The most passive way for a person to live is to live in the mouths of others.
When Xiao Min was in school, her grades were very poor. In front of her classmates with good grades, she felt extremely inferior. The thoughts and emotions of being inferior to others were always lingering in her heart. Teacher
is very biased. All resources are geared towards students with good grades. He will even praise these students to the sky, but is unwilling to look at students with poor grades. Occasionally, he will behave very badly towards students like Xiao Min. impatient.
In the eyes of teachers, students with poor grades will be considered across the board as having little potential and cannot do well in anything they do.
Teacher's behavior made Xiao Min feel even more inferior. She often couldn't hold her head up, and she also believed in her heart that she was really bad.
Because he was concerned about the outside world and agreed with his teacher’s negative view of him, Xiao Min spent his entire student life feeling inferior.
After entering the society, the mentality of inferiority and inferiority has always been with Xiao Min. She always puts herself very low, thinking that she is inferior just like she did when she was a student.
Due to her inferiority complex, she lived a miserable life and could only struggle at the bottom.
In fact, there are many people like Xiao Min who have done nothing in their lives because they were denied at an age when they should have received encouragement and recognition.
But there are also people who are not swayed by outside voices.
Xiaoyu is also a person with poor grades. The teacher not only dislikes him, but also thinks that he is a problem student, but he does not think that he is worthless because of this. After
entered the society, he relied on his hard-working spirit and resilience to refuse to admit defeat, and gradually made his business bigger and stronger.
Because he did not think he was bad, but believed in his heart that he could create miracles. In order to make up for the regret of not studying hard when he was young, he later re-took the postgraduate examination.
In his opinion, everyone has the same IQ. If others can do well, he can also do well. However, the time of awakening is different, and the time zone for success will be different.
As someone said, everyone will have their own development time zone. When you work hard, time will give you what you want.
When a person agrees with other people's opinions of himself, there will be a subconscious movement towards that standard in his heart.
What limits myself is actually that I agree with other people's conclusions about myself without thinking about it.
The most valuable thing for a person is not to pay attention to the voices of the outside world, do what you really want to do in your heart, believe that you can do what you want to do, and achieve it to the extreme.
hopes that everyone can break through the cage of prejudice and live a brand new self.
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