文丨宁一
Editor丨Auntie Entertainment
One day in 2003, Gan Ping suddenly said to her boyfriend Li Bing: "How about we break up? The outside world says that you divorced your ex-wife because of me."
Li Bing disagreed and analyzed: "No, if we break up now, doesn't it just mean that there is a problem between us. Not only can we not break up, but we must also be together openly, so as to break the rumors."
Gan Ping Why did you break up?
What exactly was reported in the media that led her to make such a decision?
This has to start with her and Li Bing's identities.
1
In 1970, Gan Ping was born in Hunan.
My parents are both literary and artistic workers, and they wanted to train their daughter to be a talented woman.
Ke Gan Ping has been a tomboy since she was a child. She doesn't like literature and art, but only loves sports.
The parents love this daughter very much.
My daughter likes sports, and her father spends her free time playing various sports with her.
Slowly, the father discovered that his daughter was most interested in table tennis.
However, playing table tennis requires a venue, and it is very inconvenient to exercise anytime and anywhere.
The father brought a pile of bricks and built a table tennis table for his daughter.
For Gan Ping, her father was omnipotent when she was a child.
When she was old enough to go to school, her parents sent Gan Ping directly to the Hunan Provincial Children's Sports School.
At the beginning, Gan Ping learned swimming, and later did gymnastics.
The parents were very happy and dreamed that one day their daughter would become a professional athlete and win glory for the country.
However, there are unforeseen circumstances.
Due to long-term physical exercise, Gan Ping accumulated many physical problems.
I went to the hospital for a check-up. The doctor’s advice was that it would be best not to do sports in the future.
Gan Ping's dream of becoming an athlete was shattered.
Being unable to be an athlete made Gan Ping sad for a while, and she became less talkative.
Moreover, as she grew older, Gan Ping became more and more quiet and liked reading more and more.
The parents were very happy, thinking that their daughter could finally become a "talented girl".
With the advice and encouragement of her parents, Gan Ping applied for Hunan University of the Arts. After graduation, she was assigned to the Flower Drum Opera troupe.
After systematic training, Gan Ping's singing skills became more and more outstanding.
In 1991, she participated in the "KENT" competition and won the runner-up. After
, he participated in many singing competitions and ranked well.
In this way, Gan Ping successfully became a singer.
In 1992, the album "How Are You, Big Brother" tailor-made for Gan Ping was released.
's title song of the same name became popular all over the country as soon as it was sung, and Gan Ping became known to more people.
It is worth mentioning that the familiar "The Sound of the Waves Are Still" is also included in Gan Ping's album.
However, Gan Ping sang "How Are You, Big Brother" and Mao Ning sang "The Sound of the Waves Are Still" popular.
At the same time, Li Bing, who is one year older than Gan Ping, is struggling for his football dream.
Li Bing, who was born in 1969, has loved playing football since he was a child.
At the age of 11, he was selected by the provincial youth team by virtue of his superior conditions and officially started his football career.
Li Bing is not only talented in football, but also very hardworking.
After training in the youth team for 5 years, he was selected into the first team of the province. He was only 16 years old at the time.
In 1994, Li Bing participated in the Asian Games for the first time. Although he still did not win the championship this time, his results still inspired many people.
Also in this year, Li Bing was spotted by Wang Hongli of Liaoning team and invited him to join the Liaoning team.
During the year he played for the Liaoning team, Li Bing won the title of " Mr. Football ".
Since then, Li Bing's football career has continued to be brilliant, and he did not retire until he was 33 years old.After
retired, Li Bing also chose to work behind the scenes and became a coach.
It was at this time that he met his second wife Gan Ping.
2
In 1996, Gan Ping and Li Bing were jointly invited to shoot an advertisement for Coca-Cola .
This was the first time the two met, but Gan Ping's first impression of Li Bing was not good.
The reason is that as an athlete, Li Bing's long sports career makes him look tall and dark.
Gan Ping had no sense of existence in front of him.
When she saw Li Bing for the first time, Gan Ping even thought to herself that the director had deliberately found this person.
Unexpectedly, during the filming, the director brought two cardboard boxes and asked Gan Ping to step on them.
thus made up for the height difference between the two and successfully completed the shooting.
After the filming, Gan Ping found out that the person who had just filmed the commercial with her was Mr. Football Li Bing.
Gan Ping is a little embarrassed.
Although she didn't express her thoughts just now, her attitude was indeed not a good one.
She took the initiative to ask Li Bing to apologize, but was told that Li Bing had left.
There was no other way, so Gan Ping had no choice but to go home.
