On my husband’s 40th birthday, I decided to fulfill him and his little lover

Introduction:

In every marriage, we marry each other with the goal of a hundred years of harmony. After having children, I hope to live a happy life and all the best. However, the world is constantly changing, and there is no guarantee that the person who loved you and the child will love the family as always. Zhang Yu’s marriage is an example. At the beginning, he and her husband Yang Jie had a happy life after experiencing a lot of embarrassment. However, this man cheated when her second child was in confinement. After forgiving, she was still back and forth and gave birth to a child without telling her. If people's minds change, then get divorced, but divorce is okay, so you must fight for your own rights and interests. Sadness is only temporary, and it takes a lifetime to be strong.

01

My name is Zhang Yu, and I will be 40 in a few months. I found out that when my husband Yang Jie had cheated for the first time, it was during the confinement period of my second child. I was 36 years old that year and belonged to an elderly woman.

At that time, I learned that he was cheating. I shouldn't cry during the confinement period, but I couldn't hold it back. I feel aggrieved, how can Yang Jie betray me? Is his conscience eaten by a dog?

Both my daughters are in elementary school. I was so hard when I was pregnant with my second child, and I was bleeding heavily during childbirth. But when he was in my confinement, he celebrated his birthday in the new western restaurant for his little lover. What's the matter? Where did he put me.

This is how things happened. That day was the 8th day of my confinement. At that time, I was coaxing my child to sleep. My brother rushed in and asked me and his brother-in-law to get a divorce.

I was taken aback for a moment, and asked him what he was doing, why he said such nonsense and if he was bullied by his brother-in-law.

My brother is only in his sophomore year, young and energetic, and it is normal to get awkward with my husband. I can't help but make a joke when he looks like this. Usually, my brother and I have a very good relationship.

The younger brother was puzzled, so he turned on the phone and showed it to me. The photos inside are all my husband holding a young woman smiling in a romantic restaurant. I don’t know how happy it is. It looks like that girl is celebrating her birthday.

It’s just such a coincidence that my younger brother and girlfriend went on a date in a western restaurant,He heard Yang Jie's voice while eating. I went over there quietly and saw that someone had a birthday. The heroine, he doesn't know, the hero is his brother-in-law.

The younger brother took some photos, and then went to beat his brother-in-law regardless of the occasion.

02

If I hadn't seen these photos, I couldn't believe the facts of Yang Jiegui. This person has accompanied me through ups and downs.

I was very emotional, crying out of breath, and decided to divorce, asking this man to regret his actions.

Mom kept persuading me, "You are stupid, your daughter is eleven years old, and your son is less than a month old. If you divorce, you will make the women outside and give you happiness. Are you willing? Even if you are divorced, you are all alone. A child, are you willing to be small? In these years, there are stepmothers and stepdad. Think about it, don't be impulsive, regret it too late."

shed a lot of tears and thought about it for a lot of time. Yang Jie didn't come back that night, and two days later, the talent showed up.

When Yang Jie came back, he looked embarrassed and said to me, "My wife, since you know, I don't want to explain, I admit that I cheated. Don't worry, I have broken with her. I just made a mistake for a while, you forgive me. For the children, for the feelings between us."

My heart is dripping blood, I can't wait to catch the man's face with Huahua. But I know that tearing my face will not help in this situation.

In the end, I can only endure the pain and say to him, "You can correct it if you know your mistakes, husband, I will forgive you. No matter what the problem is, we will always be a family. Happiness is hard to come by, and we can have today. , We both paid a lot, do you remember."

03

I asked my husband if I remember the past. Anyway, I remember those things that happened in his house.

When we were only married for half a year, my mother-in-law suddenly had a stroke and was lying in bed. It was my new daughter-in-law who was waiting for her every day. I was so tired that I didn’t even know that I was pregnant.Later, she had a miscarriage.

Although sad, but I know that I can't blame anyone, she is my mother-in-law. I let my husband take care of his mother when I was a little confinement.

The father-in-law goes out for a walk all day, no matter how the mother-in-law is, my husband and I are angry in our eyes. There is no alternative.

In the end, the mother-in-law still couldn't survive, and died eight months after the stroke. My husband cried into tears. I knew he was sad, and the mother-in-law passed away like this, which is really sad.

What makes us sad is that less than three months after the death of the mother-in-law, the father-in-law brought a woman back and announced that she would marry her.

