Both ancients and modern people have used many ways to praise love, with the purpose of expressing their yearning for beautiful and pure love. However, dreams cannot match reality. For most people, love itself is too rare. , too difficult to own.
Nowadays, many people get married and have children because of helplessness caused by external pressure. It is true that two people have true love for each other, and they often become the envy of people around them. In fact, love is not only like this for ordinary people, but also for those who are talented.
Talented woman Su Xuelin is one of the "Five Great Female Writers in China" in the Republic of China. When it comes to talent, Su Xuelin is naturally not lacking, but when it comes to love, she does have regrets. Su Xuelin, who grew up in a feudal family, has a strong She was rebellious and free-thinking, but in the end she had no choice but to marry a man named Zhang Baoling under the pressure of the outside world. Logically speaking, this was a well-matched and beautiful marriage. However, the two lived a very miserable life due to their personality differences. awkward.
The marriage between the two lasted for 36 years, and during these 36 years, Su Xuelin always refused to sleep with Zhang Baoling. The reason was: I am a new woman, I cannot serve you, and I have no such obligation. Therefore, although the two are husband and wife, they are not in the same room. They lived a life of non-interference, but they never chose to divorce. Why?
In 1897, Su Xiaomei, also known as Su Xuelin, was born in a scholarly family in Ruian County, Zhejiang Province. The family's material conditions are very good, but Su Xiaomei does not have the opportunity to access education. Unlike those poor children, the reason why Su Xiaomei cannot go to school is entirely because of the conservative concept of her elders - a woman's lack of talent is a virtue.
Although she had no worries about food and clothing, she could not study. The young Su Xiaomei did not obey her elders' advice, but resisted to the end. This also developed Su Xiaomei's rebellious and freedom-loving character.
If he is not allowed to go to school, he will not eat until his family compromises. Later, Su Xiaomei was sent to school, but despite this, breaking the prejudice against women was not something that could happen overnight. The teachers who teach at
do not have any requirements for Su Xiaomei's grades, but Su Xiaomei has very high requirements for herself. Every time she teaches, Su Xiaomei ranks among the best.
Time passed day by day, and in the blink of an eye, Su Xiaomei had become an 18-year-old girl. According to past habits, Su Xiaomei had reached the age of marriage.
When the elders began to choose a partner for Su Xiaomei, Su Xiaomei's reaction was very extreme. She really could not accept that she had been restricted by marriage at the age of 18.
At that time, Su Xiaomei's thoughts were impacted by many advanced ideas. She already had her own unique thoughts. The traditional conservative ideas of the past could not be imposed on Su Xiaomei.
In order to crush her family’s thoughts on her getting married. She decided to go to France secretly to study abroad. In 1921, Su Xiaomei went to France. It was not until the night before she left that Su Xiaomei told her family.
Seeing that Amelia Su was about to leave, her parents had no choice but to let her go. Su Xiaomei had a very pleasant life when she was studying abroad, but at the same time she had a deep longing for her motherland and the loneliness that often swept her away.
In 1925, Su Xiaomei suddenly received a letter from home. Her mother was seriously ill. Su Xiaomei, who cared about her family, immediately chose to return to China and couldn't wait to see her mother.
After meeting, her mother, who was seriously ill, asked Su Xiaomei to marry Zhang Baoling. Seeing that her mother was already haggard, Su Xuelin really didn't want to disappoint her mother again, so she agreed.
In this way, Su Xuelin and Zhang Baoling got married. Su Xuelin did not live happily in the days after marriage. Although her husband Zhang Baoling was in the same family as her and both were engaged in teaching and educating people, their personalities were very different.
In the days after marriage, Su Xuelin was disappointed with her husband again and again. In her imagination, her husband should be a passionate and romantic man, but in reality, Zhang Baoling seemed to Su Xuelin to be very old-fashioned and upright.
The relationship between the two of them was full of twists and turns. In the end, they couldn't even have a friendly communication. They were obviously under the same roof, but they got along with each other like strangers, and they didn't eat and sleep in the same place. In fact, the two broke up five years after their marriage. However, because Su Xuelin became a Catholic in France, and one of the rules of Catholics is that divorce is not allowed, the two only broke up, but did not divorce.
Although Su Xuelin’s love story is regrettable, it does not mean that there is no love in the world that is worth pursuing and cherishing. If we take the plants and trees around us seriously in life and take care of ourselves, then love will naturally come one after another. If it is too much If you are impatient and have to court, you may be disappointed. Slowly get along with the years and live your life well.
Only when you like yourself can you have the ability to love others. Let us work together to make the world a better place and bring infinite possibilities in life. Let us transcend, experience the colorfulness of life, and accept the regret of letting go. Growing up through loss is the most cherished part.
