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As for the second reason: I think that a beautiful woman will definitely be pursued by many people. She is very competitive and difficult to pursue.
As the name suggests, some people think that if a beautiful woman is particularly beautiful, there will definitely be many people pursuing her. If a beautiful woman is pursued by too many people, it will be difficult for them to catch up.
It sounds like such people have low self-esteem and low self-confidence. In fact, this is also very realistic. In other words, pursuing someone who is beautiful and has many suitors is indeed not pursuing someone who has few suitors. , easy to pursue.
So, what about this second reason? As women, we need to let go of a more traditional understanding of relationships, which is that "only men chase women, no women chase men." In other words, when it comes to pursuing the person you like, both men and women are equal and have the same To pursue the right and freedom of love, you don’t have to be constrained by your gender and identity.
puts it more clearly. As a woman, if no one dares to approach you because you are too beautiful, in this case, you can try to change from passive to active, and actively pursue and approach the person you like. As the saying goes It is said: "A man pursues a woman across a mountain, and a woman pursues a man across a veil." Don't give up your right to actively pursue love just because you are a woman.
As for the third reason: thinking that if you are too beautiful, you will easily be jealous of others, and you will not feel safe after being together.
means that in the eyes of some men, if they fall in love or get married to a very beautiful woman, they will have some insecurities and will always worry, "She will go with someone else one day and leave me. What?" "
In the final analysis, this kind of insecurity comes from men's disbelief in themselves, their disbelief in the characteristics or charm of retaining each other, and their disbelief in women, their disbelief in the ability of beautiful women to keep their partners. Stay loyal to love.
In this case, as a woman, if you want to solve this problem, you must solve the problem of belief. Don't be proud of your beauty and act recklessly. Let men see the side of yourself and be with friends of the opposite sex. When getting along, you should keep a certain distance and let them know that you have a bottom line and principles in how you behave and do things.
Slowly, this kind of "belief" will accumulate over time, and the current situation that no one dares to approach or pursue will be improved to a certain extent.
Changyan Changyu:
is too beautiful and no one dares to approach it, what should I do? First, don’t use your identity as a woman to set limits for yourself. When you meet someone of the opposite sex you like, boldly pursue it. You must understand that what is worse than a failed confession is the missed opportunity to be together.
Secondly, in order to hint to others that "you are still single", you need to show it in some details, such as rings on your fingers, other accessories, etc.
Third, if you are too beautiful, no one dares to approach you. In fact, it is because people who are too beautiful will give others a sense of "insecurity." To solve this insecurity, you must strengthen your own principles in dealing with others. sex.
Fourth, you can be aloof, but you should also show your approachable and affable side at the right time.
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I am Changtan Shengsheng, a member of the Family Education Bureau, focusing on family emotions and various aspects of life. Together, we use our experiences to deliver positive energy (News are posted on time at 7:30 every morning)!
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