text / Qiaomu
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Before falling in love, women have had many longings and fantasies. They hope that the man they love deeply can grow old together. They hope that under the turbulence and tempering of life, the relationship between the two people will be better. , never change the original intention.
It's just the longevity of a relationship. After all, it doesn't rely on the other person's character and conscience. People who really love you will love you as always, and people who really don't love you will change their ways halfway.
It is not uncommon for love to lead to mutual resentment. Many people fall in love and forget why they fell in love in the first place, and why they broke up in the end?
The man that a woman cares about in her life must be the man she will never forget, the man she wants to stay with her for the rest of her life.
When a woman has a sweetheart living in her heart, she will put all her feelings and all her happiness expectations on this man.
A woman hopes that this man will work hard and give herself a better life. She hopes that this man will have strong working ability, be a potential stock in the workplace, and can give herself a life without worries about food and clothing. So as a woman, she does not have to be too No need to work too hard or run around too much.
There is a sweetheart living in a woman's heart. She hopes that the other person will work hard for her, but she never thought that she would have to work hard for herself.
When a woman's sweetheart no longer loves her, when a woman's sweetheart changes her mind, the woman will suffer a great emotional blow, because the happiness and beautiful life she once wanted to place on will be far away from her.
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A woman hopes that her love with her sweetheart will last forever, but love does not always go as she wishes.
On the road of relationship management, when a woman wants to be with a man until she grows old, maybe the person he chooses is not you.
When the person you love really doesn’t love you anymore, you may be puzzled and unable to find the answer.
Because at the beginning of this relationship, he was obviously the one who pursued you first; because in the formation of this relationship, he was obviously the one who initiated it, but now she is the one who wants to leave you.
Even if you have a lot of unwillingness in your heart, even if you break your head, you can't get the answer. You can only accept the result of his relationship with you and accept the current reality.
You can only blame yourself. When there is a problem in the relationship, you did not notice it in time. When his attitude towards you changed, you did not realize it in time.
Instead, you make a lot of excuses for the other person. You think he is too busy and too hard, so you think his indifference and inconsistent attitude towards you are normal.
The beginning of a love requires the consent of two people, and the end of a love only requires one person to make a decision.
The book says: "You can never wake up someone who is pretending to sleep, and you can't make someone who doesn't love you fall in love with you."
If one day, your sweetheart doesn't love you anymore, remember this word You win - let go.
What I fear most is that women will have a lot of reluctance in their relationships. Even after a man clearly doesn’t love you, you will continue to pester him. You will be humble and pester, thinking that you will get the man’s love.
In fact, a man can only feel disgusted and speechless. When he doesn't love you anymore, he won't like you no matter what you do.
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When a woman cannot let go of her sweetheart, she is embarrassing herself, creating a prison for herself, and rejecting her own reconciliation and happiness.
If your sweetheart has changed his mind, don't think that you have a lot of energy to change his feelings for you and make him fall in love with you again. When a person stops loving you, don't expect that you can win him back.
When love begins, it means that it will also end. This is the reality of love, and this is the truth that a man loves you. It’s just that many times, you don’t want to believe it or admit it.
After all, in this world, only a few people can achieve everlasting love. Too many people have already parted ways halfway.
When a man suddenly loves you and then suddenly stops loving you, don’t expect the man to give you a reasonable explanation.
When he loves you, he thinks your willfulness is cute, and he thinks your cuteness is innocence. When he loves you, he thinks your willfulness is pampering, and he thinks your innocence is ignorance.
The person who has changed his feelings for you is the man, not you.
If you know that your sweetheart has changed his mind, let him go as soon as possible.
There is nothing to worry about when you are unwilling to let go of your complaints against men. We must eventually learn to mature and grow in our relationships. We will only find out after investing our emotions and experiences in people who are not suitable for us. How lucky it is to be able to meet the person you like, and how rare it is to cherish the person you like.
When he has changed his mind, don't waste your efforts to restore his relationship with you. Instead of complaining and entangled, it is better to let him go free as soon as possible.
When you let a man go, you actually let yourself go. When you make a man happy, you are actually making your own happiness come true.
There is no reason in the relationship. If he loves you, he loves you. If he doesn't love you, he doesn't love you. It's not because of how much you have paid or how much you love him that he is willing to be with you. .
Because feelings require two people to go in both directions, one person's efforts are just your one-man show. You can't move him. What you can move is your own wishful thinking.
If one day your sweetheart really changes his mind, then forget about him as soon as possible and let go of him as soon as possible. When you let go of him and everything in your past and move forward bravely, you will win in life, because you will win in this life. , no fear of any choice, no fear of anyone leaving.
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