A man who often gives you these feelings, don’t love him, he is not your true love

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When love becomes a responsibility, it is first a feeling.

Bing Xin once said: "Love is on the left, love is on the right, sow seeds and flowers on both sides of the road of life at any time, and fill the fragrance of flowers embellished on this long-distance path, so that pedestrians wearing flowers and leaves, walking on thorns, I don’t feel very painful, I have tears to shed, and I don’t feel sad.”

Because of the existence of love, our life is more fragrant and warm and joyful. But the premise of all this is to meet a right lover.

If you have these three feelings when you are with a man, then stop loving him, he is not worth it and it is not your true love.

01: The feeling of detachment

In a relationship, whether it is for men or women, security is a very important existence. It means that you trust each other with certainty, are willing to depend on each other, and believe that when you love him, he loves you too.

The sense of security between men and women is exclusive, that is, no matter what happens, as long as you can be by each other's side, you can feel safe, which is something no one else can give.

But if a man doesn't love you much, he won't care about that, let alone whether he gives you a sense of security.

Shuangshuang has been very distressed recently. She doesn't know if her boyfriend really loves her.

As long as they are separated every day, there will be very little communication. Even if Shuangshuang takes the initiative to find a boyfriend, the frequency of getting a reply is relatively small. When she complains, the boyfriend also teaches her not to think wildly, and work hard is the right thing. thing.

But when the two are together, the boyfriend seems to be a different person, and he is very kind and considerate to her.

Shuangshuang's work place is just across the street from her boyfriend's company. She sometimes encounters her boyfriend who comes out to eat lunch walks with other girls chatting and laughing, and she just nods when she sees her.

The boyfriend who treats her well for a while, and the boyfriend who treats her badly makes her very incomprehensible, and she doesn't know whether to break up or not.

In fact, women's intuition is very sensitive, if you start to think, when the other party loves you or not, it means that it is very likely that he does not love you so much.

Because of true love, it will not make people sway. He will tell you in various ways that he loves you.

Only a man who is not sincere will say that you think too much when facing your doubts, which obviously makes you feel that it is him who is detached, but in the end it is like yourself who did the wrong thing.

02: The feeling of incomparable loneliness

There is a sentence in " Wonderful Talking ": "What is more terrible than dying alone is dying with the person who makes you feel lonely."

Being alone is not terrible. The loneliness of two people is the most terrible.

Yan Jun divorced her husband a few days ago. The two have been together for more than 20 years and have witnessed each other's growth and maturity, but in the end they have come to the road of nothing to say.

In the past two years, Yanjun and her husband seldom sent messages to each other. Most of the chat records were: "There is no oil at home, bring a bottle when you come back"; "There is a leak in the house, you can deal with it, I will "Having a meeting"; "I will be entertaining, so I won't come back for dinner"...

It is obvious that two people are in the living room, Yanjun is watching TV, and her husband is playing on his mobile phone. Each do their own thing.

Sometimes she will complain to her husband when she encounters something, and wants a comfort or understanding, but her husband either doesn't reply directly, or educates her, so she can't think about it like that.

Even if his stomach is full of words and wants to talk, he suddenly has nothing to say when he looks at the opposite husband.

One day, when she was alone at home, she suddenly felt that she had returned to the time when she was single in the past two years, but at that time she had a good time, but now she only feels lonely and powerless.

The ultimate purpose of starting a family is to hope that someone can accompany you. Even if you go home late, there will be a light on for you, and no matter how sad you are, there will be a warm hug.

Warm each other, support each other, and accompany each other. When we are together, we should chat and talk, we should be noisy, we should be noisy, and we should laugh. This is family.

A lonely and silent home is not called home, it is called a house; a husband who remains silent and cannot understand you is not a good husband.

If you feel lonely when you are with him, then forget it, it is better to live alone.

03: I feel very wronged, even painful

When I was watching the news, I saw an interview, and the reporter asked a woman: "When will you feel wronged?"

The woman's eyes suddenly turned red: "My husband When scolding me, my parents didn't make me suffer, even after marrying him."

Later, the interview became the reporter's comfort to the woman, and the live broadcast ended shortly after.

There is a line in the TV series " Little Parents " that says: "For women, all the cold eyes of the world are not as good as the attitude of a lover."

Some men only care about their own face and don't care at all A woman's feelings are nothing more than if she doesn't understand her lover, and sometimes she scolds or even beats her.

When I remembered the vaccine , a man was unwilling to get injections because his wife was afraid of injections. In public, regardless of his wife's crying, he forcibly rolled up her sleeves and even slapped her.

Many netizens commented that this is the case outside, and women do not know how much grievances they will suffer at home.

Marrying a man who will not feel sorry for himself or take care of himself is tantamount to stepping into a real "marriage grave" for a woman.

Many women grew up in the palm of their parents' hands, took good care of them for many years, and were doted on at home, but after marrying the wrong person, the quality of life plummeted.

I am full of grievances and no one can talk about it. I want to tell my parents, but I am afraid that my parents will worry; I want to tell my friends, but I am afraid that my friends will be sad.

During the days with him, you gradually changed from a cheerful and optimistic woman to a depressed woman.

Because he never cares about you, let alone loves you, as if everything you do for him is what you should do, and everything you don't do well is your fault. When

was with him, all you felt was endless sadness and discomfort.

If a man has never made you smile from the bottom of your heart and feel pampered, then leave him and stop dreaming.

Forgive yourself, you deserve better people.

If a man gives you a sense of detachment, loneliness, and grievance, don't waste time on him, he doesn't love you as much as you think.

Because a man who truly loves you will always give you a sense of security, companionship, and full understanding and respect, it will not make you feel the above.

Women don't waste time and feelings on the wrong person, because not entangled in a person who doesn't love you is the greatest responsibility to yourself, and it is also a disappointment to the person who loves you.

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