Cheng Hui is thirty-six years old this year. She is beautiful, but she is still unmarried. Her parents see this and are anxious, urging her to get married every day. Cheng Hui's family conditions are very good. Her parents are from Kochi and own four properties in the city. Cheng

01

Cheng Hui is thirty-six years old this year. She is beautiful, but she is still unmarried. Her parents see it and are anxious in their hearts, urging her to get married every day.

Cheng Hui’s family conditions are very good. Her parents are from Kochi and own four properties in the city. Cheng Hui is their only daughter. Under their careful upbringing, she was admitted to a prestigious university. After graduation, she worked in a state-owned enterprise with a high income. considerable.

When she was young, Cheng Hui fell in love several times, but they all ended in vain.

At that time, Cheng Hui was not in a hurry. She felt that she was young and had time to play for a few more years. She was not interested in love, and there were always many men around her. Cheng Hui felt that there was nothing to worry about.

Once she met her boyfriend who urged her to get married, but Cheng Hui refused with the excuse that she was still young. The man said nothing more and broke up with her the next day. She didn't care at all. There were so many people around her anyway, right? No?

Later, as Cheng Hui got older, she realized that there seemed to be no one around her to pursue her, and she began to feel anxious.

Fortunately, her parents had a wide network of contacts and helped Cheng Hui get started with blind dates.

But Cheng Hui sneered every time she came back from a blind date. Either she thinks the man's conditions are not good, or he thinks the man's words are not interesting. Whenever the man she encounters has some shortcomings, she will give him a pass without even giving him a second chance, and she refuses to have more contact with him.

A few more years passed like this, and she was shocked to realize that she was already thirty-six years old, but none of her blind dates had any results.

One morning, she got up to wash her face and prepare to go to work. When she looked up, she found that she looked many years older in the mirror. Although she usually used a set of expensive skin care products, she still couldn't cover the crow's feet at the corners of her eyes.

Cheng Hui was completely anxious. She thought that she was already thirty-six years old. Even if she found a suitable boyfriend now, it would take at least a year, right? After getting married a year later, she was already thirty-seven, well past the best age for childbearing, and the risk was greatly increased.

Moreover, it is not that easy to find the right one, so you have to be picky? That would take some time.

Cheng Hui regretted that she had not taken good care of things when she was young. As a result, she was now pressed for time and had no intention of going to work in the company. She thought about the men she had dated before and looked through her friends circle. Some of them showed that her children were capable of making soy sauce.

Employees of the same age as her in the company are basically married.

Cheng Hui thought of the chat she had with her mother yesterday. Her mother urged her to find one quickly. She was the only one among her relatives and friends. She had introduced everyone she could to Cheng Hui.

"Hey..." Cheng Hui sighed. She goes to and from get off work at 2 o'clock every day, where can she find a partner?

02

She was bored on the Internet. She remembered that a friend once got married and found the partner on the Internet. Cheng Hui had an idea.

Yes, since it’s hard to find it in real life, let’s take a look online.

Since he is two points and one line, then maybe the other party is also two points and one line. The Internet shortens the distance between people, maybe they can be matched successfully?

Cheng Hui just went ahead and found a dating website directly on the Internet. After registering and authenticating her real name, she uploaded a few relatively young photos. In the column of

's requirements for the other half, Cheng Hui thought for a while before starting to write:

Age: about thirty-six years old, height: 1.8 meters, weight should not be too fat, appearance should be handsome, and should not look too greasy. Graduated from a prestigious university, with an annual salary of more than 500,000 yuan, a gentle and humorous personality, filial piety to his parents, good family conditions, no hereditary diseases in the family, and parents with pension insurance... The most important thing is to have good taste.

If it were not for the word limit, Cheng Hui could write it for a whole day.

Of course, after finishing writing, Cheng Hui also put forward her own conditions. She thought that with her superior personal conditions and family conditions, there would be many people who liked her.

After finishing all this, she happily sat back and waited for others to send her "heartbeat" messages.

But unfortunately, no one sent her a message all day long. Cheng Hui thought the time was too short and was prepared to wait a few more days.

In the afternoon, Cheng Hui received a call. It turned out to be a call from a matchmaker online. She told Cheng Hui that she could sign up for VIP for one year. In this way, her information could be displayed on the homepage, and the matchmaker could recommend high-quality male clients to her. .

Cheng Hui reported one without saying anything.

Sure enough, after signing up, more and more people came looking for Cheng Hui.

03

The matchmaker recommended several high-quality clients for one-to-one service for Cheng Hui, who signed up for VIP. Cheng Hui looked at their information one by one and thought that she was finally stable this time.

She picked one that was comprehensive and made an appointment to meet. When

met, Cheng Hui was immediately impressed by the other party.

The man introduced his name as Zhang Yuan. Zhang Yuan spoke in a funny and humorous manner. He took care of Cheng Hui at every turn during the meal, pouring water for her and pulling out a chair for her. When chatting, he praised Cheng Hui for her beauty, and it was not obvious that she was thirty-six. Years old.

Cheng Hui had not been so happy to be praised for a long time, and she felt a little elated.

Just like that, they met several times, and their relationship became better and better. Finally, one day, the two talked about getting married.

