As soon as middle age arrives and has established herself, this person is almost at the age of forty-sighted . But even if my ancestors say that, in this era of 's forty years, it is indeed under great pressure.
Now when we reach middle age, there are a lot more drinking parties and social events. Some can be rejected, while others are that cannot be controlled. Therefore, we middle-aged friends often deal with this drink party, and there are still many next games waiting for us to deal with.
When it comes to the wine table, it must be a character. Where there are people, especially where there are modern people, there will be some rules and etiquettes that are either light or dark, so this wine table etiquette will follow. Although most of the ancient wine tables were made friends, and now the meaning has changed a little, is also an inevitable result of the development of the times.
At the wine table, what we often see is the "smiling faces" of many people. When talking about business or cooperation and other major events, everyone is also kind. Although there are also people who are inevitably "stubborn", at least everyone does a good job on the surface. But sometimes in , we will encounter people who are unwilling to do superficial skills, and this situation often makes us embarrassed. Therefore, if you encounter these three situations at the table, it is recommended to walk away directly, otherwise you will not be able to get it if you work hard.
The first type: someone is sarcastic and asks about it. When it comes to drinking, there are only two situations: people who have something to get together, ask people for things, such as talking about business, cooperation, etc. Some people invite you out for a meal and drink some wine to borrow money; and there are also people who have nothing to do together. Most of these people are good friends around us. When we are middle-aged, we spend more time socializing, but we have less time to make friends. At this time, there are still people who have nothing to do with you, which is considered rare.
But no matter what kind of wine party it is, there may be a few people who are ignorant of each other. It’s okay to have dinner with good friends. After all, a few people know the truth and get together to be comfortable and not to feel unhappy. However, in other scenes, no one is so cognitive. For example, at a company's drinking party, some colleagues like to dig into other people's roots and ask others' bottom lines.
, I have to say that is really a practice that everyone hates . After all, the company is not your own home. Even if the boss tells you during the interview that it’s good to take the company as your own, it would be too unrealistic to achieve it. So in a company, being able to maintain a good relationship with colleagues is the best way we find in this kind of interpersonal relationship.
So for many people, whether in front of the company or others, everyone wants to maintain some privacy. ’s privacy can be big or small, but no matter what, it is their own privacy. But at this time, someone talks about our private affairs. Of course, this approach must go away. will not leave now, and when will be at that time.
Although some people are embarrassed because of their weak face, we need to think about it the other way around. Since the other party does not give themselves any face, and if they don’t leave , they will largely give the other party face . This approach makes the other party look down on him and will instead encourage others’ arrogance. At this time, it is the real thanklessness of efforts.
The second type: When encountering people who toast,
This situation is not often seen in life. After all, in dealing with people, people know how to act more or less, but there are inevitably some so-called "knowing the worldly sense without accidents". Although we usually look at these people, the premise of being happy is that the toast is impolite, so we can ignore them, and we don't need to pay attention to them at all. But if you to toast respectfully, the other party ignores them. If you meet such a person, you will feel so nervous.
When we meet such people, we can't spoil it. Just leave. Otherwise, we will not only stand there, not only embarrass you, but also make the other party more majestic. At this time, even if you feel depressed, there is no place to find someone to reason with, because this is the unhappiness caused by your own choice. Even if you ask someone to tell me about it, most people in will only comfort you. If you can't comfort you well, you will be angry, which is not even more inappropriate.
The third type:
This is also very annoying, because since this kind of people are making things difficult, most of them rely on their mouths to make things difficult. For this kind of person, they will not fight back, and they all seem to be timid, but if they fight back, they may not fight back against such people.
The editor encountered this speechless situation last time when he had dinner with his leader. However, this happened to another colleague who accompanied him, and the cause was the alcohol he bought. When we first started the banquet, because there were many people at the table, the bosses had been talking about business for a long time. Before was halfway through, we finished drinking . Because the waiter only served two bottles, the colleague was sent by the boss to the front desk to buy two bottles of good wine. After all, we were talking about cooperation with each other.
This colleague went to the front desk and took two bottles of steamer back to the sand wine. When he came, he happily whispered to the editor next to him: This wine is quite cheap, only about 200 yuan per bottle of . The editor looked up at the wine I just took out. The marked "1,000 ml" of this bottle, and thought it was really cost-effective, this bottle was as good as the two ordinary bottles.
This was nothing, but , but unexpectedly, someone else listened to . That was an employee in the other company. This employee, like the editor’s colleague, sat at the end. It was also the newcomer of the company who came to experience it, but obviously he did not have the experience. He only heard from him: How can drinks that cost more than 200 yuan be used to entertain our boss? This sentence did not deliberately lower the volume, so everyone present could hear it clearly.
As soon as these words were said, an awkward atmosphere of filled our table with , and the employee was still reluctant to give in and continued: I don’t know how the taste of this wine is. My colleague was also anxious and was about to respond, but at this time the other party's boss started to save the situation and said: I'll taste this wine. is rich in fragrance and mellow, elegant and delicious , and it tastes no worse than the white wine just now.
At this time, the waiter next to him might have seen the opportunity to sell wine and quickly said: Mr. Wang is really a person who knows wine. This steaming station Huisha wine is a new product that our store has just launched recently. is brewed by a foolish winemaker, and the vintage is not short. It took 7 years to store it in the cellar and 15 years old wine to mix it. This whole bottle of wine is thick and delicious, and it is also brewed by Huisha . It has become one of the must-order items in our store recently.
Mr. Wang was very happy to be praised, and he happened to be a wine lover. quickly said that he would order two boxes of . When the company's annual meeting was over, he would drink happily with everyone. When he was talking, he glared at the employee just now. This matter was over.
is also thanks to the other party’s boss. Otherwise, this colleague wouldn’t have asked too much for him. After all, he just thought the amount was large enough to drink, so he didn’t think about other issues. So we should still be careful when we talk at the dinner table. If we encounter such a person, it is better to ignore it.
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