There are many women who have experienced failed marriages. They often warn future generations with the tone of people who have experienced it, "Marriage is the tomb of love", "Never listen to a man's sweet words", "Eternal vows are fragile in the face of reality" and so on. Are

There are many women who have experienced failed marriages. They often warn future generations with the tone of people who have experienced it, "Marriage is the tomb of love", "Never listen to a man's sweet words", "Eternal vows are fragile in the face of reality" and so on. Are these statements correct? Is it possible that marriage is really so fragile?

In fact, it is not the case. Although marriage is different from the romantic beauty of love, I always believe that as long as two people have a solid emotional foundation, understand and encourage each other, and understand and accompany each other, there will be no difficult days that cannot be overcome? A person's dedication and efforts are limited, and only a two-way relationship will last long.

Gao Yan comes from a superior family and is good-looking, but she is a girl who has beautiful illusions about love. She once told her friends, "The man I want to marry in the future does not need to be from a superior family or be handsome. He can just be just Just a simple ordinary person. The two of us should strive for the life we ​​want, work together, grow together, and become better together."

Later, she met the boy as expected. His name is Jiang Yu, he has an ordinary appearance, and he is the type who will be quickly lost in the crowd. But as fate would have it, the two young people who were not supposed to have any intersection met each other because of the activities of the university club. Over time, they went from nodding acquaintances to friends who could simply chat with each other.

As time goes by, the relationship between the two people becomes closer and closer. On a bright moonlit night, Jiang Yu took advantage of this hard-won opportunity to be alone to express his feelings to Gao Yan.

"I know that we are from two different worlds. If we hadn't participated in that club activity together, ordinary people like me would never have had the chance to meet you. But God has mercy on us and allowed us to get to know each other. , made me fall deeply in love with you. So, even if you don't accept me, even if we can't be friends in the end, I still want to be brave."

A few simple words may not be so gorgeous. But Gao Yan really felt the most sincere feelings of the boy in front of her. I don't know whether it was because she was really moved, or because she was deeply moved, but Gao Yan, who had always been rational, actually nodded and agreed.

After the two got together, Jiang Yu explained his love for Gao Yan with every detail and concern in life. At the beginning, those friends who persuaded Gao Yan to think twice and let her recognize the distance between her and Jiang Yu gradually stopped persuading her. Perhaps, they saw Jiang Yu's intentions for his friends, so they began to bless them.

On the eve of college graduation, when many couples in love broke up due to various unstable factors, Jiang Yu still served as Gao Yan's strongest support. He told Gao Yan unsteadily, "Daughter-in-law, you can rest assured to pursue your dream. I will go wherever you go. Don't worry, I will definitely not let you be alone."

This time, Jiang Yu brought Gao Yan was not only moved, but in Gao Yan's heart, it was more practical and secure. Therefore, from that time on, Gao Yan had already made plans to marry Jiang Yu.

As fate would have it, in the second year after they graduated, Gao Yan had an unexpected pregnancy and had to advance their marriage. But faced with the sudden arrival of a child, she was inevitably panicked. After all, this was something unplanned. After all, she expected that after marrying Jiang Yu, they would spend a few more years together, waiting for both of them to mature and prepare to become parents before she would consider having children.

Now that things have happened, we need to find ways to deal with them. After returning home from get off work that day, Gao Yan pulled Jiang Yu, who was busy in the kitchen, to the sofa and said with a serious face, "Let me tell you something, so you should be mentally prepared."

After thinking about it for a while, Gao Yan slowly said, " "I, I have a child, but now seems not a good time to welcome his birth, what do you think?"

After hearing Gao Yan's words, Jiang Yu was stunned for three seconds before he came back to his senses. For a moment, he was as happy as A child, jumping up and down shouting that I am a father.

After a while, Jiang Yu squatted in front of Gao Yan and promised gently, "Daughter-in-law, it was fate that we met, and I believe that the arrival of this child will still be the same."So, you have to trust me unconditionally, okay? Besides, I heard that surgery is very harmful to women’s bodies. Don't worry, whether it's a wedding or anything else, leave everything to me. "

Gao Yan, who was still hesitant at first, suddenly felt more at ease. She left all the things to Jiang Yu, and Jiang Yu did not let her down. Whether it was the wedding ceremony or the guests' He was very meticulous in his hospitality.

After the marriage, Jiang Yu treated Gao Yan like a princess at first, but later on, Gao Yan gradually discovered that something was wrong. Her health and frequent pregnancy reactions prompted her to quit her job and raise the baby at home.

Obviously, Jiang Yu naturally agreed to this idea at first, and he said it very nicely, "It is painful to bring a wife back home, but now that you are like this. During hard times, it is my duty to make money to support my family and support you and your children. "

Later, Gao Yan really listened to Jiang Yu and resigned at home. At first, Jiang Yu's feelings towards her did not change and he was still careful and tolerant. But as time went by, she found that Jiang Yu seemed to have changed. Well, he is coming back later and later, and he is becoming more and more impatient with himself.

What is even more frustrating is that Jiang Yu, who had always said that raising his pregnant wife at home was his unwavering responsibility, gradually revealed his ugly face. . He began to find various reasons to quarrel with Gao Yan, and even asked his mother to take care of Gao Yan and take charge of the family's finances. He only gave Gao Yan a thousand yuan a month.

At that moment, Gao Yan woke up from a dream. But as a mother, she no longer cried. The living expenses provided by her husband were not enough, so she could only use the money given by her parents before marriage. This was the case until the child was born, and the conflict broke out this time. Siyuan still had money problems. When she was pregnant, she already spent a lot of money on her expenses, so she didn't want to fight for it this time. She still wanted to make trouble with her husband for the sake of the child.

That night, Gao Yan. Chat with Jiang Yu. Now that the child is born, do you think the one thousand yuan you gave me can handle these expenses?

"Why, one thousand yuan is not enough for your pocket?" Mom is also helping us save money. Can you stop being so ignorant and be more understanding of me? "

Seeing Jiang Yu's disgusted look, Gao Yan couldn't hold back any longer. She said very seriously, "Okay, in that case, then I'll go out to work and you can take care of the children at home. If you don't know how to take care of them, hire a nanny. After saying that, she rushed out of the door.

Outside the house, her mother-in-law heard the quarrel and joined in. She accused Gao Yan a few more words, "At first, our Jiang Yu wanted to marry you, and I didn't agree with it." , she must not be a good girl if she gets pregnant before marriage. Now, what are you thinking about hiring a nanny? She really has no life as a princess and is suffering from princess disease . "

The mother-in-law's vicious words were like needle pricks, each sentence piercing Gao Yan's heart. "Before I got married, wasn't I the apple of my parents' eye? "Thinking about it, she burst into tears. After leaving behind the word divorce, she returned to her parents' home alone.

Finally, I would like to ask everyone: Do you think you should be like Gao Yan in the face of such a marriage? Is it right to stop losses in time? Please leave a comment