Not being angry is being tolerant to yourself

2021/10/0923:55:02 emotion 304
In the

documentary "119 Please Answer", there is a quarrel with a father and son surnamed Luo

each other pouring white wine and lighting the whole body.

In the end, Ronaldinho spent two to three million yuan on medical expenses, Lao Luo was infected too seriously, and died two days after the rescue.

Ronaldinho's mother was in grief, and

's originally inadequate home fell into the boundless darkness.

There is no serious contradiction in this family. The father and son drove on the construction site, stayed up all night every day, and was often owed wages. Both of them felt miserable.

drank boring wine and started arguing.

When Lao Luo shouted "If you have the ability, just order me" and immediately lit the lighter, everything went back.

Temporary impulsive emotions ruined not only others, but also themselves.​


Not being angry is being tolerant to yourself - DayDayNews

​Author Li Ao , when talking about his teacher Yin Haiguang , I was very sad.

Once, when Yin Haiguang was eating at home, he suddenly became angry when he thought of a hostile person, and was so angry that he couldn't even eat.

Because of his upright nature, every time the teacher sees an injustice, he gets angry.

After a long period of time, it is inevitable that the mood will become depressed. The teacher died of illness at the age of 49.

And the person who was hostile to him lived to be 89 years old.

After experiencing the teacher’s incident, Li Ao was deeply touched. He said:

"No matter what happens in life, I am not angry. I am playing with you. People who live a long time are more Big winner."

It is said that getting angry with all diseases and being angry with people and things that are not worthy is the most stupid behavior.

​​ Nietzsche said in "The Other Side of Good and Evil": "If emotions are always out of control, they will be led by the nose and lose freedom.

​As the saying goes: "Every time you get angry, in addition to hurting others, it is yourself that hurts the most. "


Not being angry is being tolerant to yourself - DayDayNews

Gu Mi said in "A Few Degrees in the World": "The difficulties in life are not to make you frustrated, but to become more calm. "

All life is a passer-by, ups and downs are a kind of taste, don't lose your smile, and don't lose your mood.

"Sunrise in the East China Sea and fall in the west, sorrow for a day, happy for a day"

not angry, but tolerant to others , Be calm with yourself.

May we all control our emotions and live a better life on the way of life.​

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