hopes that through this case, all the elderly can pay attention. If you can afford not to remarry, try not to remarry. Few old people can be happy when they remarry. Isn’t it good to live alone? Why bother? Just like the old man in the article, he thought he had found true love and thought he would be happy. I can't survive another three months. Who can blame this ending? Not only will everything be lost by then.
may make you miserable. You may even harm your children because of your actions. This is not necessary, so the old man should live his life peacefully. What is going on? Let's take a look at this together. The 75-year-old man remarried and the 42-year-old aunt divorced after three months. The aunt said: We are a family. The man said: Get lost.
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75-year-old Uncle Guo:
I was wrong. I shouldn't have remarried, and I regret it now. I had to find it, my son wanted 100,000 yuan. Otherwise, Xiaoli would not even want to divorce me. Let me tell you about my personal experience. I hope that through my personal experience, I can make all elderly people pay attention, especially men.
If you can remarry, you must not remarry, and don't be obsessed with it. Not many old people who remarry can be happy to the end. Xiaoli and I remarried a year ago. My child doesn't agree with this. My child scolded me when he knew I was asking about this.
My child told me that you are already old and will die soon. Wouldn't remarrying now be just causing trouble for yourself? At that time, I wanted to remarry. The first reason was because I felt that I needed to find someone to take care of myself, and I didn’t want to trouble my children with my own affairs.
I believe that this is the reason why many old people remarry or stay with others. They don’t want to trouble their children with their own affairs, and they don’t want to become a burden to their children. That's why I want to remarry. I always think that I will live a better life after remarriage. I always think that after remarriage, I will have someone to accompany me and someone to take care of me. But have you ever thought about something? 1+1 is less than 1.
probably means that even if you remarry, two people together are not as good as you alone. When you are alone, you have enough to eat and the whole family is not hungry. If something happens to you, it is only one person's business, and it will not harm everyone because of one person's things. But it will be different if you remarry. After you remarry, you are no longer alone.
Old man, please note, don’t remarry if you can. My son won't let me remarry. But Xiaoli told me, he is your son, shouldn’t he listen to you? Why do you listen to him? Do you want to be with me? Didn't we agree that we would take care of each other if we accompany each other?
In order to be with you, I have rejected other people. You also know that there are many men pursuing me. There are two employers who are pursuing me and want me to be with them. I chose to refuse. Why did I refuse? Isn’t it because of you? Because I feel more comfortable being with you.
That's why I want to be with you, but now you tell me that you can't marry me, what's going on? If you don't get married, I won't be with you. If you don't get married, it won't be with you. At a loss... I told Xiaoli that I would tell my children about this matter, and then they would definitely agree to us being together. Xiaoli told me, forget it, there is no use telling your child.
How about we decide first and then tell the story, I will marry you first, and then tell your children after we are married, we will live so happily by then, and the girl will not say anything. Many old people want to remarry, and then they are taught by others. They will choose to kill first and then show off, just like me now.
Old people can't be like this no matter what. Once you act first and then show off, you will definitely be the one who regrets it. Cutting first and reporting later will harm not only yourself, but also your children. This is how I harmed my child. At the same time, I also harmed myself. I thought I had gained happiness, I thought I had gained everything, but I didn’t expect that I actually lost everything and harmed my children.
I'll get married first and then get married.My children didn't agree. I didn't let them know about it until after I got married. At that time, I thought they would live a happier life after getting married. Why did Xiaoli reveal his true purpose after getting married? On the surface he is my wife. But he was only with me for money. We had agreed at the beginning that we would accompany each other and take care of each other.
After getting married, he took his three children into his home. Xiaoli told me, I am your wife and we are all a family. If you don’t help me raise my three children, who will? I didn't tell you this at first because I was afraid you wouldn't agree.
Now that we are married and I am your wife, these three children are also your children, and you have to agree to raise them. But I won’t let you suffer. As long as you raise them up, they will help you if you need anything in the future. If that's the case, you won't suffer, right?
So don’t think so much, just help me raise my three children. What can i say? Seeing that I didn't say anything, Xiaoli told me again that you have to pay for your children's education. The child attends an aristocratic school, which costs 30,000 yuan per year, and 90,000 yuan for three children.
I know you are rich, otherwise I would not be with you. All I do is for the children, the children, and you. As long as you give your children everything, your children will be responsible for you and treat you well if you need them in the future. Now if you give me tens of thousands of dollars, I will sign up my children to study. He is Xiaoli if he doesn’t give money, but he gets the money himself.
Because he is my wife and has my ID card and all my information. Just go to the bank and get my money. If he doesn't have a password, reset it. That's my wife. And he took me with him again. Originally I wanted to say that I forgot my password. He reset my password for me.
was present and had an ID card, and he was my wife. He set a password for me reasonably and legally. Finally he took out all the money. Many people say why don’t you resist? What I want to say is how I resist. The bank card is with him, and everything is with him. What's more important is that I'm not good enough for him. At night he even beat me.
