I was also shocked when I thought about this question. I thought, isn’t it natural to get married and have children? Does it still have to be purposeful? If you think about it carefully, if you have to talk about purpose, it really does! I summed it up, and it’s nothing more than

I was shocked when I thought about this problem. I thought, isn’t it natural to get married and have children? Does it still have to be purposeful? If you think about it carefully, if you have to talk about purpose, it really does! I summarized it, and it is nothing more than the following 4 points:

The population issue is a country’s century-old plan, which is enough to affect the life and death of a country and a nation! From ancient times to the present, the size of the population has marked whether a country is prosperous and strong! Therefore, any country attaches great importance to its own population. Today I will not elaborate on these macro aspects in detail. I will talk about the purpose of getting married and having children from the perspective of an ordinary person.

The first reason: traditional problem :

To put it more crudely, it is the problem of succeeding . Some netizens have said that this feudal dynasty has ended for hundreds of years, but you are still so stubborn in your feudal thinking! I want to say that since this idea has been circulating for thousands of years, it shows that it is still reasonable. The existence of means that is reasonable. As for whether it is the dregs or the essence left by our ancestors, it is really hard to say. I think it is still the essence! It is true that our ordinary families have neither a throne to inherit nor assets to inherit, but we still need to get married and have children!

Every time during the Spring Festival, according to our local custom, on the evening of New Year's Eve, we would go to the graves of our ancestors to worship them, in order to thank them for bringing us to this wonderful world. At that time, you can see that without descendants, it is an isolated grave. An isolated grave that is overgrown with weeds and even trampled down without anyone taking care of it. Soon, it will completely disappear from people's sight. It is very desolate. Of course, as geese pass by and leave behind photos, people leave behind their names. We will eventually be forgotten by this society. It’s just a matter of sooner or later.

Some people may have said that even if you go to the grave to pay homage, you are not paying homage to the generation of your great-grandfather and great-grandfather. Even further back, you don’t even know where they are buried. Yes, many of them are indeed unexamined, but you know Yes, we will all worship. On the evening of New Year’s Eve every year, dozens of people from the whole family go to worship together with their fathers. No matter how far it is, no matter how difficult the road is, we always go back to worship! I think this is also a factor in why we have children!

second factor . loves it! Yes, you read that right, it’s because I love !

There are many people who really like children. They occasionally tease, hug and play with the children of others. They also love their own children and often take them with them and hold them high. Gao, give me a hug, tease and pinch your little cheeks, I really like you from the bottom of my heart! They never find it troublesome. When the children poop or pee, they clean them up with a smile. The children eat or cry. In their opinion, all of this is a kind of fun. In my own words, The child is a toy for them. Seeing how well you hold it, she will happily run to grab it, muttering something to her, "Let me play with it for a while!" They tend to enjoy the joy of raising children, enjoy it, and never tire of it! Of course, this group of people are mainly women, and many men may not have this hobby.

The third reason. Continued hope

At this stage and for a long time to come, the concept of raising children to provide for old age and providing for yourself until the end of time will still exist. Although there is little hope, it is better than nothing! Not only that, they placed some hope on their fathers. They may not have a good life in this life, but they hope that future generations will have a good life. He hopes that his children can help him continue the work that he has not completed in his life and help him complete it. To put it bluntly, there is hope. Yes, we have been busy all day long, doing nothing, running around for life, and working hard all our lives. We have not enjoyed life. We always hope that our descendants will be better and that they can enjoy what we did not expect. Beautiful things, they get to live beautiful lives like we've never had.Our predecessors planted trees, and their descendants should also enjoy the shade. Success does not depend on me. We have dedicated our lives in the hope that future generations will no longer suffer and can enjoy peace and happiness freely!

The fourth factor. mission accomplished.

Having children is also the obligation of each of us. It is like a game. It has been played like this for thousands of years. Now the baton has been passed to our hands, and we need to pass it on. We Our parents looked at us with expectations. We can't just spread our hands and say I don't want to play anymore? Our parents were able to support three or four children in such a hard time. Of our generation, not to mention too many, we always have to bring one or two, otherwise we will not be able to express our gratitude to our parents and parents. Let’s explain it to ourselves and to this society! This is our responsibility and our obligation! .

Finally, let me declare it again. This article only represents my own attitude and my own opinions. It has nothing to do with anyone else. Last time I wrote an article titled "Should Low-income People Get Married and Have Children?" and was criticized by a netizen. He said that in Now I see the power of capital, which means I use money to do things. First of all, let me state again that I am just a bricklayer, and people of my level can’t look down on me. The conscience of heaven and earth has no intention of doing things for others.

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