Zhang Yuan sighed and said, "Hui Hui, to be honest, I like you very much, but my family situation is not particularly good, and my annual salary is not high."

"I fell in love with you the first time I saw you. I love you, but I have never dared to mention marriage to you, because I feel that I am not worthy of you." After hearing this, Cheng Hui, who was in love, felt even more sorry for Zhang Yuan. How could she care about this? He made a quick decision and said that he didn't care at all and only loved his people, and took him home.

After Cheng Hui's parents met Zhang Yuan, although they were not satisfied with him, their daughter liked him and her daughter was the same age, so they didn't say anything.

Just like that, the two got married.

After getting married, Zhang Yuan lived in Cheng Hui's house. At first, the two of them were very affectionate, and they felt like they were soaking in a jar of honey every day.

But over time, conflicts occurred.

First of all, Zhang Yuan felt that he had worked hard and resigned at home. Cheng Hui didn't say anything. After all, she was still immersed in love. She handed her salary card to Zhang Yuan and asked him not to wrong her.

Zhang Yuan was so at ease eating Cheng Hui at home.

But it doesn’t matter if Zhang Yuan is at home and not working. He spends all day playing games in front of the computer, smoking and drinking. Cheng Hui only needs to say a few words, but Zhang Yuan becomes impatient and asks Cheng Hui if he looks down on him for not finding a job. Cheng Hui continues. I didn’t dare to ask anymore.

04

Cheng Hui not only had to go to work, but also had to come back early to cook to prevent Zhang Yuan from getting hungry.

But just like that, Zhang Yuan was still too dissatisfied when eating: "What kind of food are you cooking? It's so salty. You are so old that you can't even cook a dish. Who else can you think of it besides me?" You?"

As long as Zhang Yuan has the slightest dissatisfaction with Cheng Hui, he will start to belittle and humiliate her in words and actions.

One day, Cheng Hui, a little sister whom she had not seen for many years, invited Cheng Hui to dinner. Cheng Hui was very happy. She changed several clothes at home and asked Zhang Yuan which one looked better.

Zhang Yuan glanced at it and said: "You are already this age, you have so many wrinkles on your face and fat on your belly. You don't look good in anything you wear."

Cheng Hui pursed her lips and wanted to refute, but after thinking about it, she couldn't look good. I think what Zhang Yuan said seems to make sense. She is indeed older, has crow's feet, and her figure management is not that good.

Cheng Hui unknowingly became more and more inferior.

When lying in bed at night, Cheng Hui occasionally received WeChat messages from male colleagues asking her about work.

Zhang Yuan saw it and asked angrily: "Who is this man this late at night? Don't even think about hooking up with him. No one but me can appreciate you."

Zhang Yuan said Too many times, Cheng Hui would collapse and start shouting and swearing. At this time, Zhang Yuan showed an attitude of admitting his mistake and said slowly: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I love you too much, that's why I'm like this Yes, you must forgive me."

As soon as Zhang Yuan apologized, Cheng Hui easily forgave him.

Cheng Hui didn't know how she ended up like this. She started to be cautious every day, fearing that if she didn't do something well, she would offend Zhang Yuan.

She became increasingly neurotic.

05

After repeated tossing and tossing, Cheng Hui felt more and more unhappy that she was living a very unhappy life, but she did not know how to escape because of the shackles of marriage.

She felt that she finally got married. If she got divorced easily, how would outsiders think of her?

She also felt that what Zhang Yuan said was quite right. She was indeed old, in bad shape, and couldn't cook... she was absolutely useless. She doubted herself, denied herself, and felt that she was worthless. Who else could she do except Zhang Yuan? They all look down upon her.

So she hinted that she wanted to improve herself, stabilize her family, and cherish Zhang Yuan.

But Zhang Yuan started to get more serious at this time.

He not only attacks Cheng Hui verbally, but also directly fights her when something doesn't go his way.

After many times, Cheng Hui was completely desperate. This time she no longer compromised with Zhang Yuan, but directly called the police when Zhang Yuan took action.

She cried and told her parents about this incident. Their parents were shocked and asked Cheng Hui to divorce directly. Domestic violence Zero tolerance.

Just like that, Cheng Hui and Zhang Yuan divorced, but Zhang Yuan refused to divorce at first. He softly and persistently begged Cheng Hui to forgive him, saying that he was impulsive and would never do this again.

"Huihui, you know that I love you, and I promise I will never hit you in the future."

"I love you too much, I am too insecure Huihui."

Cheng Hui saw at the beginning Zhang Yuan asked for reconciliation one after another on WeChat, but she was also shaken. Fortunately, her parents saw her poor condition and found a psychiatrist for her.

With the guidance of a psychiatrist, Cheng Hui realized that she had been PUAd.

It is always difficult for women to get out of love. This is also the so-called sweet trap.

After the divorce, Cheng Hui gradually recovered under the care of her parents. She no longer worried about whether she would be able to get married in the future, but lived her life well every day.

After all, in life, getting married and having children is only a small part of life. It's best to have it. If not, don't be too anxious, it will always come.

Even if he doesn't come in the end, then the meaning of life is more than that, so there is really no need to be too anxious.