Life in this world is a process of constantly encountering problems and solving them. So we often feel stressed. But we have to look at it oppositely.
For example, buying a house and paying for it make you stressed. This does not mean that there is no pressure without a house. Not having a house makes you insecure, without roots, and without shares in a good city, and the pressure is even greater.
Another example is raising children, which does put you under pressure. This does not mean that there is no pressure without children. Having children is not a mainstream lifestyle, and the pressure is even greater. And you have to use more efforts and greater achievements to prove that you are not escaping from life and not wasting your life.
In fact, if two people love each other well and run a family, they also have a very important function, which is to reduce stress. Love one person and be loved by one person. When you have children in the future, you will love several people and be loved by several people. Give love and receive love every day, and you will have great spiritual satisfaction. Economically, a family can be regarded as the smallest and most stable company. It divides labor and cooperates, coordinates two incomes, and its economic strength is more than doubled compared to that of a single person. Moreover, many benefits in China are provided to families as the smallest unit, such as the price of room tickets in some hot cities. A person who has a good love and a good family, whether financially or mentally, will be under more pressure than we are all children from ordinary families. If we handle it well, this is not a disadvantage. In an ordinary family, people cannot wait, rely on, or want, they can only work. Only by working can you develop your skills, only by working can you have opportunities, and only by working can you have a future. If we blame others, fear wolves before us, fear tigers from behind, or even cry and cry, we will not have a good life.
It’s time to start a family, it’s time to pay for a house, it’s time to have children. Don't run away from what you have to do, just do it. Only such people can have a good life
