Have you ever thought about what kind of animal you are? A lion, an eagle, a thousand-mile horse or an old ox? But you didn't think that you were even worse than a crab, right?
Maybe what do you think is good about crabs? They are pointed, erratic, and hard shells. They are thousands of miles apart from people. How come they are worse than a crab? But do you know that the lifespan of crabs is only 2 to 3 years, but they have to be sheathed 18 times. If one shedding is a transformation and growth, the human resources who understand psychology would like to ask you, have you ever thought about your life until now, how many times have you transformed?
When the crab is unshelled, it will first absorb the calcium carbonate from the old shell and store it in body fluids. Then, very soft wrinkles will grow inside. When the old shell slowly cracks, the wrinkle will spread open and become a new shell. The calcium carbonate stored in the original body fluid can harden the new shell. However, crabs may not necessarily grow when they are unshelled. If there is insufficient nutrition or the external environment changes greatly, the crabs will experience negative growth after they are unshelled.
Hearing here, have you ever thought about the transformation process of your life? If you have never thought about it, then the people who understand psychology ask you,
When did the cartoons I liked to watch when I was a child suddenly change the channel?
When did the mama boy who has been a kid who likes clingy since he was a child suddenly care about his personal space?
When did the top students who are constantly studying hard in middle school suddenly lose their direction in college?
When will graduates from prestigious universities suddenly increase their worries about interviews and job searches?
When will the inspiring newcomers in the workplace feel the pressure of the industry to wither and survival?
In these growth stages, we sometimes absorb nutrition, update our cognition, change our behavior, protect us with new emotions and values, and embark on a new life journey. But sometimes, the new shell of transformation becomes smaller, overwhelmed by objective changes from the outside world, and even unable to continue to grow up.
Mental Human Resources Meng said that in the workplace, you must remember to feel the changes in the external environment at any time, pursue inner peace and strength, and welcome the next transformation and growth.
