There are all kinds of wonderful works in the society. When we get married, we will encounter various puzzling people and behaviors. Our common gold worshipers and phoenix men are such people, but even if they become people The object of criticism, but it is difficult to guarantee that he will not meet such a person when getting married.
Phoenix man may be someone that many girls don't want to meet, but there are still many marriages with Phoenix man. Because Phoenix men are actually very good marriage partners in essence, because although they were born poor, they can get a good life with their own efforts, which makes people admire them.
But the reason why they are not suitable for marriage is not because they have not worked hard enough, but because of their character and character. Perhaps because of the growth environment, most Phoenix men are very conceited and very selfish. Even if you get married, you will not put your family and wife first. Such a marriage is chilling.
Netizen Chen Qian met such a phoenix man. She thought that she could live a better life with the joint efforts of the two, but she did not expect that everything she did was not worth mentioning to her husband. , Even he didn't put his natal family and his parents in his eyes, and Chen Qian finally chose to divorce. Let's take a look at her story.
arrogant Phoenix man
was originally a colleague of Chen Qian and XuChen Qian had a good impression of Xu Qiao because of her help. In addition to being in the same company, Chen Qian always heard people say how difficult it is for Xu Qiao and how hard it took to live the life of today. Gradually, Chen Qian felt that Xu Qiao must be a down-to-earth man.
Later, the two had the opportunity to be responsible for the same project. After a long time in contact, Xu Qiao also noticed Chen Qian’s goodwill towards him. When everyone gathered after the project, Xu Qiao also took this opportunity Ask Chen Qian for confirmation.
Although Chen Qian is introverted, she didn't want to give up this opportunity, so she followed the steps to express her confession to Xu Qiao. Xu Qiao naturally wouldn't refuse. Since then, the two have become lovers that everyone in the company knows.
After being together, they had other contacts besides work, and Chen Qian also began to understand Xu Qiao more deeply. Xu Qiao was indeed born in the countryside, and he is indeed one of the few college students in the village, so it is really admirable to be able to fight on his own to this day.
But after a long time, Chen Qian found that Xu Qiao was not as steady and steady as she thought, but rather had some arrogance. When two people talked about work and had different opinions, Xu Qiao always accused Chen Qian in a disdainful manner.
This made Chen Qian very uncomfortable, but Xu Qiao entered the company two years earlier than Chen Qian, and indeed had more experience, so Chen Qian did not think this was a big problem. Just think of Xu Qiao's direct character, and he doesn't know how to express it euphemistically.
After two years together,Xu Qiao felt that there was enough time, so he asked Chen Qian to marry him. However, when he proposed to marry him, Xu Qiao didn't prepare any romantic scenes, but bought a very cheap ring. It seemed that he was sure that Chen Qian would agree to himself, and although Chen Qian had been looking forward to this day, when he saw Xu Qiao's proposal, he said that he was not disappointed.
Help to her husband after marriage
However, Chen Qian finally agreed to Xu Qiao’s proposal, and the marriage of the two people was also put on the agenda. Because Chen Qian's family was in the local area, Chen Qian took Xu Qiao home to see her parents.
When I arrived at Chen Qian's house, Xu Qiao's arrogance was slightly reduced, and he was more polite to Chen Qian's parents. Knowing Xu Qiao's experience, Chen Qian's parents also felt that Xu Qiao was not easy, and they also had some admiration for this young man.
But after all, this is the daughter's marriage. Thinking of Xuqiao's family conditions, they still have some concerns, so they asked Xuqiao about his plans for marriage.
"Are you planning to do it? I don't have much money now. I guess I will rent a house first after we get married, and then we two will save money together, and then buy a house if we save enough."
Chen Qian's parents looked a little dignified when they heard that, after thinking about it, they asked how much Xu Qiao intends to give Chen Qian as a gift. However, Xu Qiao became a little unhappy when he heard the word "beautiful gift".
"I don’t know why I have to give a gift,Although I have a decent job now, your two elders should also know my family conditions. Do I have to pay a lot of money? I can guarantee that I am sincere to Chen Qian, can't you think about it for me?
