In order to avoid estrangement from our best friends and uncertainty about our lovers, it is necessary to establish boundaries appropriately and nip problems in the bud. Otherwise, once our boyfriend or husband is stolen by our best friends, we may lose friendship and love. Love

■ Author: Uncle Nanshan

■ Original work, plagiarism will be investigated

01, preface.

Regarding the word "bestie", friends around me often joke: "fire protection, theft prevention, and bestie protection". It is undeniable that in reality, it is not uncommon for best friends to turn against each other because of men, and it is also common for best friends to take advantage of their relationship. As the old saying goes, don't be afraid of thieves stealing, just be afraid of thieves missing you. In order to avoid estrangement from our best friends and uncertainty about our lovers, it is necessary to establish boundaries appropriately and nip problems in the bud. Otherwise, once our boyfriend or husband is stolen by our best friends, we may lose friendship and love. Love is really worth the loss.

However, when it comes to treating best friends, we must also understand the bottom line of our interactions with each other. Especially when we have our own boyfriends or lovers, we should not let our boyfriends or husbands get too close to our best friends. Especially when our looks are not as good as those of our best friends, we must be wary of our boyfriends or husbands falling in love with our best friends. And once the incident of poaching by your best friend occurs, you must learn to stop the loss in time. There is no need to continue to waste time and feelings for a man who doesn't care about you at all. For example, Liu Xiaoling below, because her best friend from college came to see her, something happened that made her feel completely desperate.

02, I am studying in college in Jiangbei City, and my best friend lives in the lower bunk.

Dear friends, my name is Liu Xiaoling, a girl from an ordinary family in Jiangcheng City. I have been sensible and well-behaved since I was a child, and my parents are very at ease with me. After I finished high school, I went to a private undergraduate school and went to Jiangbei City to go to university. During my college years, I worked very hard and took notes in class every day. Many times, I spent time in the library. For this reason, I was awarded the title of Reading Star of the school.

I have a best friend named Ya Nan. Yanan is a native of Jiangbei City. She is tall, fair-skinned and beautiful. She has a high rate of turning heads when she walks on the university campus. As for me, although I am not amazing in appearance, I also have an elegant temperament, and many boys have a good impression of me. Yanan and I lived in the same dormitory. I lived in the upper bunk and Yanan lived in the lower bunk. As time passed, we cherished each other and became good friends. Yanan and I went to class together every day and went to the cafeteria to eat together, becoming famous sisters on the university campus.

03, after graduating from college and going their separate ways, I returned to Jiangcheng City to work.

During the four years of college, Yanan and I studied together, went shopping together, and watched movies together. We almost never had any quarrels. When was about to graduate, Yanan already had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is also a local and is said to have a good family background. I am happy for Ya Nan. After all, she is my best friend. Of course I sincerely wish her happiness if she can have it. After graduation, I returned to Jiangcheng City. After passing the exam, I entered a job in a public institution. Once I got a job, my life became stable. I decided to work hard and live a good life in my hometown.

Because I am originally from Jiangcheng City, every plant, tree, street and alley of Jiangcheng City has become a mark, deeply engraved in my mind. The Jiangcheng River in Jiangcheng City has become the cells flowing in the blood, which makes me dream. I decided that I would marry in Jiangcheng City for the rest of my life and continue to be a native of Jiangcheng City. Perhaps, this is a deep-rooted hometown feeling.

04, I married A Dong when I was twenty-eight years old, and we lived a good life together.

However, maybe it’s because I’m immersed in work, or maybe it’s because of the mentality of not being able to achieve a high level or a low level. After returning to my hometown for several years, I never fell in love with any man. It was not until last year, when I was 28 years old, that I met my Prince Charming, Adong. A Dong comes from the countryside and is a Phoenix man. However, with his hard work, he went to a bachelor's degree school. After graduation, he worked in a state-owned enterprise in Jiangcheng City, and his salary was higher than mine.

