[Core Tips] Recently, a 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou, Henan Province suffered from depression. At first, the parents saw that the child became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that there was a physical problem, but when they went to the Children's Hospital for

A 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou suffered from depression because he was worried about a change at home. The doctor taught his parents a way: act to relieve the heart knot

A 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou suffered from depression because he was worried about a change at home. The doctor taught his parents a way: act!

[Core Tips] Recently, a 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou, Henan Province suffered from depression. At first, the parents saw that the child became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that there was a physical problem. However, after going to Children's Hospital for , the child's indicators were normal. Later, the parents found that when the child heard the parents telling the situation at home recently, his expression and attention were particularly concentrated. After some communication, the child told the doctor that he had heard his parents discussing the changes at home before. He was very worried and did not dare to say it out loud, so he kept pressing his heart. Then the doctor taught the parents to act in a drama that was about to resolve things quickly, and the child gradually relaxed when he learned about it. Doctors remind: Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and protect their children's mental health.

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Big reference Sina Weibo

[Rare! #4-year-old child is worried about changes at home and has depression# Parents act to relieve heart knots】You are right. The person suffering from depression is a 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou, Henan. At first, the parents saw that the child became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that there was a physical problem, but when they went to the Children's Hospital for examination, the child's indicators were normal. Later, the parents found that when the child heard the parents telling about the recent situation at home, their expressions and attention were particularly concentrated. After some communication, the child told the doctor that he had heard the parents discussing the changes at home before. He was very worried and did not dare to say them out to make the parents worry, so he kept pressing his heart. In order to open the knot of the child's heart , the doctor taught the parents to act in a drama that would solve the problem quickly. Unexpectedly, the child gradually relaxed after learning about it, and his personality gradually became cheerful. The doctor also reminds parents to pay more attention to their words and deeds in front of their children and protect their children's mental health. #Blue v Vision# @大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大� At first, parents found that their children became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that they were caused by illness, but after the hospital examination, no physical problems were found, and all indicators were normal. The parents had to go to the psychologist for consultation again. During the conversation, the psychologist found that when the child’s parents discussed the situation at home, the child’s expression became very focused and focused. After communicating with the child, the child finally explained the reason why he was unhappy, but everyone was surprised.

A 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou suffered from depression because he was worried about a change at home. The doctor taught his parents a way: act to relieve the heart knot

A 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou suffered from depression because he was worried about a change at home. The doctor taught his parents a way: act!

[Core Tips] Recently, a 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou, Henan Province suffered from depression. At first, the parents saw that the child became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that there was a physical problem. However, after going to Children's Hospital for , the child's indicators were normal. Later, the parents found that when the child heard the parents telling the situation at home recently, his expression and attention were particularly concentrated. After some communication, the child told the doctor that he had heard his parents discussing the changes at home before. He was very worried and did not dare to say it out loud, so he kept pressing his heart. Then the doctor taught the parents to act in a drama that was about to resolve things quickly, and the child gradually relaxed when he learned about it. Doctors remind: Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and protect their children's mental health.

The pain hidden in the corner - Kunming teenager depression survey report

People's Daily: 10 manifestations of depression, let's see if you are caught?

Lu County A 15-year-old girl fell from the building once had a conflict with tutoring for piano: her mother said she had depression

Top ten sequelae of tutoring children for homework: depression tendency, heart discomfort, 90% of families across the country are "passing the blame"

"The symptoms of depression are not obvious" Search: Because some parents regard it as "adolescent rebellion"

Depression is called "cancer of the mind": The root of the disease lies in the 'heart', not whining without illness, not being too idle and pretentious

A girl with a high school second in Guangzhou was diagnosed as depression. It is a hot search: Doctors say too much sleep is an atypical manifestation of depression

Big reference Sina Weibo

[Rare! #4-year-old child is worried about changes at home and has depression# Parents act to relieve heart knots】You are right. The person suffering from depression is a 4-year-old child in Zhengzhou, Henan. At first, the parents saw that the child became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that there was a physical problem, but when they went to the Children's Hospital for examination, the child's indicators were normal. Later, the parents found that when the child heard the parents telling about the recent situation at home, their expressions and attention were particularly concentrated. After some communication, the child told the doctor that he had heard the parents discussing the changes at home before. He was very worried and did not dare to say them out to make the parents worry, so he kept pressing his heart. In order to open the knot of the child's heart , the doctor taught the parents to act in a drama that would solve the problem quickly. Unexpectedly, the child gradually relaxed after learning about it, and his personality gradually became cheerful. The doctor also reminds parents to pay more attention to their words and deeds in front of their children and protect their children's mental health. #Blue v Vision# @大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大大� At first, parents found that their children became dull and did not communicate with others, thinking that they were caused by illness, but after the hospital examination, no physical problems were found, and all indicators were normal. The parents had to go to the psychologist for consultation again. During the conversation, the psychologist found that when the child’s parents discussed the situation at home, the child’s expression became very focused and focused. After communicating with the child, the child finally explained the reason why he was unhappy, but everyone was surprised.

