For a man, the biggest fear in a relationship is to be cuckolded, right? After all, emotional harm is far more difficult to let go than physical harm. It is precisely because of this that there are many emotional programs nowadays that are designed to help couples resolve emotion

For a man, the biggest fear in a relationship is to be cuckolded, right?

After all, emotional harm is far more difficult to let go than physical harm.

It is precisely because of this that there are many emotional programs nowadays that are designed to help couples resolve emotional disputes. We can also see many wonderful cases here.

Just like the story of Xiaodong and Xiaoqian, it is worthy of reflection by many lovers.

Girlfriend cried and was overwhelmed

It turns out that Xiaoqian is a very beautiful girl, but compared to her, Xiaodong is slightly inferior in appearance.

But maybe his girlfriend is too beautiful, so Xiaodong always feels very stressed.

Especially after knowing that his girlfriend had dated seven boyfriends, Xiaodong felt even more awkward. He always thought that one day Xiaoqian would abandon him and he would become her eighth boyfriend. Ex-boyfriend.

Xiaoqian is also very helpless when it comes to her boyfriend's insecure worries about gains and losses. Xiaodong is really a bit suspicious when he keeps complaining about it on the show. Sometimes, even if he asks the opposite sex for directions, he will suspect that others are interested in him. , such possessiveness is really unbearable.

After hearing Xiaoqian’s complaint, many people on the show felt the same way and felt that maybe Xiaodong had gone too far.

As a couple, you still need to trust each other. Xiaodong's behavior will only make Xiaoqian feel constrained. Not only will it fail to keep Xiaoqian, it will be counterproductive, contrary to his original purpose, and finally push Xiaoqian further and further away. the further away.

However, in the face of everyone's accusations, Xiaodong directly broke the shocking news, which also made everyone realize who was really the problem in this relationship.

It turns out that just when the host was persuading Xiaodong not to interfere too much in his girlfriend's life, Xiaodong suddenly said that when he came home early from a business trip, he found Xiaoqian eating lobster in her pajamas with a male colleague. , and also persuaded myself not to think too much.

Moreover, the male colleague had already had an affair with Xiaoqian before. The two of them often flirted in front of him. He couldn't bear it anymore, so he kept such strict supervision on Xiaoqian.

Xiaodong broke the news about his girlfriend

As soon as these words came out, the trend in the field suddenly changed. People who were originally supporting Xiaoqian now turned to Xiaodong's side. Even the host was speechless and asked What happened to Xiaoqian at that time.

Xiaoqian did not deny what Xiaodong said, but she also believed that what she did was not wrong, even if she invited a stranger to her home when her husband was on a business trip, and she accompanied him in pajamas Have a meal.

It turns out that Xiaomei’s explanation for this matter was this. It was not that she took the initiative to invite the other party to her home at that time, but because her colleagues in the company were having a dinner together, and she did not attend because she was not feeling well. .

The reason why the other party came back to his home was to represent the company and come to visit in the name of the company. Secondly, I also care about myself, so I specially brought a portion of the crayfish at the party to prevent me from feeling isolated.

As for why she didn’t notify Xiaodong and still wore pajamas to receive the other party, Xiaoqian’s explanation was that she didn’t know the other party came so quickly, so she didn’t have time to change clothes.

Moreover, the other party had good intentions in sending her lobsters. If she informed Xiaodong in front of them, the other party would undoubtedly feel embarrassed. What's more, she didn't know that Xiaodong would come back early at that time, so that she wouldn't be able to make it in time. Tell Xiaodong about this, Xiaodong had a misunderstanding after seeing this situation.

As for the explanation given by Xiaoqian, let alone Xiaodong as her boyfriend, even the onlookers found it incomprehensible.Are there no female colleagues in Xiaoqian's company?

Is Xiaodong and his family so short of this plate of lobster?

Does this so-called company party require everyone to attend, otherwise they will be isolated by others?

It can be said that no matter from which angle you think about it, the social distance between Xiaoqian and this male colleague is a bit too close, and the two of them don't seem to shy away from suspicion at all, which is really hard for their partners to understand. .

Fortunately, with the persuasion of the audience and hosts, Xiaoqian finally realized what was wrong with her.

As a married woman, she should be careful to keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex. Even if she has a clear conscience, she should understand the principle that a gentleman should not build a dangerous wall and learn to avoid suspicion.

And even if Xiaoqian is not interested in the other person, she can't guarantee that the male colleague is interested in her. At that time, the conflict between Xiaodong and the other person will undoubtedly be further intensified, and even lead to tragedy.