The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really a big problem that has been encountered at home and abroad since ancient times. If a family is not harmonious, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most important. So how did the rel

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a big problem that has been encountered at home and abroad since ancient times. If a family is not harmonious, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most important. So how did mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship appear?

For the mother-in-law, she has raised her son since he was a child, married her, and may have grandchildren for her son in the future. She feels that she has devoted her whole life to her son, so she feels that her son should listen to her. No matter what, at any time, you should support yourself. Even if you are married, you still have to intervene in your son's small family. Some people even ask their married sons to hand over their wages to them. Moreover, some mothers-in-law are too possessive and feel that their daughter-in-law has robbed their son when they get married, so they become hostile to their daughter-in-law. For a daughter-in-law, after getting married and forming a small family of her own, the two of them work together to support each other, so the other person should be the person closest to them. How they live their lives is also the couple's own business. So the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law emerged.

Our Chinese traditional virtue is to respect the old and love the young. In the past, there were even some three obediences and four virtues to restrain women. Although they are married, their husbands are generally filial to their parents and listen to their mother-in-law in most matters. In particular, some mothers-in-law like to stir up trouble and dissension, while most men stand on their mother's side and blindly ask their wives to tolerate it. So many times, if a daughter-in-law wants to live a better life at her mother-in-law's house, she has to do her best to take care of and please her.

However, many women in today's society are no longer willing or able to please their mothers-in-law. Because women's status continues to improve, women have their own careers and incomes, and they don't have to rely entirely on men for their lives. Naturally, they no longer need to please their mothers-in-law. And the most direct reason is that they don't often live together or live separately, so the intersection of life is greatly reduced. Moreover, if the daughter-in-law can always treat her as a daughter-in-law after she just got married, I believe that most daughters-in-law will still be willing to please their mother-in-law.

As a mother-in-law, don’t feel that you are superior to others. A daughter-in-law who has lived for a hundred years has become a mother-in-law, so she must do everything possible to regulate her daughter-in-law. My current wife doesn’t want to be like you. Sons, be filial to your parents and don’t expect your wife to do it for you. Old ideas must be changed if they need to be changed. Both husband and wife are capable, and if they can earn their own living without relying on their parents, they really don’t need anyone to please the other. The husband or wife should have a loving attitude toward each other's parents and respect equal exchanges.