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Zhuang Diexiaomeng/seeing the essence through stories

an original emotional number worthy of your attention

illustration/from the Internet

Indian writer Rabindranath Tagore wrote this passage in "Family and the World": "When God created us men At that time, he was just a teacher, with only theoretical textbooks and handouts in his bag; but when he was creating women, he became an artist, with brushes and palette boxes in his bag.

A man is. Rational, not emotional, but also know how to weigh the pros and cons.

Women are emotional, easily trapped by love, and often self-deception.

There is a saying on the Internet: "When a woman falls in love with you, you don't need to lie at all. She, because she would lie to herself. "

Others can see it clearly, but she is still immersed in her self-constructed love dream alone, which is really pitiful and hateful.

As a woman, you may not be as rational as men, but at least you must share A man's sincerity.

It doesn't matter how much you pay, but if he doesn't care about you, you should make corresponding plans.

The most obvious sign that a man doesn't love a woman is his emotions. Gillian once told a story about her relationship with her ex-husband on a show. She asked her ex-husband to hand over a towel, but he just threw it at her.

She shouted: "You got my eyes!" "

Her ex-husband didn't show any sign of comfort, nor did he intend to check on the situation.

At that moment, she knew that her ex-husband didn't love her at all, which also paved the way for their divorce.

Xie Na When she was pregnant, Zhang Jie once said in a show that he would rush back no matter how late it was. If he couldn't get back from the field, he would definitely call her for a long time, because Xie Na has the habit of insomnia.

Obviously, This is the difference between love and non-love.

When a man has you in his heart, he will pay special attention to your emotions. He is afraid that you will be sad and afraid that you will be angry, so he will try his best to convey emotional value to you.

But if a man never wants to. If he provides you with emotional value and doesn't care about your emotions, it only proves that he doesn't love you at all.

People's emotions are not the same, but love is. Because without love, You are just a stranger to him. How many people in this world would care about the happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy of a stranger?

The "deduction" of time will not accompany you

" My first half of life " 》In He Han has a completely different attitude towards Tang Jing and Luo Zijun. Many times when Tang Jing comes to him, he says that he is busy, but as long as Luo Zijun comes to him, he says that he is available at any time. .

In many cases, whether a man is free does not depend on how busy he is, but on the person he is facing.

For someone who doesn't care, he will naturally not be free, because he feels that it takes one more minute. Time is a waste; for someone you love deeply, no matter how busy he is, he can still find time because he can't wait to be by her side all the time. Gu Qianfan in

" Meng Hua Lu " was originally a cold-blooded person. He is a ruthless person who is busy with official duties all day long, but since he met Zhao Pan'er, he has more and more time.

He not only goes to see her when you have time, but also has time to take her out and prepare for her. All kinds of surprises.

As long as she needs him, he will appear by her side.

Men are never as complicated as everyone thinks. Although they don't talk about love or not, they do. On the face.

Some people can travel thousands of miles just to see you, and there are also people who live in the same city as you, but they never see you.

Time is no different, the difference is in people's hearts.

People who love you can split their time in two. People who don't love you won't want to spend it with you even if they have a lot of time.

There is a saying in the book that says very well: "Company is the longest confession of love."

How can a person have a long-lasting love if he is not even willing to give you companionship?

The "button" on money is that you can't bear to spend money if you don't get it.

Todd Rex once said: "Money never goes out of style."

Aristodemus once said: "Money creates human nature."

Money has The power of power often exceeds everyone’s imagination.

It is not only a temptation for people, but also a ruler. Through money, everyone can clearly see the degree of a man's love for a woman.

Xu Zhimo When he was with Zhang Youyi , he was an extremely irresponsible man. Although he married her, he did not love her.

In Xu Zhimo's mind, this marriage is not the destination of love, but the order of his parents and the mission of the matchmaker.

He has never made money to support Zhang Youyi, and Zhang Youyi is also a good wife and mother, never extravagant and wasteful, caring for her husband and raising children at home, and being filial to her parents-in-law.

But such a good wife was always despised by him. In order to divorce Zhang Youyi, he even asked her to have an abortion.

But since he married Lu Xiaoman, he seems to have changed. He is no longer so cold, but has become both passionate and humble.

Lu Xiaoman was one of the top ten talented women in the Republic of China and a very well-known socialite at the time. Due to her generous living environment since she was a child, her expenses were beyond the reach of ordinary people.

Xu Zhimo was born into a wealthy family, and his family was considered wealthy at the time, but he still couldn't support Lu Xiaoman's expenses.

In order to satisfy Lu Xiaoman's consumption, he worked several part-time jobs, running around and flying here and there, but he did not complain at all.

A man's attitude towards two women is so different. This is the difference between love and non-love.

If a man doesn't love you, spending a penny will feel like a waste, but if he loves you, even if he gives everything he has, he will always worry that he will wrong you.

Money can create human nature, but in the face of human nature, everyone is selfish.

A man is only willing to give without thinking of anything in return to the one he loves deeply, but for a woman he doesn't love, he will often be particularly stingy.

He has no intention of staying with you until the end, so he is calculating the cost of every penny he spends. Even if you get married, in his mind, you are not worthy of spending too much money on him.

Advice may be offensive and reality may be cruel, but it is all true.

Attitude "button", fussing over everything, never bowing down

Many people don't understand why some men behave so arrogantly in front of women, and never give in even when they quarrel.

In fact, the most fundamental reason is that he doesn't love you.

Because I don’t love you, I don’t care about your feelings.

Because he doesn't care about your feelings, he won't have a good attitude towards you.

Not only that, he is also very fussy and often quarrels with you over trivial matters.

For women, a man's attitude is a mirror, reflecting the degree of his love for you.

The deeper I love you, the more attitude I will have. If I don’t love you, I will naturally have nothing.

There is nothing wrong with women yearning for love, but they must find a man who loves them.

Only love that goes in both directions can bloom beautiful flowers and bear the best fruits.

Never get involved with a man who doesn't love you, because this relationship is destined to be harmful.

Zhuang Diexiaomeng/original author of the emotional column

May your life be full of surprises, may your happiness come as expected