Love is a passion, marriage is a responsibility. After getting married, people must understand that marriage and love cannot be compared. Don't force a marriage that is no longer compatible with each other. Not only will it not give in to each other, it may even lead to tragedy.
Before marriage, it is called emotion. Only when there is emotion, there is feeling. After marriage, it is called emotion. There is also feeling and friendship. What is the reason for divorce? There is no emotion, no emotion, and a change of heart.
There is such a couple in Anhui Province. The wife had an affair. After the husband found out, he killed her lover directly.
Love is often a personal impulse, while marriage is the life of two people. Love may be romantic, and the love phase may be full of pink bubbles. And marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, and the trivial things in the lives of two people.
Xiaoqiu, who was born in Anhui, lived in an ordinary family since he was a child. As an adult, it was time to start a family and start a business. She met her husband A Tu after being introduced by an elder, and soon after they met, they got married and started a business. Although the two met through a blind date, their relationship is still very good. If there are no accidents, they will live a happy life in the future. But after all, the two underestimated the time and distance. Soon, a marital tragedy awaited them.
After getting married, the two of them were living a prosperous life, but at this time A Tu hoped to make his wife live a good life. Finally, the two went to Jiangsu together. With A Tu's efforts, he successfully brought his wife to a local factory. Although they were in the same factory, they were not in the same workshop. The working hours of the two of them were different, so the newlyweds did not have much time to communicate with each other, and soon their relationship became a little unfamiliar.
Xiao Qiu was new to business when he first entered the workshop. Although there were many colleagues in the workshop, few were willing to help him, and he often felt lonely and helpless. At that time, the two of them were still living in a factory. It didn't matter that the husband wanted to make money and support the family, and he was a little tired. But his wife Xiaoqiu tacitly suggested to her husband to move out of the factory and rent a small house outside. Her husband keeps killing her time by saying the rent is too expensive.
Her husband's indifference and the physical and mental exhaustion between her and her husband are getting weaker day by day. Moreover, at this time, her husband works harder to earn money to support the family. Sometimes he is not idle at night. Although he is very tired every day, he does not Nothing to complain about. But two people who lack communication make a happy home look like a hotel, rather than a couple and more like neighbors. After gathering less and leaving more, Xiaoqiu gradually had the idea of Hongxing cheating.
It is easy to fall in love, but it is too difficult to stay together.
A Tu is actually not like a straight man who just went to work, and still loves Xiaoqiu deeply. But the seemingly loving marriage slowly began to crack. Tu accidentally discovered that his wife had started buying new clothes to dress herself up. At first, he thought that the unexpected surprise his wife brought him began to change, but as time went by, many of his wife's behaviors made him feel that it was abnormal.
Note: Xiaoqiu works in a factory. Dressing up not only takes up sleeping time but is also not good for work. But his wife still dressed up before going to work, and A Tu discovered that his wife might be having an affair, and the partners of the affair were all in the factory. After
had doubts, he began to pay attention to his wife's whereabouts at all times, and soon he discovered that his wife had too close contact with a male colleague named Zhang. He saw that the two of them were closer together than his wife was with him, and he felt that his cuckold became more and more stable as he wore it.
During those days, although the husband and wife were at home, there was not much communication. Even if he wants to be intimate with his wife, he will be opposed.
His wife's attitude towards him is getting colder and colder, but he is helpless and can only count the days until he can go home every day.
In his heart, he always felt that his wife was having an affair with Mr. Zhang.
Once the emotional balance is tilted, it will cause irreparable shortcomings.
The love scene is like a battlefield. Either each of us keeps the bottom line, or we become the target of a romantic affair. Only by guarding one-third of an acre of land can your family be peaceful and happy.
But he never found any evidence that the two of them got along. At that time, he also hoped that what he thought was false and never made it clear with his wife. But out of consideration for marriage, he decided to conduct an investigation on his wife to see if she would date Teacher Zhang in private.
One day when my husband came home from get off work, he saw his wife and Mr. Zhang leaving hastily in the grass. Only then did he truly discover that his wife was having an affair and that his marriage was in crisis. But he still failed to grasp the current situation between the two of them, and could only endure it every day.
But at this time, the wife did not feel the shame of having an affair, but felt it was very thrilling. Afterwards, she no longer avoided her husband in the tryst with Mr. Zhang, and the days spent with the affair made her very comfortable. But at this time, the husband is planning to teach the two of them a lesson.
On November 15, 2018, he calculated that this would be another day for the two of them to have a tryst, so he held an iron rod and waited for the two of them one step ahead. Seeing two people present, I immediately rushed to Teacher Zhang and gave Teacher Zhang a lesson. Although Teacher Zhang knelt on the ground and begged, he still did not give up.
Mr. Zhang, who was already bruised and bruised, wanted to be a gentleman and take Xiao Qiu away from here. Unexpectedly, he eventually fell down and could not get up again. At this time, Xiaoqiu saw that the situation was not good, so he left his lover and ran away alone.
The police investigated the case and quickly arrested A Tu, but during the trial, considered that he had no subjective intention to kill intentionally. maintained a correct attitude regarding the fact that A Tu did not kill intentionally and did not kill the deceased, and took into account the factors of extramarital affairs and A Tu's confession, and finally sentenced him to only eight years in prison.
I have seen a lot of people killing people in this kind of relationship. In fact, there are really not many people who want to kill people. The main reason is that some people don’t take a woman’s husband seriously! She was secretive at first, but if her secret was exposed, she didn't care enough to provoke her husband, which could lead to disaster.
Since ancient times, there have been many cases of adultery and murder. No matter which man encounters this, he will easily lose control of his emotions and lead to tragedy. May men and women be loyal to love and not engage in extramarital affairs.
The reasonable and legal solution is to endure the situation and get a divorce. But which man can swallow this breath?
As a victim, Ah Tu had no fault, but it was Ah Tu's fault that he vented his anger privately. If your marriage breaks down, you must learn to let go. If A Tu divorced his wife after learning that she was cheating on her, there would be no tragedy in the future.
just didn't grasp the importance of the matter. Is there a reasonable solution to this matter?
Adultery brings out lives, gambling brings out thieves, the living city of the ancients will not deceive me.
