Everyone spends the winter alone in their own lives. I walked home alone at night and passed out drunk on the fabric sofa. When I am alone, I sometimes chat with myself. I am also worried about being alone. Every time I hear what I want to say about loneliness in this song, I alw

Everyone spends the winter alone in his own life. I walked home alone at night and passed out drunk on the fabric sofa.

When I am alone, I sometimes chat with myself. I am also worried about being alone. Every time I hear what I want to say about loneliness in this song, I always have mixed feelings in my heart. People, as they keep walking, they realize that they have long become an isolated island. I was full of bitterness, but I had no place to express it; I often had scars all over my body, but no one comforted me. In the end, everyone learned to survive the long night alone and swallow all the loneliness.

Don't look back, there is actually no one behind you. When we were children, we always looked forward to growing up, thinking that becoming a poop would give us everything we wanted. But when we really enter the adult world, we find that the older we grow, the more lonely we become, and the older we grow, the more restless we become.

From the carefree teenagers on campus to the lonely adults working nine to five; from the children who were protected by their parents all the way to the spiritual support of the whole family on their shoulders; from not touching the spring water with ten fingers, To the point of rushing around all day just to break a few taels of silver... People always move forward, the more they realize: more and more people rely on themselves, but what they can rely on is getting lower and lower. .

My parents who once thought they were omnipotent suddenly had white hair growing on their heads. Good friends who used to talk about everything are now afraid of disturbing even sending a message. As we grew older, it was no longer as easy as in the past to find people to travel with.

People around me come and go, but there are only a handful of people who really care about me. There are more friends, but there are probably not many who can say a few words from the bottom of my heart. When you are exhausted at work, you really want to find someone to talk to about how tired you have been recently, but you have flipped through your phone’s address book and don’t know who to talk to. At night when you are so sick that you can’t cheer up, you are alone. I am alone in bed, expecting someone to ask me how I am, but the screen of my mobile phone has not flickered from beginning to end... I have been forced to the wall by life for countless moments, and a strong sense of powerlessness has been hitting my face like a tide. Come.

The adult world is always empty except for yourself. Don't be sad, you have to survive all the loneliness alone. There is a question on the Internet: Have you ever had a personal experience of being extremely lonely? The following netizens responded, each one is extremely sad: Some people suffer from appendicitis late at night, have no friends around them, and their parents are far away. In the end, only one person endured the pain and dialed 120, and did it alone. Surgical treatment; some people suffered the double blow of being broken up and laid off within a week. They slept in a rental house for a month without receiving a single follow-up call. In the end, they managed to cheer themselves up and began to submit resumes online again.

The life of adults has always been one level after another, one difficulty and another. As the writer Liu Liangcheng wrote, each of us spends the winter alone in our own lives. Sometimes we don't want to make excuses, but we understand as we walk that loneliness is actually the normal state of life.

There are many people who can accompany you on a journey, but there are too few people who can accompany you from the starting point to the terminal. The more you have experienced over the years, the more you will recognize this sentence: When you were a child, no one loved a strong child. When you grow up, you will find that no one loves a child and learn to be strong.

Human life is a test. There are some loneliness that you can't escape, and there are some loneliness that you can't escape. In the end, we have to taste all the loneliness alone and walk through the darkest road in life. Don't be afraid, you can live to be a million heroes by yourself.

In Spirited Away, I have remembered what Feilong said to Qianxun's novel for a long time: No matter how lonely and lonely you are, you still have to keep walking, you can't stop and you can't look back. In a person's life, all development is gradual from loss. The adult world is filled with unspeakable loneliness.

can be integrated into the whole process of loneliness, which is the whole process of a person's life sprouting. If you are used to digesting and absorbing all grievances alone, you will no longer always feel like someone is trying to help you.If you take on the burden of life alone, you won't have to rely on everyone else.

If you learn to live with loneliness, no one's happening will make you happy, and similarly, no one's passing will hurt you at all. As the saying goes: before loneliness was confusion, but after loneliness there is development. We have experienced heartbreaking moments of loneliness time and time again: living alone, grieving alone, seeking medical treatment alone, treating injuries alone... But it is precisely these days of being alone that make each other become Stronger and calmer.

The moment you feel that the medicine is ineffective, it will eventually make you sick for a long time. These hard years you have endured alone will turn into energy and blend into your bones and blood. So that you can live as a team even if you are alone.

I have always liked a saying: People always have to go through a period of desolation in life before they can reach the bright spring in their hearts. On the long road of life, there will always be countless lonely and deserted moments. But you have to believe: after surviving the trough, it will be spring; after being lonely, flowers will bloom.