The behavior of the father-in-law is too chilling, but the son can't control Laozi after all, and the woman enters the house imposingly.

Everyone lives together, and there are frequent quarrels. Within half a year, my husband and I were kicked out.

Later, we found uncles and uncles, my father and other elders to call the shots. The result of the matter was 200,000 yuan in centimeters for us, and it was deemed that the house had nothing to do with us. My husband and I were swept out.

04

Homeless, my husband and I went back to live with our parents. My mother shed tears and said why my husband had such a hard life, and he had such a dad. Things have happened, and no amount of talk will help.

After discussing with the elders in the family, my father helped us rent two stalls in the vegetable market. My husband sells fruits and I sell vegetables.

I get up early and greedy the dark every day. Although it is very bitter, it is undoubtedly easy to make money if this line is done well. We are sweet-mouthed and kind in business. If the fraction is a few cents, we will go directly.

Therefore, the stall business is very good, many people patronize, and we make a lot of money. The happiest thing every day is to close the stalls and count the money. No amount of fatigue is gone.

In order to make more money, I went to the booth every day when I was pregnant. Of course, Yang Jie did the heavy work. He lost a lot during that time, but he never called tired.

Yang Jie always said that I have suffered with him, and he must work hard to make money so that I and my children can live a good life.At that time, we all lived hard and depended on each other.

Until 8 months old, my mother no longer allowed me to go to the vegetable market, so I waited at home for the delivery. Fortunately, she has to take care of her mother. She has to go to work every day, and when she comes back, she has to take care of the life of the family.

05

After the birth of our daughter, my husband and I were very happy. New life always feels like a new hope, a new beginning. Although the responsibility is heavier, it is also a sweet burden. We were 25 years old that year and became novice parents.

There is a little baby at home, and I can't go to work alone. It’s too tiring for my husband to run two stalls for a long time.

In the future, after discussion, we took out the money in our hands and chose a place with a good location to open a fruit shop.

covers an area of ​​one hundred square meters, and has hired an employee to work. In this case, in addition to a little harder when purchasing, other times are okay. The shop is in a residential area, and there are so many people who come out for a walk at night, making us a lot of money.

After experiencing the sweetness, we opened a second fruit shop elsewhere at the end of the second year. This shop has a relatively large area of ​​150 square meters. After my daughter went to kindergarten, I went to the fruit shop to help.

Over the years, our fruit shop has become a chain, opening 8 large and small. Yang Jie and I also bought a house and a car, and we never had the downfall when we were driven out by my father-in-law.

The business is good, the daughter is well-behaved and sensible, the relationship between husband and wife is good, and the economy is good. I thought about my daughter alone, and my mother advised me to give birth to one more child, so she discussed with Yang Jie about having another child.

Yang Jie agrees very much. He said that he hopes to have a boy. He has a good relationship like me and my brother, and discusses what to do and supports each other. In fact, that's what I think.

06

After putting it into action, it didn't take long for me to get pregnant. Compared with the first baby, the reaction of this baby was too violent. I vomited for a long time.Halfway through, I thought about not wanting this child, but I still insisted on it.

Unexpectedly, the harder part is still to come. I bleed heavily during delivery and lost my life. Fortunately, it was safe in the end. I remember that when I woke up, my mother held me and wept bitterly.

Yang Jie said to me with a gentle expression on his face, "My wife, you have worked hard, this time you must take care of yourself." Looking at them, father and son, no matter how much hard work, I think it is worth it.

In order for me to take good care of my body and restore my vitality, Yang Jie asked a confinement wife to take care of me specially and arrange a reasonable diet for me.

However, I never thought that on the eighth day of confinement, my brother would bring me news of her husband's cheating. Looking at those photos, my heart is cut.

Later, Yang Jie admitted that he was wrong. He said that during my pregnancy, he accidentally made a mistake while socializing outside. I also thought about breaking up, but the girl didn't agree.

Listening to these lies, I find it funny. If you don’t like this girl, why do you give her a birthday in a western restaurant? Also invite the girl's friends to celebrate.

However, I can't wake up a person who is pretending to be garlic. For my daughter, for the son who is waiting to be fed, I can only swallow this breath. If you go deeper, it will only make yourself more sad.

Later, we all selectively forgot about this matter. Yang Jie returned to the family, still a good husband, a good father, a good son-in-law, a family and beautiful beauty.