Xu Qiao’s question embarrassed Chen Qian’s family, and Chen Qian’s parents were also a little angry. Finally, it was only after Chen Qian’s persuasion that they gave up their breath and chose to be considerate of Xu Qiao, but they still didn’t want to The daughter was wronged and bought a wedding room, but they kept their eyes on it. The name of Chen Qian’s father was written in the wedding room.
Xu Qiao’s family reacted to this There was no opinion about the marriage, so the two got married naturally. After the marriage, Xu Qiao and Chen Qian said that they would fight for the future, and asked Chen Qian’s father to help him clear the relationship so that he could get more projects. Chen Qian also asked her father to help him several times, but in Chen Qian's mind, this approach is still not good.
But whenever Chen Qian refused, Xu Qiao would get angry and said Chen Qian would not do it. Being a family by herself. This approach also disappointed Chen Qian, because Xu Qiao seemed to think that all of this should be done.
is selfish and taken for granted
span3span span3spanWhen she was a little greedy, Chen Qian’s parents persuaded Chen Qian.
"Daughter, so marriage is a big deal, but a person’s life is even more important.At that time, I thought Xu Qiao was a motivated person, but now I find that he is unconscionable. If you feel that you can't live with him, your parents will support your divorce.
With the backing of her parents, Chen Qian is also relieved a lot, but she still hasn’t made up her mind to divorce Xu Qiao. She just doesn’t let Xu Qiao mess around with some things.
However, their life problems are less, but Chen Qian's poor mother-in-law has an accident and fainted directly when she went out to work. Wait until Xu Qiao and Chen Qian took her in. At that time, people went straight into the operating room.
Xu Qiao didn’t have much money in his hands, and Chen Qian and her parents borrowed to advance the medical and surgical expenses of her mother-in-law, but the final result made them even more worried.
Xu Hashimoto wanted Chen Qian to borrow from her father-in-law and her mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law’s follow-up treatment needed more money. There was not much money. When they were in a hurry, Xu Qiao hit their idea on the marriage room of the two of them.
But Chen Qian felt that this was a house bought by her parents, and they had already borrowed it from their parents. I've got a lot of money, and it's time to find Xu Qiao's relatives. However, Xu Qiao is not happy anymore, "Don't you know that my relatives are poor? Your parents have money, why are they not willing to pay? "
Chen Qian was speechless, "That's your mother, no matter how rich my parents are, it has nothing to do with you." "
"Your parents are obliged to help my mother treat the disease.""Xu Qiao was very unreasonable, and Chen Qian was completely chilled. Especially after asking, Chen Qian discovered that Xu Qiao did not intend to repay the money borrowed from his parents before, which made Chen Qian completely recognize Xu. Bridge.
and Chen Qian did not hesitate anymore and chose to divorce Xu Qiao directly. Xu Qiao felt that Chen Qian's family was very cold-blooded and did not refuse. As a result, after the divorce, Chen Qian's family asked Xu Qiao to pay back the money. Xu Qiao was unwilling to be soft, and after all the money was paid back, he became a pauper.
Actually Xu Qiao showed some characteristics of a Phoenix male before marriage, but Chen Qian did not let go. In my heart. After getting married, I found out that Xu Qiao was too arrogant and selfish. After her mother-in-law fell ill, Chen Qian's family had already provided the greatest help, but Xu Qiao felt that these were all because the conditions of Chen Qian's family were better than her own. It should be. In the end, Chen Qian was completely chilled, and he was beaten back to his original form.
In fact, there are a lot of phoenix men like this in society, but their shortcomings do make it happen before marriage. People think it’s nothing. So why do so many girls find that they can’t live with them and choose to divorce after they get married, because Phoenix men’s selfishness, love of face, and love of swollen faces to fill up a fat man are the deadliest blow to marriage.
So no matter what the reason, when facing marriage, you must be cautious, and you should choose to stop the loss in time when you find that the other party does not care much about marriage and yourself, but only care about the benefits. Not everything seems to work hard People who are right are a good choice, because they may only care about themselves. Marriage is not a child’s play, and it should never be sloppy. If you meet a Phoenix man, it’s better not to marry.
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