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Huang Xiaojuan
In March 1962, in the hospital in Fuxin, Liaoning, a loud cry resounded throughout the ward, and the parents were delighted to see this strong and powerful child. Unable to stop, he named her Huang Xiaojuan . Her father is a coal mining engineer and her mother is a people's teacher. Logically speaking, Huang Xiaojuan's family is well-off and she should have had enough food and clothing since she was a child. However, this is not the case. She has four siblings in total. Her father cannot return home all year round due to work. family, so my mother takes care of everything at home, which is very hard. In order to make her mother less tired, she took on the important task of taking care of her younger brothers and sisters.
can be said to be both a sister and a mother. This also created Huang Xiaojuan's strong and independent character. She had her own opinions on everything since she was a child, just like a little adult. When she was in junior high school, the local art troupe was recruiting actors. She was already particularly interested in acting and decided to do it. I signed up without telling my parents. Her cheerful and generous personality also attracted the favor of the art troupe teacher, and she has since embarked on the path of an actress.
- "The Flower of Crosstalk" Huang Xiaojuan
Since she had not graduated from junior high school when she signed up, the leader of the group decided to let her complete her studies before joining the group. In this way, after a period of hard study, she successfully graduated and officially joined the art troupe in 1978 when she was 16 years old. Because Huang Xiaojuan is not a beauty in the true sense, the troupe did not let her participate in the movie, but let her practice two-person transfer to . Because of her cheerful personality and spirited performance, the leaders of the art troupe became more and more interested. I think this is a good idea for performing a duet. In 1990, Huang Xiaojuan appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage for the first time and collaborated with Zhao Benshan to perform the sketch "Blind Date". From then on, she became an instant hit and became a household name. And Zhao Benshan can be regarded as Huang Xiaojuan's true nobleman.
Zhao Benshan
. She became famous in one battle and was on the Spring Festival Gala stage. She was an extremely good duet actor before she even appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage. In 1983, her duet "The Man in the Painting" won the Performance Award in Liaoning Province. . Gold always shines, and it was precisely because of her unremitting efforts that Huang Xiaojuan had the opportunity to shine. At that time, the group often went out to participate in performances, and Zhao Benshan, who was also born in Erhuan, quickly noticed this smart little girl. Girl, after several observations, Zhao Benshan found that this child was serious, studious, down-to-earth, and willing to endure hardships. In this way, the two of them had their first collaboration, performing the duet "Mahjong Tofu" on the stage of the Liaoning Spring Festival Gala. With Zhao Benshan With the blessing, Huang Xiaojuan became a well-known figure in the three eastern provinces overnight, and everyone knew about it.
Huang Xiaojuan and Zhao Benshan
appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage in 1990 under the recommendation of Zhao Benshan. The two collaborated on the sketch "Blind Date". After this performance, Huang Xiaojuan became popular all over the country. Then she appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage 12 times, and contributed many excellent works such as "The Bridge", "Returning to Guests", "The Gunshots of Madiel Hotel ". The people he collaborates with are also well-known actors such as Pan Changjiang, Hou Yaowen, and Guo Donglin. Especially "The Bridge" starring Pan Changjiang, the catchy ballad in it: "There is a winding river in front of my brother, and my sister is singing a sweet song opposite..." is widely circulated among the audience. Who was it? Don’t you know how to hum a few words? The success of this program has further established Huang Xiaojuan's position in the sketch world. Known as the "evergreen tree" in the sketch world.
Huang Xiaojuan guest-starred in Wulin Gaiden
At the same time, she also participated in many film and television works, including the role of Bai Sanniang in "Wulin Gaiden". She was loved by the audience with her superb acting skills. For a time, her career could be described as It's like the sun is rising. As a woman, the reason why she can work hard outside without worries is because she has an excellent "helper" at home, her husband Wang Fengyou who has been silently supporting her from behind.
. Getting acquainted with Jun When it came to the union with her husband, her parents did not agree at first.Huang Xiaojuan and her husband met during a performance. At that time, the troupe was performing outside, and Wang Fengyou was also watching from the stage. At first, he just had the mentality of watching the fun, but who knew that after watching it, he would see his wife Come back.