At that time, Gan Ping and Li Bing were both on the rise in their careers. They were busy with their own affairs and soon forgot about this matter.
The next winter, Gan Ping went to Chengdu to perform.
met Li Bing on the plane. Because of their previous experience in shooting commercials, the two couldn't help but chat a few more words.
However, as soon as the plane landed, the two of them went their separate ways.
During this encounter, neither party left a deep impression on the other.
However, as the old saying goes, has come a long way to meet .
I missed it time and time again, maybe just because fate didn’t arrive.
As I said before, Gan Ping has had a sports dream since she was a child.
Only later due to physical reasons, he had to move to the literary and art world. After
became famous, Gan Ping took the initiative to join the star football team, fulfilling her childhood dream of being an athlete.
Once, the team invited some members of the national football team to attend a party, including Li Bing.
When the two met for the third time, Li Bing took the initiative to say hello to Gan Ping and joked that the fate between the two was really deep.
Gan Ping was also amused and chatted a little more with Li Bing.
Since then, the exchanges between the two have gradually increased.
However, the communication between them is limited to football and other sports.
Because at this time, Li Bing had a family.
After knowing that Gan Ping liked football, Li Bing would always invite Gan Ping to watch whenever there was a game.
In order to prevent others from gossiping, every time Gan Ping went to watch a game, she would always bring two more friends with her.
Li Bing didn't think it was a big deal. The fate between the two caused by football lasted until 2001.
This autumn, Gan Ping went to watch Li Bing's game as usual.
As a result, Li Bing was found to be dejected and listless.
Gan Ping quickly asked him what happened? Did something happen at home?
Gan Ping was a generous person. Seeing that Li Bing had been silent, she comforted him and said that no matter what happened, if he needed help, she would not refuse as long as Li Bing opened his mouth.
As a result, Li Bing said feebly: "I'm divorced."
Now it was Gan Ping's turn to be dumbfounded. Although he wanted to help, he really couldn't help with this kind of thing.
Gan Ping had no choice but to persuade him to find a way to save the marriage.
But Li Bing said that he had tried many ways to save his marriage during this period, but in the end he still reached the stage of divorce.
often travels around the world due to his work, and he stays away for several months.
spends less time together with his wife and more separation, and he has no time to take care of his family, so all the things at home fall on his wife.
His wife couldn't bear it anymore and asked him for a divorce.
Li Bing said that he also knew that he was ashamed of his wife and had promised her that he would take time to spend with his children and take care of the family in the future, but his wife was very firm and insisted on divorce.
Although he felt guilty, he could only sign.
The children belong to his ex-wife, and he also gave his house to his ex-wife.
Gan Ping did not expect that what Li Bing encountered would be this kind of thing.
She always thought that the reason why Li Bing could achieve such good results in football was because there must be a woman who helped him stabilize his rear.
But Li Bing told Gan Ping that he and his wife had different personalities and their marriage had already had problems.
Gan Ping comforted Li Bing for a while and left.
From then on, she took the initiative to alienate Li Bing and spoke to him less and less.
What Gan Ping was thinking was that Li Bing had just divorced and she was single. If the two of them got too close, it would be bad for both of them if gossip spread.
But Li Bing and Gan Ping were just the opposite. Li Bing, who was single again, took the initiative to get closer to Gan Ping.
And there are more and more topics to talk about, no longer limited to football.
It was precisely because of this that Li Bing discovered Gan Ping's big secret.
Li Bing discovered that Gan Ping actually had a daughter.
In 1999, Gan Ping once went to Chengdu to perform and met a girl named Xiao Jing.
Xiao Jing's family background is very poor. Her father has lost her labor force and her mother is also seriously ill and unable to work.
Seeing that this girl named Xiao Jing is about to lose the opportunity to go to school due to family reasons.
Gan Ping couldn't bear it and offered to bear all her study expenses and recognize her as her goddaughter.
Because of this, Xiao Jing avoided the tragedy of dropping out of school.
After knowing this, Li Bing had a better impression of Gan Ping.
I used to think that she was a glamorous star, but I didn't expect that Gan Ping not only sang well, but was also kind-hearted.
Li Bing felt that Gan Ping was the person he was looking for, and he decided to confess to Gan Ping.
In 2002, Gan Ping planned to go to Chengdu to visit Xiao Jing.
After Li Bing found out, he said he wanted to go too. He also gave a reason, saying that it would make Xiao Jing feel that many people are helping her and enhance her self-confidence.
Gan Ping thought it made sense and agreed to Li Bing's request to go with him.
Gan Ping didn't know that Li Bing was a drunkard who didn't care about drinking.
Along the way, Li Bing was thinking about how to speak.