At that time, I wanted to sleep in the same room with him, but he told me that you are too old to sleep with me. You can go next door. After all, I grind my teeth when I sleep, and I am afraid that I will disturb you when I sleep. sleep. And I hope you live a long life. If you sleep in my room, you will be disturbed by me.
If you are not disturbed by me, you will not be able to sleep well. Once you cannot sleep well, your life will be much longer. If that's the case, who will accompany me in the future? I definitely disagree. He is my wife, why can’t we be together? We had a quarrel because of this matter. After that, Xiaoli also beat me.
Xiaoli slapped me on the face. Xiaoli asked me angrily, what on earth is going on? Are you looking for a fight? I won't let you in. If you insist on coming in, do you still want to fight? Then the two of us started fighting. Then I couldn't beat him, after all, I was old. I lost two teeth because of this incident.
took away all my deposits. Then he told me that if you die one day. then what do I do? I am your wife. If you are not responsible for me, who will be responsible for me? You must be responsible for me. And my children are also your children. If you leave, what will my children do?
For the good of us children, and also to be responsible for me. Otherwise, just write a suicide note now. Leave all your possessions to us. Only in this way can we be happy, don't you think? I wanted to say something else, but Xiaoli took out a suicide note. And let me sign it.
I definitely disagree. If I agree with this matter, I will die one day. So is all this going to be given to him? I can't stand this. I still wanted to resist, but he didn't give me a chance to resist and beat me again.I shouldn't have remarried Xiaoli. If I hadn't remarried him, this wouldn't have happened.
The more I think about it, the more I regret it, and the more I think about it, the more uncomfortable I become. The house is gone, and now I still feel that my life is in danger at any time. Because once something happens to me, once I am no longer so proud, only Xiaoli will be the one. I didn't even dare to tell my child that I shouldn't have been with Xiaoli in the first place. No wonder my child didn't agree. When I asked again, it turned out to be this.
Later I found out that Xiaoli was still with other men. She hugged and hugged the man in front of me, and even invited the man to come home for dinner. He also told me that the person was his cousin, but in fact I knew that the person was not his cousin at all. But his lover.
That night, the man was asked to stay at home overnight. I'm definitely not happy about it. As I expected, I was beaten again that night. Lock me in the room. If I hadn't secretly hidden a mobile phone, I wouldn't have been able to tell my children. I told my child, and my child blamed me. That day my child asked me to go to their place and explain things clearly.
I made this clear to my child, and my child told me, who can be blamed for this ending? If you want to blame, blame yourself. I didn’t remarry you in the first place, but you insist on remarrying someone else. Are you coveting someone else’s beauty or something like that? Now between a rock and a hard place. My other child said, forget it, it happened, so don’t blame him.
said it was useless, just find a way to get a divorce, otherwise it would be difficult to live in the future, and it was impossible to leave both of dad's houses to them. We also paid for the house...and then they asked me to go back and divorce Xiaoli. I told Xiaoli about this when I got home.
But Xiaoli did not agree to divorce. If he must get a divorce, then he should be given a house as compensation and a divorce fee of 100,000 yuan for the divorce. I don't agree with that. My child also knows about this. My child said, what is the difference between being a wife and robbing you?
How long have you been together? Now you need a house and 100,000 yuan in compensation. How can we have so much money and give them hundreds of thousands for a house? Another child said that if he didn't give it, he would occupy both houses in the future... Then my son said that he didn't want to care about this matter anymore. He said that he didn't want to remarry if he didn't give it to him.
After finishing speaking, my son left. The other child was also hard to say, and then he left too. It's all my fault. If I hadn't remarried, would I have gotten into such big trouble? People have a purpose when they are with you, and 99% of women have a purpose when they are with the elderly.
doesn’t want to take advantage of you, so how could he be with you? Is it because he wants you to be older? Just think about it and you will know that I should not remarry if I regret it too much. I had to beg my son to give me money. If you don't have money, you really can't get divorced. If you can't get divorced, you won't be able to live in this life. I also want to keep a house for my son. I hope that through my case, all the elderly can pay attention. Finally, I asked my son to give me 100,000 yuan for divorce...
Conclusion:
Who can be blamed for such a tragedy? Would it still be like this if I hadn't remarried? If it weren't for the fact that the old man was obsessed with things or couldn't stand the test. Will these things happen? I hope this case can make all the elderly pay attention. I hope all the elderly can withstand the test.
Otherwise, you will end up like this old man. Don't think that you are different from this old man, and don't think that this kind of thing will not happen to you. What I want to say is that there are some things that you have to pay attention to. If you don't pay attention, it is very likely to happen to you. Don't be afraid of 10,000, just be afraid of the eventuality.
accident or tomorrow, do you know which one comes faster? No one knows which one will come faster, so we have to pay attention to these things, not only for ourselves but also for our families. Just like the old man in the article, he thought he would be happy at first, but he didn't expect that he would end up harming himself and his children.
Why bother, so sometimes we must pay attention to certain things. I also hope that through this case, all the elderly can understand this truth. There is no happiness in remarriage. Stop messing around, it's fine to live alone, one person can eat enough and the whole family won't be hungry.