After marrying A Dong, I have worked hard for our happy marriage. I know that a real marriage requires management, so when I come home from get off work every day, I will decorate the home to be warm and romantic. Every time my husband comes home, he always praises my performance greatly. He said: "Xiaoling, I feel really happy to marry you. I will definitely treat you well." I nodded and said with a smile. : "A Dong, I hope you will keep your word and don't let me down in the future." A Dong quickly raised his hand to swear, but I sealed his mouth.

05, half a year after my marriage, my best friend came to visit me and she stayed at my house for three days and three nights.

One day half a year after we got married, my best friend Yanan called me. She said that she was divorced and was feeling depressed. She wanted to come and chat with me and also come to see me . I know that Ya Nan fell in love several times before finally marrying a wealthy businessman. But this wealthy businessman was not kind to her, and sometimes even engaged in domestic violence. For this reason, Yanan filed for divorce several times, but the wealthy businessman refused. It was not until Yanan went to court that the court ruled that they were divorced. However, fortunately, like me, Yanan has not given birth to children yet, so her future is not so scary.

Yanan came to Jiangcheng by plane. Since she arrived at night, I specially asked A Dong to drive a car to pick her up. When she came to my house, it was already past ten o'clock in the evening. I specially tidied up the spare room so that she could stay that night. At night, Yanan and I slept together. The two of us chatted until three in the morning, and then we fell asleep. The next day, I found that A Dong had bought breakfast and many dishes early, and was ready to entertain my best friend Yanan. Just like that, Yanan stayed at my house for three days and three nights, and he was not ready to return to Jiangbei until the fourth day.

06, A Dong drove her to the airport when she left. He was sick for three days after coming back.

When Yanan lived in our house, A Dong showed off his cooking skills, especially the "papaya stewed crucian carp" that he made, which made Yanan full of praise.. She said: "Xiao Ling, A Dong's cooking skills are so good. You are really happy to marry him. I am happy for you. If I can find someone like A Dong in the future, I will be satisfied." Hearing what Ya Nan said, A Dong seemed to be touched. So, he opened a bottle of Lafite , and the three of us started chatting while drinking.

I had to go to work the next day, so I asked A Dong to take Yanan to the streets and alleys of our Jiangcheng City. In this way, Ya Nan stayed at our house for three days, and A Dong also played with Ya Nan for three days. During these three days, Yanan had a very comfortable and happy time. On the fourth day, Ya Nan was leaving, so I asked A Dong to drive Ya Nan to the airport. However, the strange thing is that A Dong fell ill after A Dong came back from sending Yanan to the airport. He took leave and slept at home for three days. After getting up on the fourth day, he suddenly made a request to me that stunned me.

07. Later, when my husband filed for divorce, I realized that the truth was not simple.

After A Dong got up, he said that his boss asked him to go to Jiangbei City on a business trip, and it would take half a month. I felt strange and asked A Dong why he had never gone on a business trip before. A Dong said that his boss was planning to promote him and let him go to Jiangbei City to train and then go to a branch factory in Jiangbei City to take charge of his own business. I half-believed him. As expected, Adong went to Jiangbei City and stayed for half a month before coming back.

However, after Adong came back from Jiangbei City, he seemed to be a different person. He stopped smiling at me and seemed to have something else to say. Seeing him wanting to stop talking, I couldn't help it anymore, so I asked A Dong to speak his mind. A Dong looked at me, and then suddenly knelt down with a "plop": "Xiao Ling, I'm sorry, I have fallen in love with Ya Nan, and I can't live without her anymore. Let's get a divorce. I will work and live in Jiangbei City from now on." "When I heard A Dong's words, I felt so thunderous that I almost fainted and fell to the ground.

08, conclusion.

When I woke up, I found that A Dong had left . He left me a letter, saying that since Ya Nan came to our house, his soul has been taken away by Ya Nan. He was willing to leave the house and leave all his property to me, as long as I was willing to divorce. Reading A Dong’s message, my heart broke. Friends, do you think a man like A Dong deserves my continued love? Is my best friend Yanan worthy of me continuing to date? friends, now I am really heartbroken. I really don’t know how to deal with this matter. Please leave a message in the comment area and give me this poor woman a good suggestion . Thank you all.

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