Where is the money? Dabao said: That person didn’t give it to me! Jiuju said angrily: You are so stupid that you are worse than a pig!

Jiuju believes that there is no hope for her family to rely on Dabao to make money, and they have to rely on themselves. So, she started a business selling poultry agricultural and sideline products such as grain, chickens and ducks, and met a man named Yang Laosan in the business. Yang Laosan was also in the poultry agricultural and sideline products business, and the business was doing very well. Jiuju He and Yang Laosan became lovers, and it was already known to everyone in the village.

Although Dabao is an honest man, he is still very angry about his wife having a lover. He often quarrels with Jiuju and howls like a child, which annoys Jiuju. So Jiuju said to Dabao: Don't listen to some people's gossip. Sometimes you don't see things you shouldn't see. Everything I do is to make money and make our lives better! You listen to me, as long as you do these three points, you will have no worries! Dabao muttered and asked: What three things can you do? Jiuju said:

One is to pretend to be deaf. Don't listen to what you shouldn't hear. No matter what others say, you are just like a deaf person who can't hear. You can't hear unpleasant words, dirty words, and hurtful words, and you will feel better.

The second is to act blind. If you don’t want to see something, don’t want to see something, or something that makes you feel uncomfortable, don’t look at it. You can’t see it like a blind man. If you can’t see it, you won’t feel upset.

The third is to be dumb. Don't say what you don't want to say, and don't say bad things when others ask you. If you don't talk nonsense, others won't be annoyed, and you won't be distressed either!

Dabao laughed and said: Jiuju, I figured it out. You go out to have a lover, so I pretend to be deaf and not listen to others saying unpleasant things about you. I pretend to be blind and not see you with others. I pretend to be dumb and don't tell others. You are talking nonsense, you are not allowed to say that you are wrong, right? Jiuju poked Dabao's forehead with her finger and said: You fool, how can you say that your wife is a lover? We are good friends in business!

In Dabao’s family, Jiuju makes money and Jiuju is the head of the family. Many people in the village say that Dabao is not worthy of Jiuju! However, more people say that it would be better for Dabao to be more honest, so that he can have a complete family!