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Many people believe that depression will only occur in adults, but according to data jointly released by UNICEF and in November 2019, about 20% of the 1.2 billion adolescents aged 10 to 19 in the world have mental health problems. The "China Youth Development Report" released by the China Youth Research Center and the International Liaison Department of the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League shows that among children and adolescents under the age of 17 in my country, about 30 million people are troubled by various emotional disorders and behavioral problems. This is enough to show that teenagers and children will also suffer from depression and must not be ignored.

In recent years, the incidence of psychological behavior problems among children and adolescents in my country has gradually increased, and has become an important public health issue related to the future of the country and the nation. Data from the "China National Mental Health Development Report (2019-2020)" show that the number of outpatient clinics for psychological problems in children and adolescents increases by 10% every year. This data is enough to illustrate the medical visits to children's hospitals across the country. According to media reports, in 2013, the youngest patient with depression in Quanzhou , who had appeared in , was 3 years old; in 2019, the youngest patient with depression in West China Hospital in Sichuan was 6 years old. Combined with the report that a 4-year-old child has depression this time, children's psychological problems are showing a trend of younger age, which sounds a wake-up call for parents.

Many parents don’t understand. Now that the material conditions are so good, why do children still have psychological problems? In fact, while children’s material needs are met, their psychological needs also need to be met. However, many parents only pay attention to their children's full food, warm clothes, and good exams, and do not give their children sufficient love and companionship, or because of family conflicts such as husband and wife, they one-sidedly pursue excellent academic performance, etc., which puts psychological pressure on their children. In addition, their children do not know how to resolve them and are bored in their hearts. Over time, psychological problems gradually arise.

Doctor said that there are many reasons for psychological problems such as depression in children. In addition to genetic factors, social and family factors account for the main reasons. Social factors such as interpersonal relationships, such as interpersonal problems, encountering traumatic experiences such as sudden death of relatives; family factors such as parents often quarrel, couples have different relationships, are more strict with their children, and often deny them. For example, in the news, the child has anxiety and psychological problems because his parents discuss changes in the family.

For this reason, it is urgent to pay attention to children's mental health problems. Parents should set an example, maintain harmonious family relationships, handle family disputes well, and not let their children get involved. If the child is worried about family problems, parents should explain it to the child in a timely manner to avoid psychological burdens; the child should learn to self-regulate. For example, actively communicate with parents, express their thoughts, or tell teachers, classmates, and friends to seek their help; the school should strengthen students' mental health education and provide timely guidance and intervention for students with psychological distress; in addition, if the child has symptoms of depression, parents should take the child to medical treatment in time and provide treatment.

(China Youth Comment, Author Li Huaxi)

A 4-year-old child actually has such an adult mind? Many people may find it incredible.The news now gives people a feeling that depression is getting younger and younger. Is it because children are becoming more and more "premature"? Actually, it is not the case.

At the same time, the younger the child, due to different psychological maturity development, the different ability to judge things, so he cannot grasp the future development direction of negative events he comes into contact with, so he becomes pessimistic.

. Many people think that the child’s view of this incident is caused by the “premature puberty” and believe that if young children suffer from “depression”, it must be the impact of premature puberty. But in fact, this is not the case. On the contrary, this is precisely because of the immaturity of the child.

Since children are young, they have no complete understanding of the world, and their judgments on things are also limited. Although the little boy in the incident caused depression because he heard about changes in his family, the child's idea was not to worry that the future direction of the family would develop in a bad direction, but that he could not judge the result of future development.

Children are caused by the inability to judge unknown consequences. Therefore, when parents listen to the doctor's advice and preview the future results in front of their children, their children's depression will be cured.

Depression has always been a global problem that cannot be ignored, and its history is also very long. For example, in China during the Spring and Autumn Period, Yingqi, the son of King Mu of Chu, died of heart disease after defeating the Wu Kingdom. And the of the same period, ancient Greek also has written records about depression.

For a long time, compared with the abnormal emotions of adults, children's negative emotions are more likely to be ignored by adults. Parents always take it for granted that they will not get depression at the age of remembering to eat but not beating. This may be the reason why children's depression has been ignored. If a doctor gives a diagnosis of "depression", his parents will always sneer, thinking that the doctor is telling a joke. "My child is still so young, how can he get depression?" In fact, it is understandable that they think so, because people are indeed different, and even the personalities between parents and children may be very different. After all, the cause of depression may be the combined effect of various factors.

In recent years, childhood depression has gradually entered the public eye and is known to people. This is actually a good thing. Extensive media coverage can attract more attention from parents and take every subtle emotional change of children to heart. Before we know, depression that begins in childhood or adolescence will have a crucial impact on mental health throughout our lives. Parents really should be careful not to convey negative energy to their children. Sometimes they really should "report good news but not bad news."

We need to make more efforts to understand children’s psychology.

Netizen comments

I didn’t expect that a 4-year-old child actually has the thoughts of an adult. I know myself, I didn’t have this kind of thought when I was 4 years old. Are all children nowadays so "premature"?

