The fate has not arrived, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes

Wen丨Xixiang Youqing

Time is not long, I hope you will see each other in my words!

Feelings cannot be forced. If fate is not reached, everything is useless. Instead of struggling hard and making yourself miserable, it is better to learn to forget so that both parties can be free.

You may like that person very much, but the other person turns a blind eye to your feelings. In fact, it may not be that the other party cannot feel it, but that the other party thinks that you are not the most suitable person for him.

Some people are destined not to belong to you, it is better to forget each other. It is a beautiful thing to like each other, but if it is not so, the deeper the sink, the more harm you will suffer.

has a saying that is right: "Forget about people who don't like you, let yourself go, and someone who really suits you will always come."

Love is like this, you can't force someone who doesn't love you to love On you, all your efforts are touched only by yourself.

once read this sentence on Zhihu : "It is not that difficult to forget the past, but time is not long enough."

Jay Chou sang in the song: "Maybe time It's an antidote." Indeed, time can heal your pain, take away your sorrow, and let the past be sealed in memory.

You have to know that forgetting is not a cowardly choice, but a calmness to reality.

You just haven't met the person who really belongs to you, don't be discouraged, in the future you will definitely find the person you love and love you.

Love is never a matter of one person. Your dedication can only move those who love you.

Many times,People always feel that as long as they pay enough, the people they like will be moved.

However, affection does not necessarily result in hard work. Love is a subtle affection.

Just like no matter how much a person does for you, if you don't have a special feeling for him, you can't fall in love with him.

In this case, empathy is easy to understand, so you really don’t have to worry about it.

People who like you will not reject you. If a person explicitly rejects you, no matter how persistent you are, there will be no hopeful results.

Falling in love with someone who doesn't love yourself, thinking about it, but never being able to embrace each other, this kind of suffering can only be understood by those who have experienced it. In order not to let this bitterness spread and erode you, forget that person.

Do something to divert your attention and don't always think about that person. It is not easy to give up a loved one, but you still have to learn to look forward, this is the best choice.

In this world, some people do not love you, and some people love you. So, don't lose all your self-confidence just because a person doesn't like you.

Even if the person you like doesn’t like you, don’t be discouraged. You are actually very good, but you and that person are not suitable, there is always someone who can see your shining point.

Don't doubt the value of yourself. No one can make everyone's heart touch. It happens that the person you are in love with now fails to like you, but in some people's hearts, you are still the most precious.

Everyone is unique, and everyone has their own unique charm.

You just haven't met the right person, so you have to like it unilaterally, but there will always be someone there to let you know the beauty of love.

If fate has not arrived, it is better to forget about the rivers and lakes. You don't need to over-change yourself for the person you like now.

like that, not only can't impress the other person, but it may make you lose the goodness you have now.

Calm down and continue to wait. If you miss this person now, perhaps it is also destiny for you to meet another better person.

You have to believe that fate will always come at the right time, and you will always find your true love in the future.

To forget the world is a kind of free and easy, but also a kind of wisdom. Your life shouldn't end here. You can only start again if you forget to let it go.

Forgetting a person does not mean that you will never remember it again, but that even if you remember it again, there will be no more waves in your heart.

Many people think that forgetting a person is never mentioned, but in fact, when you can talk about that person peacefully, you really let go.

Being able to accept the failure of emotions frankly is a kind of success in life. Life cannot follow your wishes in everything. Accepting this is a kind of growth and freedom.

Don't let a person who doesn't love you control your mood. That person is not worth keeping you sad. Be nice to yourself and don't torture yourself with a fruitless relationship.

As time goes by, you can also let your heart get rid of the person who used to control your mood, forgetting can make you feel relaxed, because that person can no longer bring you pain.

You have to believe that one day that person’s name will no longer disturb your mood, just like when you haven’t fallen in love with him.

Many people have had a person who loves but can't get it. Perhaps it is this kind of feeling that makes people have a deeper understanding of love, understanding of cherishing, and understanding of tolerance.

If fate has not arrived, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.I hope that both parties will be well, and even if they can’t be with each other for the rest of their lives, they will never regret their love.

Love needs to be carried by fate. Without fate, no matter how much love is, it is nothing but affectionate. You have to understand that it is yours that is yours, and it is not yours that you can't grab it.

Whose youth has never been hurt by love? Being brave and choosing to forget will make you more at ease.

Remember, don't waste your time and energy on a fruitless thing. Fate is not something you can control by yourself. In life, you must both cherish fate and follow fate.