Pan Changjiang and Huang Xiaojuan
Although Huang Xiaojuan was not a great beauty at that time, her appearance was majestic, tall and full of spiritual eyes, and her smile was so contagious that he was immediately attracted by it. After the performance, he rushed to the backstage and presented a bouquet of flowers to Huang Xiaojuan. Huang Xiaojuan, who was young at the time, was also startled, but quickly calmed down and took the flowers. At that time, she thought it might be her ardent fan. I didn't pay attention to it, but who would have thought that in the next few performances, I would always see this boy. After each performance, he would always give me flowers. Just like this, and with the help of friends, the two fell in love.
Because of the sweetness of love, she had the idea of getting married, so she rushed home and told her parents that she wanted to get married. Her parents were very angry at their daughter's decision and felt that the man did not have a strong family background and a stable job. On the other hand, although my family is not wealthy, it is still a well-off family, and my daughter is a big star in Liaoning Province. This young man is really not worthy of his daughter. Huang Xiaojuan's attitude towards her parents' opposition was very tough. She doesn't care whether the man is powerful or not, because she feels that she can live a good life without relying on her husband, and she also feels that her husband is capable of creating a world of his own. So the two got married in 1986 and gave birth to a son soon after their marriage.
My husband also worked hard and started from scratch, becoming a well-known local rich man. With a successful career and a happy family, I thought I could live a happy life so peacefully, but unexpectedly, a bad news broke my original peace.
2. Fate is unfair, is this retribution?
. Her father and younger brother passed away one after another, and she cried all her tears. There are four siblings in the family, and they have a very deep relationship with each other.
Huang Xiaojuan’s family portrait
However, the good times did not last long. In 2008, the youngest brother in the family was diagnosed with late-stage liver cancer. This sudden news made Huang Xiaojuan at a loss. Her first reaction at the time was to hide it from her parents, because she was older and could not bear the strong pressure. stimulation. In the days that followed, Huang Xiaojuan took her brother to major hospitals across the country, but even after receiving the best treatment and spending all her family's savings, she was still unable to recover. In 44 days, all that was left of the originally vibrant brother was a cold corpse.
After all, paper can't cover up the fire. Huang Xiaojuan's parents finally knew the fact of their son's death. For a while, the whole family was immersed in grief and couldn't extricate themselves. Because he was the only boy in the family, a white-haired person gave a black-haired person; Huang Dad seemed extremely sad, and within a year, he passed away in grief. She lost two relatives within a year, which was unbearable for her.
Later she said in an interview: "During that time, my tears were all gone, and I couldn't cry anymore. My brother was very good. I raised him since he was a child. He was only 40 years old when he left. .
Now every time I go to visit his grave, I will tell him, "Brother, my second sister misses you." Everyone present is moved. Even so, she did not forget that she was a comedian. She still faced the audience with the brightest smile on stage, suppressing all the sadness in her heart. Every day when she returned home, Huang Xiaojuan locked herself in her room, neither talking nor eating. Her husband and son were afraid that she would be exhausted and tried to persuade her to cheer up, but she couldn't listen at all. At this time, her son said: : "Mom, you can't go on like this. What will grandma do if you are like this? Grandma is not in good health. Only if you are happy can you make grandma happy."
Her son's words made her wake up instantly. Yes, people who have passed away, I can no longer take care of them, but I will do my best to take care of the living people. So she steeled herself and cheered up, determined to free her mother from her grief.
. Resisting grief, just to keep my mother alive At that time, Huang’s mother was already in her 70s and suffered from severe diabetes . The death of her husband and son had dealt a serious blow to her.
In order to let her mother come out of the shadow, Huang Xiaojuan buried all the pain in her heart. Only show your happy and sunny side. Take your mother to watch TV and listen to the news. When she has a performance, let her watch her performance in the audience. When I am not busy at work, I take my mother to travel around to enrich her life. During the Chinese New Year and festivals, the three sisters would get together and make dumplings with their mother to make her happy. Later in the interview, Huang Xiaojuan said: "My mother is a person who is very good at managing herself. She loves to watch the news and TV, and will take the initiative to discuss problems with us."
Huang's mother lived a very fulfilling and happy later life, and had her own life Hobby, with the company of their daughters, the three sisters once again took their families back to their hometown to reunite with their mother during the Spring Festival of 2021. Mother Huang looked at the lively family and was so happy that she could not open her mouth from ear to ear. After dinner, the whole family took a family photo around the old man, but who knew that this would be the last family photo. One week after the Spring Festival. The 85-year-old mother Huang's condition deteriorated rapidly. Although the doctors tried their best to save her, they could not save her life.