See that the child is worried. I also loved to worry when I was a child. Parents really should be careful not to convey negative energy to their children. Sometimes they really have to "report good news but not bad news"

When they were young, parents quarreled. I also cried while kneeling and begging the Bodhisattva

I am only 4 years old. It's so sensible that I'm so young

My son cried for a while before going to bed. He was 6-7 years old and asked him that he was afraid of death and his family members died.Improve after enlightenment

Don’t show negative emotions to children! ! !

Some children are very sensitive. Before, when my aunts and sisters saw my little sister, they would say why they were a daughter again. Although my little sister was only three or four years old, she couldn't sleep well for several days, and she had to hug me tightly when she went to bed. Later, I asked and realized that she was afraid that we wouldn't want her because she was a girl. I said before going to bed that she was our little baby. Those relatives said I scolded them. Later, my little sister didn't have nightmares when she was sleeping

When I was a child, my mother told me that my family had no money, so I was very worried. After telling my best friend in kindergarten, she lent me her dozens of pocket money to help our family get through the difficulties. As a result, my mother asked me to return it to others when she found out. This article has been reproduced with the source indicated. It is for learning and communication only. It does not constitute a commercial purpose. The copyright belongs to the original author. If it involves the content of the work, copyright and other issues, please contact this website. According to the author's ideas, it will be corrected or deleted in time. Thank you for your cooperation)

The news now gives people a feeling that depression is getting younger and younger. Is it because children are becoming more and more "premature"? Actually, it is not the case.

At the same time, the younger the child, due to different psychological maturity development, the different ability to judge things, so he cannot grasp the future development direction of negative events he comes into contact with, so he becomes pessimistic.

. Many people think that the child’s view of this incident is caused by the “premature puberty” and believe that if young children suffer from “depression”, it must be the impact of premature puberty. But in fact, this is not the case. On the contrary, this is precisely because of the immaturity of the child.

Since children are young, they have no complete understanding of the world, and their judgments on things are also limited. Although the little boy in the incident caused depression because he heard about changes in his family, the child's idea was not to worry that the future direction of the family would develop in a bad direction, but that he could not judge the result of future development.

Children are caused by the inability to judge unknown consequences. Therefore, when parents listen to the doctor's advice and preview the future results in front of their children, their children's depression will be cured.

Depression has always been a global problem that cannot be ignored, and its history is also very long. For example, in China during the Spring and Autumn Period, Yingqi, the son of King Mu of Chu, died of heart disease after defeating the Wu Kingdom. And the of the same period, ancient Greek also has written records about depression.

For a long time, compared with the abnormal emotions of adults, children's negative emotions are more likely to be ignored by adults. Parents always take it for granted that they will not get depression at the age of remembering to eat but not beating. This may be the reason why children's depression has been ignored. If a doctor gives a diagnosis of "depression", his parents will always sneer, thinking that the doctor is telling a joke. "My child is still so young, how can he get depression?" In fact, it is understandable that they think so, because people are indeed different, and even the personalities between parents and children may be very different. After all, the cause of depression may be the combined effect of various factors.

In recent years, childhood depression has gradually entered the public eye and is known to people. This is actually a good thing. Extensive media coverage can attract more attention from parents and take every subtle emotional change of children to heart. Before we know, depression that begins in childhood or adolescence will have a crucial impact on mental health throughout our lives. Parents really should be careful not to convey negative energy to their children. Sometimes they really should "report good news but not bad news."

We need to make more efforts to understand children’s psychology.

Netizen comments

I didn’t expect that a 4-year-old child actually has the thoughts of an adult. I know myself, I didn’t have this kind of thought when I was 4 years old. Are all children nowadays so "premature"?

See that the child is worried. I also loved to worry when I was a child. Parents really should be careful not to convey negative energy to their children. Sometimes they really have to "report good news but not bad news"

When they were young, parents quarreled. I also cried while kneeling and begging the Bodhisattva

I am only 4 years old. It's so sensible that I'm so young

My son cried for a while before going to bed. He was 6-7 years old and asked him that he was afraid of death and his family members died.Improve after enlightenment

Don’t show negative emotions to children! ! !

Some children are very sensitive. Before, when my aunts and sisters saw my little sister, they would say why they were a daughter again. Although my little sister was only three or four years old, she couldn't sleep well for several days, and she had to hug me tightly when she went to bed. Later, I asked and realized that she was afraid that we wouldn't want her because she was a girl. I said before going to bed that she was our little baby. Those relatives said I scolded them. Later, my little sister didn't have nightmares when she was sleeping

When I was a child, my mother told me that my family had no money, so I was very worried. After telling my best friend in kindergarten, she lent me her dozens of pocket money to help our family get through the difficulties. As a result, my mother asked me to return it to others when she found out. This article has been reproduced with the source indicated. It is for learning and communication only. It does not constitute a commercial purpose. The copyright belongs to the original author. If it involves the content of the work, copyright and other issues, please contact this website. According to the author's ideas, it will be corrected or deleted in time. Thank you for your cooperation)