All social problems are actually human problems
Hello everyone, welcome to Muji to read more, today I will share with you the insights of "Psychological Care". Today's topic is: All social problems are actually human problems .
The book says: society is actually a world where responsibilities cannot be explained clearly. Even if society has responsibilities, it must be implemented on everyone. The society is complex, but there are some very simple rules behind it. What rules? Professor Li, who has been studying criminal psychology for more than 30 years, said: All social problems are human problems in the final analysis.
Do you think so too? People live in causal relationships. When something happens, there must be a reason for it. So what is this cause? Is it society? Is it someone else? Or yourself?
Let’s see what the reason why Professor Li said this through the examples mentioned in this book of Psychological Rescue.
In 2009, Wang Moumou, a farmer from Weifang, Shandong, illegally built a house in the basic farmland protection area and was ordered to demolish it on April 30, 2010. On the morning of the 3rd, he abducted the hammer and gasoline, forcibly broke into a primary school, injured five students in the current class with a hammer, and then hugged two students and set fire to burn themselves. The two students were snatched out by the teacher, and Wang Moumou was burned to death on the spot.
Then, in this case, what was the reason for Wang Moumou's murder? It seemed that he was ordered to demolish the house, but at that time, six villagers had received such notices, and only he took such extreme measures. What does this mean? Wang Moumou has problems himself.
Let’s assume that at the beginning of the incident, we communicated with the 6 households who received the notice, and knew what others thought and what to do. Will his anger diminish? If he asks himself: Why did he demolish the house? It’s not that he was bullied, but because the house is an illegal building. Will he still take such extreme measures?
We see that this extreme method does not bring about the problem.
Another incident occurred in Shaanxi Province. Wu Moumou, who committed the crime, suffered from various diseases and had no improvement in treatment many times. He had attempted suicide twice. He rented a house to someone else to run a kindergarten. He heard that the principal had beaten a snake in the house and cast a spell to make trouble, which brought him the disease. So he felt resentful. On the morning of May 12, 2010, he broke into the kindergarten with a knife and killed the principal on the spot, killing 8 people and injuring 11 people. Then he returned home to take poison and committed suicide.
This case really makes people feel heartache. Physical diseases bring physical and spiritual torture. They are really unbearable and cannot bear it. But why are there diseases? The diagnosis of the hospital is the most real basis, and it is really a pity that our hearts can be bewitched by superstition, which makes us sigh.
Psychological care: Through both events, we can see what is the reason for the final outcome? Yes, it is a problem with the human heart. However, many people are afterwards Chu Geliang. Why? It means that human nature has a weakness, and this weakness is that when encountering problems, many people will attribute good and successful behavior to themselves, and attribute bad and failed behavior to the outside, or to to others.
Why am I divorced? Because my wife is not gentle, because my husband can't make money to support the family. What about it? Having an affair or loving a luxurious life more than your husband. When couples quarrel, they are basically because the other party makes me angry. No one can say that, oh, this is my fault. Even if some people admit it, it is not because they really know that they are wrong. Most of them are perfunctory and whitewashing the peace.
is all the fault of others, but oneself is right. This is shirking the blame. Psychology is called attribution deviation , which is the weakness of human nature. So, the question is, what should I do if I know that everyone has this weakness? Reflect on yourself and figure out your specific problems.To understand what kind of responsibility you are taking, this is the best psychological support.
Many people say that society is a big dyeing vat that dyes many people black. Yes, society is really a world that cannot be explained clearly, but when a person commits a crime, who can pay for you? Is it society? No one of us can be separated from society. Therefore, it is the hard truth to pay attention to whether our hearts are healthy. Don’t let distorts grow wildly in your heart. It is meaningless to blame society.
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