There is a fat man next door, nine in twenty, unemployed and at home. His family urged him to get married and start a business, but he said there was no way to start a family if he couldn't succeed in his career, so the family could only sigh. A fat man with a college degree. His most glorious career was working as a regional warehouse manager for a well-known domestic brand. After leaving his job, he fell into a state of despair: he couldn't do big things and couldn't do small things. He can be regarded as a middle-aged useless man who is popular nowadays. He was betting that a Bole with a keen eye for talents would appear.
took the fat man to visit a friend he hadn’t seen for a long time.
In the tea room, there is a pile of business study and research manuscripts. What is being typed up and down on the keyboard is the business copy of a certain company. My friend looks a little unkempt, but there is a certain light of determination and persistence in his eyes. He is already forty-seven years old. Looking at his non-stop study and unfinished writing, he does not feel at all the relaxation that should be expected at this age. I asked with a smile why it was like this, and the answer was that although there is no achievement, it is good to be fulfilled. At that moment, I glanced at the fat man, and he seemed to be touched. He was less confused and more thick.
My friend, he lived a rich and fulfilling life, and did not deliberately gamble on an outcome that was far away.
Along the way, confusion and hesitation are inevitable. Some people say that if you have a pattern and stand at a higher latitude, you can avoid such earthly troubles. The structure must be based on meeting the needs of the bottom class. Many people may not necessarily have this. If you are still struggling for three meals a day and how to survive, it will not be enough to gain a foothold. Therefore, pattern is not necessarily a panacea that can cure confusion and wandering.
What I want to say here is that unrealistically betting on an outcome that is far away is likely to be the source of confusion and hesitation. Take it one step at a time, don't aim too high, don't belittle yourself, inner richness and strength are the magic weapons to achieve a fulfilling life.
Come for one thing, leave for one thing
