After writing this title, I immediately remembered an interesting incident in the 1990s.
At that time, I was working in the factory union. A colleague was caught and raped in bed by his wife because he had sex with someone else. The mother-in-law also came to investigate and accuse him.
Faced with the mother-in-law’s questioning, this guy was confident: Do you blame me? Your daughter can't satisfy me!
As a result, the old mother-in-law turned around and left. I couldn't help but laugh after hearing this: Although I don't agree with your nonsense, I admire your courage to face the need!
I remember Mr. Lu Xun’s famous saying: Everyone is a gentleman during the day, and everyone is a “villain” at night. (laughing)
Most Chinese people do what they should do at night, but they can’t say what they have done. It seems that the problem this couple solved is some kind of scandal. Especially women, they must use "You go take a shower"? Or code words like "I've finished taking a shower." Or finish the housework early and express your needs in this way.
If the other party cannot recognize or ignores it, the woman will be disappointed and angry, throw the basin throw the bowl to express her anger.
can express needs in the most direct way, isn't it language? "I'm very lonely at the moment, I need you to care about me, comfort me, I want...", isn't it good?
Immature people have a sense of shame and are afraid to face their own needs.
If you have something to say, just say it directly. This is a sign of maturity.