The son likes his father and often clings to him. My mother once sighed that the child's growth is inseparable from his father, and adults can only suffer more grievances.

Think about it too, if I couldn't bear it at the beginning, my child would be living in a fragmented family.

07

Time flies so fast, we are all 40 years old in a blink of an eye.

Yang Jie is more than 3 months older than me. On his birthday, my children and I went to buy cakes and gifts, and my parents prepared a sumptuous dinner at home.

It was more than six o'clock in the afternoon, and Yang Jie hadn't returned yet, and the phone was turned off when he called him. Obviously knowing that today is his birthday,The big guy is waiting for him at home, why he has no news.

I have no master, wondering if something happened to him. I called the company and asked the employees. They said that Yang Jie only worked for half a day and did not go after get off work.

The sixth sense told me that Yang Jie had something to hide. But I can't do anything, I can only wait and wait for him to come home. Mom and Dad advised me to relax and not think too much. But how can I control my irritability.

arrived almost seven o'clock, and Yang Jie has not returned yet. But someone called me. She was a strange woman. She said that Yang Jie was with her and told me not to wait for my husband to come back for his birthday.

Then she used Yang Jie's mobile phone to send some videos and pictures. The man in the video drank too much and fell asleep. The woman was holding a two-year-old child beside her and smiling happily, saying that they were a family of three.

I took a closer look and found that this woman was the target of Yang Jie's track. At that time, my brother took a photo and came back. I obviously remembered a mole on the lower corner of her mouth.

Looking at these videos and photos, I still don’t understand. Yang Jie didn’t break the relationship with this woman at all, and gave birth to a child.

I can no longer deceive myself and say that I chose to forgive this man for the sake of my child. I gave him a chance, but he still couldn't take his heart.

08

It is useless, Yang Jie loves that woman so much that he deceives me over and over again, even the baby is born. This man is too good at acting. After a few years, I can't find any flaws.

I guess it's the woman outside who can't wait any longer and wants to take my place. It's okay, I figured it out and decided to fulfill them.

When Yang Jie came back the next day, he was embarrassed and slapped himself and said that he must be broken this time. My heart is dead, so I don't care about him.

I filed a divorce with Yang Jie and stated my terms. If the two children belong to me, if they own the property, give him a fruit shop with an area of ​​80 square meters. All other properties are mine.

Yang Jie looked incredulous, crying in front of him and saying that he would not divorce.Admitting his mistake, I said to divorce and divide the property, he changed his face.

He didn't agree, he felt that these stores were all managed by him hard. Yes, he did his best, but he didn't see what I did, and he didn't want to think about who took us in when he was kicked out by his father. He only remembered that he paid.

If you don't agree, it's useless if you don't agree. He has to consider the women and children outside. Anyway, it's not me who is at fault.

In the end, we divorced smoothly, Yang Jie moved out, and I safeguarded my rights and the rights of my children.

The two children were unhappy, especially the son, who kept asking his father where he was. But I think after a while, he will adapt to the days without a father. Anyway, his father was not in this family anymore.

During this divorce, my parents just sighed and didn't persuade me. My brother supported me, he felt that I shouldn't be wronged, and the child would understand when he grows up.

After I figured it out, I didn't indulge in the pain of divorce. It's painful to live with a man who no longer has you in his heart.

I have a career, a house, a car, children and daughters, my parents are alive, and my brother is sensible. This is my happiness. Concentrate on making money, raise your children, and if they are happy, I will be happy. Come on, women always have to rely on themselves.

Conclusion:

In marriage, loyalty is the foundation, but many people forget these two words. Once a mistake is made, the other party can selectively forgive for the sake of the child, and a second mistake is to treat his partner as a fool. Is it necessary to forgive? A person’s heart hurts, and her life is not just for children.

When the man Yang Jie divorced Zhang Yu, I wonder if he regretted it. But the matter of divorce is undoubtedly Zhang Yu's relief. It is meaningless to keep a husband who has repeatedly betrayed by his side. If you don't get a divorce, you can only watch Yang Jie take the money from the family to raise the little lover and illegitimate child outside.

We will face many adversities in our life,The failure of marriage is just one of them. There are no difficulties that cannot be overcome in this world. The moment things happen, it may be painful, but the wound will slowly heal with the passage of time. Learning to be strong is a compulsory course in our life.