Huang Xiaojuan's family portrait
The death of her mother made Huang Xiaojuan feel very sad. She always felt guilty. If she gave up her career, she could spend more time with her mother. Can my mother live longer? At this time, her son comforted her: "Mom, you have done a good enough job. Grandma will definitely be very happy in heaven. Don't be sad. Grandma definitely wants you to be happy." The son's words make sense. He must be strong and happy. Go down, take the share of your parents and younger brother, and live happily in this world. Seeing such a sensible son in front of her, Huang Xiaojuan couldn't help but blush. She deserves anyone. I only feel sorry for my own son.
Huang Xiaojuan and her son
3. She cried and said: "My son thinks I am an enemy."
When Huang Xiaojuan gave birth to her son Li He only five months ago, she devoted herself to her work and only went home for a long time. Every time I can only communicate with my son through the phone. Children from other families have been accompanied by their parents since childhood. But he can only see his mother on TV every time. In his eyes, he didn't even know the concept of mother.
- What is the reason why her biological son calls her aunt
Huang Xiaojuan, who is also a mother, is also full of longing for her son. However, the busy schedule of work makes it impossible for her to take her children with her. She is afraid that her children will suffer hardships with her, and she is also afraid that she cannot take care of her children. Just when she thought mother and son were going to be separated forever, something happened that made Huang Xiaojuan extremely sad. After the performance that day, when she returned home, the first thing she did was to see her baby son. But who knew that the child was stunned when he saw her. After a while, he sweetly shouted to her, "Hello, Auntie." "Auntie's voice completely broke her heart. She didn't expect that her son didn't recognize her. At the same time, she secretly made up her mind to keep her child with her no matter where she was in the future.
Although she kept her son with her in the future, her relationship with her son has always been very stiff because her busy work made her pay little attention to her son, and the child also felt that his mother did not love him. Until one time, Li He was injured in a basketball activity organized by the school. Huang Xiaojuan, who knew this, was very anxious. She took her child to the hospital immediately and put a plaster on it. The doctor told her to eat light, so she gave her son some food to make it easier for him to have sex. Swallow liquid food. Her son had difficulty moving, so she helped him dress and wipe his body.
Huang Xiaojuan’s meticulous care made the child feel that his mother loved him. From that time on, the relationship between mother and son slowly began to ease. In 2001, she was specially recruited into the army and became an actor in the Qianjin Art Troupe of the Shenyang Military Region.One time, the regiment was going to perform to express condolences to the soldiers standing guard in front of the front. It was this performance that shocked her greatly. At that time, she looked at these young and resolute soldiers in front of her, and thought to herself that it was not easy for them to be stationed on the border at such young ages. In the end, no matter how wonderful her performance was, the soldiers still looked ahead and never forgot their duty to protect their homeland and country. This scene shocked her heart.
Huang Xiaojuan stills
When the performance was over, the soldier pushed the handle of the gun with his shoulder, and she was still confused. Later, Huang Xiaojuan learned that this was a unique way of expressing gratitude in the military camp.
In the same year, Li He took the college entrance examination. When he happily said that he wanted to be a director, Huang Xiaojuan said that boys should protect the family and the country and let him go to the military academy.
’s son is very sensible. He followed his mother’s advice and applied for the military academy. However, he also secretly took the performance exam. After the exam results came out, he ranked first in the Liaoning Province Unified Examination for directing and second in acting. Although Huang Xiaojuan was also very proud of her son, she knew that it would be difficult for her to be an actor, so she still sent her son to a military academy. He knew that his son blamed her, and she had regretted it.
Looking back now, if she had followed her son's wishes, he might have become an outstanding actor now. After all, she has a lot of regrets for her son. Fortunately, her son is now working smoothly and living a happy life, which makes her feel a little less guilty.
- The ordeal is over, and only happiness is left.
Time flies by. Today, Huang Xiaojuan is almost 60 years old. Her son has married and has children, and her husband is by her side. Even though she has experienced too many painful and regretful things in her life, Fortunately, the results are good. As a sister, she was both mother and sister, and she raised her younger brother without any regrets. As a daughter, she was filial and considerate, allowing her mother to spend her old age peacefully.
The last family portrait
As a mother, she is not qualified. Fortunately, after her son grew up and became a father, he realized how difficult it is to be a parent, understood his mother's good intentions in letting him enter the military academy, and also understood his mother's journey. We have gone through all the hardships. There are no parents in the world who don’t love their children. Some parents only care about their children and their family ties are chaotic. When you master the way of expression, every family will be happy.
