It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural "enemies"! This is not true at all! Especially when these two women lived together, they were at odds over a trivial matter. Some smart women will tolerate it and won't show it on the surface, while other women make things bigger!
Ms. Lin
I love eating durian, and there is nothing wrong with it!
Some time ago, my husband saw that it was very hard for me to take care of my children at home, so he took my mother-in-law from my hometown. He wanted to share my pressure, help me take care of my family and children, and let me relax!
I think it’s good, it makes me feel much more relaxed, I can take a good rest and eat something I like!
Because I really like to eat durian, I often buy durian to eat. Maybe my mother-in-law thinks it is too expensive. I bought the durian home a few days ago and wanted to wait until evening to eat it. Unexpectedly, in one afternoon, my mother-in-law bought the durian for me. Throw it in the trash can!
This made me very angry, but I was just complaining. I thought my husband would coax me, but I didn’t expect my husband to say: " Mom has never eaten durian before! Maybe she thought it was bad, so she threw it away!" It’s not intentional! ”
Actually, this is not the first time. The durian I peeled before was directly stuck in the trash can. I thought someone had eaten it before! I didn’t expect that the whole thing was thrown away to me this time!
"I didn't mean it! Think about how many things you have done when you come to our house. ruined my good clothes for me! I just spent a few hundred yuan to buy a pot a few days ago, and she was not allowed to use steel wool. Brush, she used a steel ball to brush it to pieces in the end! Do you think she was doing it at home? After working all her life, asked her to sit there and rest every day, but she couldn’t rest, so she wanted to help you with more work. She is older, so let’s be tolerant, right? ”
Actually, I am? It’s tolerant enough! It’s not like I care about everything! This time I am really angry! Forget about housework, after all, my mother-in-law is also kind-hearted, but she secretly threw away the durians she bought before, but this time she threw them away completely! I just wanted to complain, but my husband still didn’t say a word to me!
"I am tolerant enough! How did you promise me before? What did you say when we got married? You would accommodate me when things happened and tolerate me in front of my family. But every time we quarreled, you never turned on me. This time too." Same, you don’t say a word in front of your mother-in-law, why don’t you speak for me?”
“ That’s my mother! ” the husband argued.
"What's wrong with your mother? I'm still your wife! You only know how to help your mother, but you don't know how to say a word for your wife!"
In fact, I also know that his mother worked hard to raise him and is kind to him. But she can’t do everything to her mother! Especially when we quarrel, we always stand from his point of view and never think from my point of view!
summary: In fact, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, especially when encountering conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a man, you must learn to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Although it is not easy for your mother to raise you for more than 20 years, your wife It’s even more difficult to have to accompany you for a lifetime! Sometimes, if you think more about problems from your wife’s perspective, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be better handled!
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