Wen丨Tao Xiaojing, the spring breeze is not as good as yours, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you! Although a woman is full of expectations for love, she also has many worries. The battle between expectations and worries always exists, and no one wins the final victory. It is precis

Text丨Tao Xiaojing

The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!

Although a woman is full of expectations for love, she also has many worries. The battle between expectations and worries always exists, and no one wins the final victory.

It is precisely because of this that women do not express their love clearly after falling in love, but use some relatively obscure means to quietly release their love.

Although a woman is very aware of the disadvantages of doing this, she really doesn't want to take too much risk, nor does she want to lose value in the relationship, so she can only convey her affection to the man with tactful hints.

Women are looking forward to men's awareness, and also looking forward to men's active attack. Unfortunately, not every man can see clearly what a woman is thinking.

Most men are straight forward and don’t have so many twists and turns, so they can’t understand women’s subtle hints.

Men's lack of understanding has invisibly added a lot of obstacles to their emotional journey. If a man never understands a woman's cues, he may miss out on a beautiful relationship.

Although a woman is not so direct, a man can still detect the arrival of love from her contact.

Contact at different times has different meanings. The woman who contacts you at these times really wants to be flirted with by you, so don’t miss it.

When you are lovelorn

A woman likes you in her heart, but she will not bother you when you have a lover. She will only contact you after you break up.

When she learns that you are lovelorn, she will contact you as soon as possible. Although the contact at this time may seem more like comfort, her true intention is to seize the opportunity to start a new relationship with you.

The reason why a woman will contact you at this time is because she knows that you are very fragile after a breakup. As long as she can give you more warmth, your heart will be easily broken by her.

To put it bluntly, she just wanted to take advantage of the situation. She doesn't mind if you use her to forget your previous lover, she just wants to be with you.

Although she did not express her inner thoughts clearly, her action of contacting you at this time is enough to show that she has thoughts about you.

If you don't want to have a window of time in your relationship, , then you can seize this opportunity to flirt with her. But if you have no intention of being with her, then don't hurt her.

When you have insomnia

Everyone has insomnia, but not everyone can get the company of others when they have insomnia.

A woman can take the initiative to contact you after learning that you have insomnia. It is obvious that she is interested in you. How can you not understand?

A woman who is willing to sacrifice her rest time to accompany you even though she can have a good night's sleep shows that she cares about you and she doesn't want to see you suffering from insomnia alone.

In fact, she really wants to be with you, but she doesn't have the courage yet, so she can only use her mobile phone to accompany you from a distance.

There is only one purpose for a woman to do this, which is to send you a signal that she likes you, hinting to you that she really wants to be flirted with by you.

If you have a crush on her, then don't miss this opportunity. As long as you take the initiative, you can easily win the beauty back.

The opportunity is right in front of you, don't miss it in vain. Seize the opportunity and take the initiative, and you will be more likely to be happy.

When you are in trouble

People nowadays are both realistic and selfish. If it were not for the love in their hearts, they would not be stupid enough to get into trouble.

Those who don’t love you will run away faster than anyone else when they know you are in trouble. No matter how much you beg, they won't help you.

The only people who can take the initiative to contact you at this time and lend a helping hand to you are those who love you.

So you have to know that when a woman contacts you when you are in trouble, she does not want to laugh at you, but she still wants to help you and wants you to understand her feelings.

Maybe her power is very weak and she cannot give you actual help, but her ability to take the risk to contact you shows that she really cares about you.

Although he expressed it tactfully, the affection contained in it was strong. If you already feel her affection for you, give her something back.

You have to know that she is always looking forward to your initiative. As long as you take the initiative, you can have a wonderful experience with her.

Xiaojing’s emotional message:

Although contact is a very common thing, because the time of contact is different, the profound meaning contained in it is also different.

The connection in normal times may only contain friendship, but the connection at these times represents love.

If a woman always contacts you at these times, it means that you are very important to her and her feelings for you are no longer pure.

She really wants to be flirted with by you, and wants to have a breakthrough with you, but she lacks the courage to take the initiative to talk about love, so she can only hint to you in this way.

No matter what you think about a woman, you cannot ignore her hints or her love.

If you also want to have further development with her, then seize the opportunity and don't let yourself miss a true relationship.