Ms. Lin is 33 years old this year. She has a sister who is two years younger than her. Because her parents divorced when she was twelve years old, during the years when she lived with her mother, Ms. Lin and her sister had almost no contact with her father, who No alimony has bee

Ms. Lin is 33 years old this year. She has a sister who is two years younger than her. Because her parents divorced when she was twelve years old, during the years when she lived with her mother, Ms. Lin and her sister had almost no contact with her father. The father has never paid child support to them!

I thought that we would never have any interactions with each other. Unexpectedly, as Ms. Lin and her sister entered society one after another, her father began to contact them frequently. Every time he either asked Ms. Lin for money to eat, or claimed that he was in trouble and needed Ms. Lin to help him.

At first, Ms. Lin and her sister would give her father some money, but the times when she saw her father asking for money became more and more frequent, and Ms. Lin gradually stopped answering her father’s calls. Even if her father was at her door, Ms. Lin was unwilling. Open the door and let him in!

According to Ms. Lin’s statistics, she and her sister have lent her father no less than 200,000 yuan in total over the years, but her father has never paid back once. Instead, he came to them for money when he ran out of money.

In September 2021, his father was sued by multiple creditors because he was unable to repay a debt of 250,000 yuan. Then his father immediately told Ms. Lin and his sister about the matter. He hoped that his two daughters could help him again. .

The door to my hometown was welded shut. I couldn’t even get in. Now they want to sue me! After hearing what her father was going through, Ms. Lin did not agree to help her father. After she made a phone call to express her attitude to her sister, she stopped paying attention to her father!

Ms. Lin’s behavior made her father feel very angry. After she came to the door many times but failed to get the money from her daughter, she first went to her daughter’s work to cause trouble, and then went to the court to sue her daughter Ms. Lin!

In order to divorce her father, her mother was not only willing to leave the house, but she even agreed to pay 50,000 yuan in installments as compensation for the divorce!

You sleep at home until noon every day. What do your two daughters eat?

Both daughters will get married in the future, I don’t care what they eat!

The above conversation comes from a conversation between my father and my next-door neighbor many years ago. Ms. Lin was present at the scene, but my father didn’t feel anything was wrong after he said these words.

In Ms. Lin’s memory, her father was a person who often had nothing to do at home. There were often many wine bottles piled up at home. His father would sleep until noon every day before getting up. After eating lunch at home, he would go out and hang out.

Ms. Lin no longer remembers how many times her father smashed the items in her home, and she also forgot how many times her father kicked down the door of her home when he was drunk.

As a labor force in the family, her father's behavior made life very difficult for Ms. Lin and her sister. Although her mother had been trying her best to maintain the family, in the end she couldn't bear that her father chose to divorce.

My mother didn't want to continue living like this, but my father liked this kind of life very much, so he refused to divorce at that time. In order to get out of the predicament and to make a better life for her two daughters, she took the initiative to make a compromise.

The mother left the house with a clean body and successfully divorced her father by paying 50,000 yuan in three years. Ms. Lin and her sister left the home with their mother. Ms. Lin clearly remembers that when the three of them were packing their luggage, her father asked her mother to write an IOU for 50,000 yuan!

The three of them, mother and daughter, first lived with some uncles for a period of time. Later, when they saw that their aunts were not happy, their mother sent Ms. Lin to live with her grandparents while she went to work elsewhere.

Less than half a year after her mother left, her father went to the house of Ms. Lin’s grandparents. He claimed that Ms. Lin’s mother had borrowed money and refused to repay it, and asked his ex-wife to give him an explanation. Finally, several of Ms. Lin’s uncles pooled together 2,000 yuan for this case. The matter was temporarily resolved.

In order to prevent her ex-husband from disturbing her life, it took Ms. Lin’s mother three years to pay the 50,000 yuan fee. Of course, she owed her relatives more than 20,000 yuan!

The father did not pay child support, but when his two daughters became adults, he often asked them for money! After

moved out of his father's home, his father never paid support to Ms. Lin and her sister, and her mother never asked for this fee.

Grandpa and grandma's house is only one or two kilometers away from where her father lives. Ms. Lin and her sister occasionally meet their father on the street, but they will not come up to say hello to him. This shows that the two sisters are very disgusted with their father!

Perhaps it was because she saw that it was not easy for her mother to work outside to make money, or perhaps because she understood the importance of studying, Ms. Lin entered college in the sixth year after her parents divorced. After knowing the news, her father came to visit Ms. Lin, but Ms. Lin ignored her father.

