Many years ago, there was a mother-in-law in her seventies who lived in a remote rural area. She lived only a hundred meters away from her eldest daughter-in-law, but they had not been in contact with each other for many years.

Many years ago, there was a mother-in-law in her seventies in a remote rural area. She lived only a hundred meters away from her eldest daughter-in-law, but they had not been in contact with each other for many years.

This mother-in-law gave birth to two sons. The eldest son got married early, and the mother-in-law built a thatched house. (At that time, every house in the poor area had thatched houses.) When the eldest grandson was fifteen years old, the mother-in-law’s second son I found a partner, and at that time I was already building a tile-roofed house. My mother-in-law's second son earned a little money, and my mother-in-law also helped me with a little money, so I could not forcefully build three tiled houses for her second son.

The eldest daughter-in-law felt uncomfortable looking at the tile-roofed house, (but she couldn't say anything.) She would always find something to quarrel with her mother-in-law every once in a while. Conflicts accumulated over time, and finally reached the point of fighting. The eldest daughter-in-law was very tough, and the mother-in-law didn't show any weakness with her mouth. At first, the two of them just talked, and then the quarrel became more and more angry, and they started fighting with each other. The father-in-law heard this, and when he came out and saw the two women fighting together, they They wanted to start a fight, but then the eldest daughter-in-law saw her father-in-law coming. She thought that her father-in-law was also going to join the fight, so she cursed her father-in-law. When he saw it, his father-in-law turned away and left. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law continued to fight. The mother-in-law scratched her daughter-in-law's face, and the daughter-in-law scratched her mother-in-law's hand. An acquaintance who was watching the fun pulled them away.

The daughter-in-law was so angry that she ran back to her parents' home, called several young people, and tortured the old woman until she knelt down and apologized to Dao Qian. From then on, the mother-in-law and her eldest son's family never interacted with each other. The eldest daughter-in-law does not allow her husband and children to talk to her mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law can still talk to her son, but she can't talk to her daughter-in-law. She curses and fights for profit, which fully demonstrates human nature. Who is reliable in this society? Only interests can explain the problem best. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law each have their own reasons. This is the narrow-mindedness of human nature. If narrow-mindedness is combined with interests, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will never get along well.

If city people are rich, they can stay away from their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law if they don't get along, but poor people in rural areas do not have this condition. Those who live close to each other will never see each other when they look up or look down, and they will never be happy in their hearts.

words are the key to happiness. Communication is very important, and being reasonable is even more important.