Girls in rural areas get married early, which is inseparable from the parents' ideas. You have to admit that there are still many places where the idea of ​​favoring boys over girls is true. Some parents hope that their daughters will marry off early so that they can use the brid

The fact that girls in rural areas get married early is inseparable from the parents' ideas. You have to admit that there are still many places where the idea of ​​favoring boys over girls is true. Some parents hope that their daughters will marry off early so that they can use the bride price to subsidize their sons.

Girls in these places generally have low educational attainment because their parents think that girls are going to get married anyway and studying is useless, so they drop out of school early and don’t know what marriage is for, so they get married very early. She gave birth to a baby very early and then became a housewife.

After living such a life, some girls will be willing to live such a life, and some want to go out to work and see the world. After seeing the social market and encountering some temptations, they will easily look down on their husbands who are not in good condition.

After having such a mind, it is very easy to cheat. This is because when she was too young, her temperament was unstable. When she was more stable, she already had children, and when she had a desire to compare, it was very easy to "eat the bowl first" "The one in the bowl looks at the one in the pot." When both the things in the bowl and the things in the pot become a dream, only then can we recognize the reality.

At this point, too much energy has been consumed on false emotions. At this time, the children are not properly disciplined, and their own development is also delayed. How can I be happy?

Therefore, the more stories you read, the more pitiful people are, and the more emotionally unhappy people are, the more you should look for problems within yourself. Only when your problems can be resolved through your own abilities, will you have the ability to be happy.

Happiness must first be self-reliant. When you find your own value, you will be less susceptible to the temptation to change yourself. When you make yourself the best, your destiny will naturally unfold a different picture.

However, it is not easy to be yourself. Many people often put their hope in another person because they cannot make any breakthrough. This kind of mentality of seeking salvation will make them passive and tolerate many things involuntarily. , Secondly, even if you find another person to save you, it may not be stable. You have to pay for what you get.

Girls still need to make their own money and spend it as early as possible. Only when they have their own spiritual pursuits can they embark on the other side of freedom and happiness.