"You have been in the office for 5 years, and you are about to get married. We don't give a gift when you get married, and you don't buy a house either.

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left ear, saying: I would like you chic magnanimous feelings behaved

some people obviously know that this relationship is a kind of torment, two people together is no future, there is simply inappropriate, I felt had to get along It's been a pity that it's been separated like this for a while.

If you are currently in such a relationship, the advice to you is that you should break up early and find someone who suits you to get married.

Don't waste time in inappropriate feelings. There is no need to force feelings, and feelings that are forced will never be happy.

Xiaobo broke up after returning home with her boyfriend. She also understood that two people who are really inappropriate should be separated sooner rather than forced to be together.

Xiaobo and Yu Fei met when they were in college. Yu Fei took the initiative to pursue her. Xiaobo felt that the man Yu Fei was relatively practical, so he agreed to his pursuit. After

got together, Xiaobo learned that Yu Fei came from the countryside and the conditions at home were average, but Xiaobo did not dislike him. He felt that love is enough for two people together. As for the economic conditions, that It's nothing. By the time of graduation, the two of them were not separated.

These two people have been together for five years. In the five years, Xiaobo hasn’t followed Yu Fei back to his hometown. Since he went to get married, Xiaobo’s parents also advised her to follow Yu Fei. Look.

Before going back, Yu Fei told his parents that they would go back. On the day when he returned, Yu Fei's parents were not at home, and Yu Fei did not have the keys to the house. He waited at the door for a long time. It was exhausting to run all the way. Xiaobo almost fell asleep at the door.

It was two o'clock in the afternoon before Yu Fei's parents went home. They explained that it was time for the autumn harvest and they were working in the fields, and they had forgotten the time.

Yu Fei's mother ordered some noodles casually, and the family ate a pot of noodles without even a single dish. Even with such conditions, Xiaobo didn't say much, and didn't show any dissatisfaction.

While eating, Yu Fei’s mother said, “I heard from my son that the two of you have been together for five years and are about to get married. That’s the case, we won’t give a bride price for getting married, and you don’t need to buy a house. Yes, you have seen it too, our house is a two-story small building, and you can rent a house outside."

Hearing what her future mother-in-law said, Xiaobo felt a little bit in her heart. She hadn't gotten married yet, so she had no respect at all. If this were the case, she would rather not get married. Before returning to their hometown, the two of them were discussing how to stay a few more days, so Xiaobo thought in his heart that he should go back to his home as soon as possible, so that he would break up in the future.

She didn't take care of her mother-in-law, but she said she was going back to her home in the afternoon, so she didn't stay longer. Yu's mother was not polite to stay with her for a few more days, so Xiaobo returned to her home. Since the day

went back, she hasn't answered too much phone calls and has been in a blackened state. In fact, she has been entangled in the past few days, whether to break up or not, in the end she decided, or break up sooner, it is her who suffers from the wrong marriage. She called Yu Fei proactively, "Yu Fei, I have already thought about it, let's break up.

My relationship with you is not a problem, but I can't stand the attitude of your parents, especially your mother.

I went there for the first time, and your family didn’t prepare any good meals for me. I understand it, but marriage does not give me a gift or a house. Before marriage, it disrespects me so much. After marriage, I’m still uncertain how to treat me Break up as soon as possible".

Yu Fei was also surprised when he heard Xiaobo say that he was going to break up. He thought that the two had been together for five years and would definitely get married. He didn't expect that they would finally be separated.

If a woman can be as sensible as Xiaobo before getting married, maybe there will be no unhappy woman. A sensible woman like

knows what kind of feelings she wants, and she knows what kind of marriage she wants, so she won't force her to do what she doesn't want to do.

tells the left ear:

must have many women who have the same experience as XiaoboThe calendar, you can see it before you get married.

's future husband's family didn't give her enough respect, as if she felt that this marriage was a certainty, and she would definitely marry in, and would not regret it, so she would say these things proudly.

As the future mother-in-law, treating the future daughter-in-law like this is digging a hole for his son. Before getting married, you can't be sure whether someone will marry in, even if they are married or divorced.

You should be polite to other girls at any time. Even if you are married to your son, you should be polite when it is time to be polite. The necessary respect is definitely required.

also hopes that the girls will be more sober and don't force themselves to do things they don't like.

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