- and my husband met on a blind date. I was already 27 at that time, and he was one year older than me. We felt that we were very compatible, and it was love at first sight. Not long after, we got engaged.
- After talking for more than half a year, we got married.
- The house was bought by his parents, and he lived with them after getting married. I was still working at that time, and my husband’s salary was always stuck in her mother’s hands. All the food and drinks she spent on daily expenses were all from my salary.
- I told my husband that when we got married, I asked him to give me his salary card and we would save money together. My husband said that he wanted to live with her mother, but her mother did not agree. Her mother said that she was afraid that we would spend money randomly, so he would look after it for us first.
- Once my mother was sick and hospitalized and needed money urgently. I didn’t have much money on hand, so I asked my husband to come up with 60,000 yuan. The mother-in-law said that this fifty thousand yuan is equivalent to what I loaned to your mother, and I will pay it back when he gets better.
- I am not very happy when my mother-in-law says this. I am spending my husband’s money. I usually use my salary to buy food and drinks for everyone, and I don’t say anything. Why do I need to pay back my husband’s money? Since then, there has been a gap between my mother-in-law and me.
- I usually prefer to buy new clothes from the last season. The mother-in-law told her husband, let your daughter-in-law save some money and spend it. It’s not easy to make money now. Why buy so many clothes? You see the closet is full of clothes. I warned him, this was bought with my money and not yours!
- My mother-in-law also disliked the fact that the cosmetics I bought were too expensive. In fact, my set of cosmetics only cost less than 1,000 yuan and can last for a year. Sometimes he would give my newly purchased cosmetics to her daughter. I felt they were not worth much, so I didn’t care. But I found that she got even more serious. She would give the most expensive isolation cream, perfume, and lipstick I bought to her daughter. She also said that it was not worth a few dollars, so we should all use it together!
- I told my husband not to let my mother touch my cosmetics. My husband said that if my mother is happy, she can use them if she wants! In short, I listen to everything.
- My husband is too obedient. I have only been married for a year, and I feel that my life is very boring. I really don’t know how I will live in the future?
