Men take the initiative to give you these, and most of them regard you as true love

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Sometimes, love or not love is extremely obvious, as long as you don’t choose to deceive yourself, it’s easy to recognize it, and then make the right judgment. So as not to hurt yourself.

Especially for men, they have two gestures when they face girls who like and dislike.

Some men like to play with emotions, and are eager to be admired and loved by women to satisfy their vanity, so they will tease many women at the same time, but they will not be sincere to any one.

This kind of shameless and promiscuous affection is not love, it's just pure play on occasion.

In Jane Austen 's novel " Mansfield Mansfield ", the male protagonist Henry Crawford vividly reflects this point.

The two heroines, Maria and Julia, will also be jealous and jealous because of their love and love, and they will show vividly.

In the novel, there are two beautiful ladies in Mansfield Manor, one of them is Maria and the other is Julia, both of whom are the daughters of Sir Thomas.

has a wealthy family and good looks, and is loved by many people.

One day, Mr. Henry Crawford came out and walked into their lives. He was not only rich, but also a handsome man.Let these two sisters fall in love with him at the same time.

Actually, Henry Crawford’s arrival was purposeful. He has no affection for the two sisters, but just a trick to see if the two sisters will fall in love with him and add a little bit to his ordinary life. Different kind of fun.

He constantly dealt with the two sisters, expressing his liking for them when he saw them in private, and constantly teasing Maria and Julia to make them fall in love with him.

Facts have proved that his strategy has indeed worked.

The two sisters really fell in love with him. Although Maria herself was engaged to another man, she still fell in love with Henry and became jealous with her sister.

They constantly competed with Henry Crawford to show how much he cared about him. They wanted to show that Henry liked him more and the relationship between sisters also appeared problems.

In fact, Henry Crawford loves no one. What he really loves is the feeling of being surrounded by women. He is vain and likes to play with feelings. When a woman believes it, it is the beginning of the injury.

It can be seen that a man who truly loves you will not give you this feeling of uncertainty. If he is half-hearted, he will definitely not be trustworthy.

Only a man who really loves you will take the initiative to give you the following things. Even if you occupy one, it is worth cherishing. If the same is not given, it probably means that you are not serious.

1: Give you his special love,One heart and one heart for you

A man who treats you as a true love, will not still pick up other opposite sexes when he is with you, because he knows that you will be jealous and sad when he is with you.

From the moment he fell in love with you, he has only you in his eyes and in his heart.

And those men who just want to play on the spot and play with you, not only will not be devoted to you, but will also be half-hearted to you, so you can't feel any sense of security.

Just like the Henry Crawford mentioned above, he fought two sisters at the same time, making them fall in love with himself, but in fact, he loves no one, he just simply plays with his emotions.

is so half-hearted, for people who are irresponsible in their feelings, they are not worthy of your love, let alone the association with them.

2: Give you his preference, and only you are the only one in his eyes

Sanmao , I used to say: The same, then I don't want it.

This sentence seems very headstrong, but in fact it pointed out the needs of women in love and the characteristics of true love.

True love must have the exclusivity of . When he loves you, he will give you his preference and let you feel that you are different from others in his eyes.

this preference,It is the most direct proof of true love. If he treats you and others the same, it probably means that you have nothing special, and he may not have the true affection, but just treat you as an ordinary friend.

At this time, you have to measure whether he is worthy of you to continue to pay, so as not to make a mistake and make yourself bruised.

III: Give you a visible future that makes you feel at ease and reassurance

If the above two points are not enough to explain all the problems, then this point .

wants to know if a man regards you as true love and is determined to spend the rest of his life with you. Just see if he has considered the future between you.

The person who carefully plans your future will most likely regard you as the other half of the future. He is not just playing with you, but thinking about the long-term future. People like

are truly trustworthy and trustworthy.

There are many girls who have been in love for a long time, but still feel insecure. Even if the boyfriend responds to his message a little later, he will still feel at risk of gains and losses.

You have this feeling, not necessarily because of being too sensitive or distrusting the other party, but it may also be because he has not taken practical actions to make you feel at ease and relieved.

If he carefully plans for your future, you will feel safe and secure at this time.

do men treat you as true love,In fact, it is easy to see.

If in the process of getting along, he takes the initiative to give you his special love, preference and future, most of it means that he is serious, on the contrary, if the same cannot be given, most of it means that he is just acting on occasion.

Only by discerning carefully can you avoid misreading the wrong person and let yourself be hurt.

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