Nature is something that is born to human beings, or it can be said to be a childlike heart. The innocence of a child is nature, the original intention of not distinguishing between good and evil, good and bad, without desire, observing things is just observing things without imagination, and thinking. Nature is something he belongs to. Nature is neither lost nor changed or hurt. Personality is what people learn. Personality is those coats that don't belong to you and are put on your body. It will change with the changes in the environment, just like clothes in summer and winter, it will be lost and easily damaged.
First of all, it must be said that nature is the basis of human body and mind construction. For example, someone has a good memory, someone is very sensitive to numbers, someone has language talent, someone has cohesion, etc. Education is the purpose of this, and this is why children cannot be educated too early. Children must be allowed to release and maintain nature. What adults need to do is to discover the nature of each child and guide and expand it. But unfortunately, modern education has stifled nature and cultivated into the so-called talents that are the same, or cultivated into the talents that parents or society want. Only some lucky people happen to embark on a path that suits their nature, and these lucky people have become top social elites.
Personality is everything a person learns in a certain way. In daily language, it is called "consciously" or "subconsciously" learning. In most cases, subconscious learning refers to imitation. In fact, imitation plays an extremely important role in establishing personality. Calling it the so-called "learning hobbies" also refers to various artificial likes and dislikes. All of this is learned from imitation, phenomena, knowledge, and experience, just like the slogans such as beauty care, fire removal, and acne removal attached by merchants when promoting products. These artificial likes and dislikes also play an extremely important and unfortunate role in life.
People are naturally fond of things that are good for themselves and hate things that are harmful to themselves. However, this is only true when nature controls personality. Nature should dominate personality, and at this time people are healthy and normal. When personality begins to dominate nature, that is, when a person becomes less healthy, he begins to love things that are harmful to himself and hate things that are beneficial to himself. So there is a saying that people change when they grow up, a way of living with masked life, and a sinister way of being blinded by desire. So there are many life labels, such as this person spends money generously, this person is hypocritical and cunning, this person is greedy for money and other social chaos. So society is like a small river in the city, with sewage, domestic waste, dirty and smelly and fish.
If normal, the essence must control the personality, and personality will be beneficial at this time. However, if personality controls the essence, this will have many kinds of adverse consequences.
But in society, it is inevitable that one needs personality. Society has been developed to this day and has been changed by people with power or wealth. Just like etiquette, identity, reputation, and luxury goods, you can maintain your nature while you are alone, but as long as you integrate into society, you only need to do obedience. Therefore, a person cannot only have nature but no personality. However, nature and personality must grow in parallel, and one of them must not grow beyond the other.
The situation where the growth of nature exceeds the personality is more reflected in uneducated people. These so-called simple people may be good people and are even very smart, but they still face the embarrassment of not having the environment needed for development. Just like a good startup, even if you innovate a product, you will die without the support of funds and personal resources. Paying too much attention to competition will weaken your natural growth. Therefore, there is very little fertile ground for nature to grow in society and cannot grow freely like the development of personality.
In the case where personality growth exceeds nature, it can often be seen in more educated people. In these cases, nature remains in a semi-growth or semi-development state. Pampering, spoiling and even so-called planning will promote the development of personality. Arrogance, arrogance, high-mindedness, low-mindedness will appear on people. Therefore, I will say: "I have three treasures, and I will hold them and treasure them. One is kindness, the second is frugality, and the third is not daring to be the first in the world."The rich and noble people also realize this, so they let their children live a frugal life from an early age to maintain their natural growth.
means that personality develops too fast and too early. When they are very young, their nature almost no longer develops; as a result, we see some men and women who look almost adults, but their nature is only ten or twelve years old. Many people are engaged in things they don't like, and they can be said to be suppressing their own nature. In most cases, society changes people, not people change society, Just like squeezing the subway, you have no choice but to be pushed into the cage by the people behind you. The only thing you can do is struggle and complain.
The reason why nature is important is that you can say that it is your destiny, what you like to do, or it can be said that what you want to do will make you happy. The human body is a machine, and this machine is controlled by different functional centers. Maintaining nature can make you well aware of yourself, and only by cognizing yourself can you play your strengths and make achievements in society.