But I can never find the right opportunity to say this.
Until the two got off the plane, at the airport, Li Bing poured out all his inner thoughts to Gan Ping.
As a result, Gan Ping said very calmly that the two were just friends.
Li Bing was dumbfounded. He clearly felt that Gan Ping didn't dislike him either, so how could he disagree?
But what Li Bing didn't expect was that the tragedy was still to come.
After returning from Chengdu, Gan Ping avoided him intentionally or unintentionally.
Before confessing their love, the two of them could still chat as friends. But after their confession was rejected, they couldn't even be friends.
But Li Bing did not give up. A few months later, after one of Gan Ping's performances, he confessed his love to Gan Ping for the second time.
Gan Ping was still the same this time and refused directly.
Li Bing really couldn't figure it out. Gan Ping clearly seemed to like him, so why didn't he agree to his confession?
Actually Gan Ping was also very distressed. She felt that Li Bing was engaged in sports and he was also a divorced man.
If they really get together, I wonder how much gossip will spread?
But Li Bing still didn't give up, and confessed his feelings to Gan Ping from time to time.
Gan Ping felt that she could not go on like this, so she began to avoid Li Bing again.
Push him as much as you can at a party. When he is with Li Bing, he won't talk if he can.
This situation lasted until 2003.
Gan Ping couldn't bear it anymore, so she told a friend about her troubles.
Unexpectedly, his friend laughed and said: "I thought something happened to you. Just this little thing makes you so worried. What does Li Bing's divorce have to do with you?"
Gan Ping did not expect that his friend would not care. Mind this, shocked and speechless.
's friend also knew what she was thinking, and continued: "Li Bing is divorced, then he is free and has the right to pursue any single girl. Besides, if you are afraid of others gossiping, the time when he divorced his ex-wife can also be used for you. Testify!"
After listening to this, Gan Ping felt that what her friend said was reasonable, but she was still a little worried.
After Li Bing confessed to herself again, Gan Ping thought that maybe what her friend said made sense, so why not give it a try.
agreed to Li Bing half-heartedly.
This made Li Bing very happy, and he talked endlessly to Gan Ping about his imagination of future life.
But soon, Li Bing discovered that he was happy too early.
Although the two of them were together, Gan Ping never went shopping with him, and she never publicly acknowledged their relationship.
Because Gan Ping suddenly learned that in order to protect his son, the news of Li Bing's divorce from his ex-wife was not disclosed to the public.
In this case, in the eyes of outsiders, wouldn’t he become the person who destroys other people’s marriages?
But paper cannot cover the fire after all.
More and more people know about the relationship between Gan Ping and Li Bing.
In 2004, Gan Ping publicly admitted her relationship with Li Bing when participating in an event.
Most people sent their blessings.
But there are always those who disagree.
And it’s the one Gan Ping fears the most.
Shortly after she admitted her relationship, a media fabricated the story that Li Bing's divorce was all because of Gan Ping.
As soon as this report came out, everyone accused Gan Ping.
There are also many fans who don't know the truth and call Gan Ping to ask if this is true.
This incident caused tremendous pressure on Gan Ping. She kept explaining that the reports were not true and that she only got together with Li Bing after his divorce.
But her explanation pales in front of the rumors.
Gan Ping couldn't stand this and said to Li Bing: "It seems that we are not destined, so we should separate."
Li Bing disagreed. He said: "Not only can we not separate, I also want to marry you. Let the rumors be unfounded. "
In 2004, Li Bing and Gan Ping held a wedding. The wedding was very simple. Both of them only invited their relatives and best friends to attend.
didn’t expect that even though it was so low-key, there were still rumors leaking out.
Some people even say that Gan Ping and Li Bing were together as early as 1994, and it was Gan Ping who forced Li Bing to divorce her and marry her.
Faced with this kind of slander, Li Bing couldn't sit still. He stood up to defend his wife, saying that he had been divorced long ago, and that he proposed the marriage himself, and there was no such thing as forced marriage.
Although the two clarified, the rumors spread far beyond their imagination.
This incident made Gan Ping exhausted physically and mentally. For a while, she even quit the music scene and no longer participated in any public performances except for her own unit's performances.
However, rumors are just rumors after all. As Gan Ping became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter, her relationship with Li Bing became better and better, and no one paid attention to those rumors.
Later, it is said that the media that wrote the false report apologized to Gan Ping and Li Bing.
This is enough to prove Gan Ping's innocence.
However, Gan Ping no longer cares.
Through that incident, she also understood that the rumors would never stop.
In this case, it is better to live your own life, and those who are clean will be clean themselves.
