Logically speaking, the daughter-in-law is pregnant for more than seven months, and the husband's family should be very happy and caring about the pregnant daughter-in-law. However, what I said today is a bit confusing.

When it comes to happy events in the family, there are only two biggest ones: one is the wedding, and the other is the addition of a new member. Logically speaking, the daughter-in-law is pregnant for more than seven months, and the husband's family should be very happy and caring about the pregnant daughter-in-law. However, what I said today is a bit confusing.

Xiaohua married from another province a few years ago. She met her husband when they were working in the same factory. Later, they felt good about each other and got together.

Xiaohua’s parents did not agree with their marriage. Firstly, it was because it was too far away from home and it was inconvenient to move back and forth. Secondly, after all, they were not in the local area and they did not understand the situation at the other party’s family, including how they behaved. They were afraid that their daughter would be disadvantaged if she got married. . But Xiaohua decided to marry regardless of her family's objections.

After getting married, my husband opened a shop at home. Although it had certain benefits, it was not very impressive. It was the kind of business where it was better to run it by one person than to work, but it was not very cost-effective for two people to run it. After all, I am married now and will have to raise children in the future. It is a waste of time to spend time at home. So the young couple planned to "separately". One would continue to run the shop at home, and the other would go out to work, so that they could accumulate wealth more quickly.

Originally this was a good idea, but on the issue of "who will go and who will stay", the young couple had big differences. Xiaohua's husband believes that as a man, he should go out to work. After all, it is very common for men to go out to work in rural areas, and it is safer for men to go out than for women to wander alone. Moreover, he would inevitably endure a lot of hardships when he was away from home in unfamiliar places, coupled with various uncertain factors. Out of distress, he did not want his wife to go out alone and suffer.

But Xiaohua’s idea is completely opposite. Xiaohua believes that women today are also very good. Before she got married, she was the same way. She went out to find a job alone, solved the problems she encountered outside, and earned no less than men. , and there is another more important reason: she feels that she does not have the freedom to visit the store, and she cannot stand the feeling of sitting there all day without being able to go anywhere. In addition, since I am a foreigner, it is not convenient to do things in the village, including communication. So she wanted her husband to stay while she went out to work. After arguing for many days, her husband finally couldn't resist her and had to agree to the matter.

Because the job Xiaohua found was in another province, far away from home, and the company couldn't easily ask for leave, so it took three months before this, and sometimes it would take longer. Of course, every time I come back, I stay at home for a few days.

Just like this, more than a year has passed. On this day, Xiaohua called her husband and told her that she was pregnant and was going to resign and go home to raise the baby in peace. But after hearing this, the husband only said, "Come back"! Then he hung up the phone. After Xiaohua got off the bus at the entrance of the village, she brought too many things and was pregnant, so she called her husband and asked him to come over to take care of her. Unexpectedly, she called her husband directly after making several calls. Hang up. In desperation, I just need to slowly move home.

But when she came to the door of her home, she found that the door of her home was closed. She called again, but no one answered. In the end, I had no choice but to go to the store to look for it. When I arrived at the store, I found that my mother-in-law and husband were both there.

The more Xiaohua thought about it, the angrier he became, so he went up and argued with them: "I already said I would come back today, why didn't anyone pick me up? How could you bear to let me, a pregnant woman, carry so many things by myself?" Move back bit by bit?"

At this time, the husband smiled and said, "What does it have to do with me?" Xiaohua said, "What does it have to do with you? I am your daughter-in-law. It's your child, how could you do this?" At this time, his husband waved his hands and said, "Wait, how do I know if you are my wife? I don't know if the child is mine when you leave? Yes, you got pregnant after working abroad for a while? Isn’t this so funny?”

Xiaohua was so angry that she didn’t know she was pregnant until she worked abroad for a while. Why did she do it without any evidence? What about being deemed bad? And you still humiliate me like this?

At this time, Xiaohua looked at her mother-in-law, who had been silent, and said, "Mom, can you please say something to me? Just take care of your son, how could he do this to me?"

Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law said viciously : "You are the one who should be in charge, right? My son is so unlucky that he can fall in love with a woman like you! Don't pretend to be pitiful in front of me, and leave quickly! Our family cannot afford to lose this person! In the future, you will not be in my family either. I want to go in again!"

had no choice but to find a place to settle down. Thinking about it, he really shouldn't have been so stubborn and ignored his parents' advice. Now I am in this situation, without any friends or support, and I dare not go back to my parents' home. Firstly, I am too embarrassed to face my family, and secondly, I am afraid that my parents will be sad, and I don't know what to do for a while.

Final summary

As the saying goes: Men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Especially for girls, although life-long matters are ultimately decided by themselves, they can refer to their parents’ opinions. After all, they have more experience than you and see a longer-term perspective than you. What matters is the rest of your life. Happiness, this is not a small thing.

In addition, after getting married, women should try not to go out to work alone. It would be better if the couple can work together. If not, then find a job nearby. Wealth is accumulated slowly. Between husband and wife, when things happen, Communicate more, communicate more, and try to reach a consensus before implementing it. Do you think this is true?

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