Only love that can withstand these three trials will ultimately be happy

2020/12/0621:20:06 emotion 1779

Love is a beautiful thing that countless people yearn for, but many people have never really had true love. Most of them have only had a short-term love, which can not stand the test, just like fragile glass, once it is hit, it will break. Some love needs to be weather-beaten to be happy, and couples must be able to withstand these three tests in the end to be happy.

The test of parting

Whether a person truly loves you can be seen most clearly after parting. Even if there are many sweet talks, if he disappears after parting, and he doesn't care about your situation so much, he doesn't miss you, then he doesn't really love you. After parting, misses will flood, and when they meet again, they will be ecstatic. And this kind of expectation and love comes from the heart and cannot be pretended. Rather than reuniting after a long time, being like a stranger, feeling weakened a lot, or even empathizing, that is not true love. If you truly love someone, you won’t have the heart to disconnect. Even if you are not together, your hearts are together. Always worry about each other, find ways to meet and accompany you, and create opportunities to be together as much as possible. Distance can't stop love and longing, this is true love.

The test of parents

Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families. It is easy for two people to fall in love, but not so easy to get married. If the parents resolutely oppose it, it will be the biggest obstacle for the two to go on. Many couples broke up because of opposition from their parents. Parents’ opinions may not be correct, but they are worth listening to, because parents have experience and experience, and after all, they are for their own good. Therefore, this relationship can survive the test of parents. In this process, you can also see whether your partner is assertive, whether it is Ma Baonan, and whether he loves you firmly. If you break through this obstacle, two people still choose each other firmly, it can be regarded as true love.

The test of time

Many couples are just like that. They can stand the test of parting and their parents. They thought they would be able to get married and be happy for a lifetime, but they did not expect it to stand the test of time. When two people break through various obstacles and let the relationship continue, the life becomes stable, but the relationship gets weaker. Because of the lack of freshness in life, only firewood, rice, oil and salt are left. At this time, not only the feelings faded, but they also bore each other. The two people gradually had no words to talk, and did not work hard to repair the relationship, and even empathized with each other, so that the relationship came to an end. Therefore, true love can find fun in the ordinary life, restart the sweetness and romance of love, and stick to the promise of love, assume its due responsibilities, and manage relationships with heart. True love can stand ordinary love.

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