Seeing that his daughter refused to pay attention to him, his father did not give up. Instead, after getting his daughter's phone number, he often called her to communicate with her. Seeing that her father had changed a lot, Ms. Lin put aside her years of prejudice and chose to forgive her father. But I didn’t expect that in less than two years, my father’s purpose would be revealed!

Ms. Lin was still in college at the time, and her father called and asked Ms. Lin if she had any money. Knowing that Ms. Lin had money, her father took the money from Ms. Lin on the grounds that he had encountered difficulties.

After receiving the money, his father did not return it to Ms. Lin. Instead, he contacted Ms. Lin after a while and never mentioned the matter of repaying the money again. Knowing that Ms. Lin was still studying and had little money, her father’s behavior in those years was not excessive. However, as Ms. Lin found a job after graduating from college, her father came to Ms. Lin every now and then to ask for money. Her younger sister was often harassed by her father when she married far away. Ask for money.

The reason why my father borrowed money was different every time, and he never paid it back afterwards. He had borrowed twenty yuan, fifty yuan, and one hundred yuan from Ms. Lin. What made Ms. Lin most angry was that once the owner of the canteen in the village where her father lived called and claimed that Ms. Lin's father took 200 yuan of goods from his store without paying.

In order not to be disturbed by her father, Ms. Lin also began to stop answering her father's calls, but her father would send them from other people's mobile phones. Ms. Lin was so troubled that she hung up when she saw a number from her hometown for a while. Even though she and her sister got married from 2012 to 2014, they did not invite their father to their wedding!

In 2015, my father asked Ms. Lin and her sister for money on the pretext that he had suffered a stroke and was hospitalized. At first, Ms. Lin did not believe it. Later, after seeing the hospitalization information and physical examination report provided by her father, Ms. Lin My sister and I just scraped together 60,000 yuan to go back. Later, Ms. Lin learned through asking her friends that her father had exaggerated the facts and that his physical condition was not that serious!

After Ms. Lin and her sister gave their father 200,000 yuan one after another, they rarely asked about his father's affairs. Every time his father called, they chose not to see him.

In September 2021, his father, who had not been in contact for a long time, came to Ms. Lin again. This time he came to Ms. Lin to ask for money. He hoped that Ms. Lin and his sister would pool 250,000 to repay his debt.

Although it was later confirmed that her father was being sued and the door of the old house where his father lived was welded shut, Ms. Lin still did not agree to lend money to her father.

After his father visited the house several times but failed to get the money, he went directly to Ms. Lin’s workplace to make a fuss, and even talked to the leader of Ms. Lin’s workplace.

Although Ms. Lin was very angry about what her father did, she did not respond because she no longer wanted to have anything to do with her father.

If you give me 300,000 yuan, I won’t bother you with pension matters in the future. You can sign the agreement! The conditions proposed by her father were not ignored by Ms. Lin, and her sister directly stated that her father’s pension issue has nothing to do with her!

Seeing his daughter treating him like this, his father no longer cared about it. He took Ms. Lin and her sister to court. He demanded that his two daughters pay him a lump sum of 250,000 yuan as future alimony, and then no one had anything to do with it. It’s related!

On June 29, 2022, Ms. Lin and her sister walked into the court together to resolve the dispute with their father!

Article 26 of " Civil Code " states that parents have the obligation to support, educate and protect their minor children. As a corresponding responsibility, adult children also have the obligation to support, support and protect their parents.

Article 1067 of the Civil Code stipulates: When parents have lost their source of income, lack the ability to work, and have difficulties in living, they may require their children to fulfill their support obligations. If their children fail to perform their obligations, parents have the right to require their children to fulfill their support obligations in accordance with local regulations. The basic standard of living is to pay a certain amount of alimony on a monthly basis.

If parents require their children to pay a one-time alimony, it is possible after both parties negotiate and agree. The premise is that both parties have reached an agreement on the maintenance issue and the children are able to pay this fee.

After mediation by the staff, although Ms. Lin and her sister did not agree to pay 300,000 yuan in alimony to their father, they were willing to pay an amount of alimony to their father.

Ms. Lin agreed to pay her father 500 yuan a month as alimony, and her sister paid her father 300 yuan a month as alimony. The father was not satisfied with this result. He still hoped that his two daughters could first use some of the money to pay off his debts, but Ms. Lin and her sister did not agree. Seeing his daughter's tough attitude, the father finally agreed to the plan.

My father owes us two 200,000 yuan. Can we ask him to repay it?

Not only can you ask him to repay this debt, but you can also settle with him the alimony that needs to be paid to you that year. Children have the responsibility to support their parents, and parents have the responsibility to support their children.

After Ms. Lin asked a passing lawyer, she came up with the idea of ​​suing her father!