Text/Tang Ruo Tang Ruo Xin Xue’s original work In life, we will find that the more abundant a person’s inner energy is, the better his external development will be. The more internal energy a person has, the better the external opportunities will be. When our inner energy is insu

Text/Tang Ruo

Original work by Tang Ruoxinxue

In life, we will find that the more abundant a person's inner energy is, the better his external development will be. The more internal energy a person has, the better the external opportunities will be.

When our inner energy is insufficient, we will find that our mobility will be inhibited. Therefore, learning to enhance the inner life energy is the foundation for our growth and achievement.

How to improve inner energy, the most important thing for us is to learn to embrace ourselves and continue to work hard from three aspects.

First, learn to be with yourself

In fact, life problems are caused by an unsatisfactory relationship with yourself. If a person cannot enjoy being with himself, then our life will continue to focus on the outside world, always thinking that others are better than ourselves, or that other people's lives are better than ours, we put our attention outside, Then our inner self will definitely not settle down well.

If you want to enhance your inner life energy, you must first learn to be with yourself. When you know how to be with yourself, your inner life space will gradually open up.

If a person is not with himself, it will easily lead to the fact that although we are busy, our life is not enjoyable, but a heavy burden. When we don’t have time to sit back and feel ourselves, our inner selves live in a world of anxiety and busyness.

No matter how much we do at this time, we will feel the suppression of our own lives. A good life is to truly feel your own body and mind, and feel your own emotions.

In fact, learning to be with yourself gives you a space to do things smoothly. Learning to embrace ourselves and first learn to be with ourselves is the key to resting and nourishing our lives.

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Second, learn to take care of your own body and mind

If we want to embrace ourselves, the most important thing for us is to learn to take care of our own body and mind. The body and mind are the carriers of our lives, and we first learn to be responsible for our own lives.

Many times in our busy lives, we are habitually responsible for others, such as our families, the people around us, and our colleagues, but we only forget to be responsible for ourselves.

So in the process of growing up, what we need to understand is that if we forget to be responsible for ourselves, then our energy will easily dry up, and then we will not be able to truly nourish each other in the face of other people's lives.

Therefore, it is very important to learn to take good care of your body and mind. You should connect with your body more often, feel your physical condition, guard your body and mind, and stabilize your heart. Don't be greedy for too much. Forgot to nourish yourself.

Over time, others will not be able to connect with you and feel your inner state of happiness and joy.

Third, embrace yourself and live your own uniqueness

In the process of growing up, the most important thing for us is to nourish our own life and let ourselves live a light. Many people are habitually busy helping others, but neglect their own body, mind and mission.

We must pay more attention to ourselves. Even if we are busy, we must carry our own heart on the road. When you are willing to take your heart on the road, we will automatically radiate light and brilliance.

Many times, you are just an alternative to others’ lives, but you are the master of your own life. Living ourselves means that we enjoy our own lives to the fullest and do what we want to do. When you are willing to try and continue When you are yourself, your inner light will impress others. At this time, you can drive more people to dance and drive the growth and progress of more lives.

Only by living ourselves can our lives truly live out joy and inner light. We must live out what we want to be, and then we can truly accept our lives.

Too many people put too much attention on other people. When you see what skills other people have, you feel like you are lagging behind, and you quickly follow suit to grow.

When we see other people’s goals, we forget what our own goals are, so we gradually follow the trend and forget our own rhythm.

If this continues, won’t our lives no longer belong to us? Aren’t we and our true selves completely separate from each other?

The most important thing in life is that only you can do the best, and the most important thing is your uniqueness.

Living the best version of yourself means that you are the only limited version of living your life. This is the most important thing to do in your life.

Li Jian once wrote something to Mao Buyi that touched many people: You need to be more confident. In fact, with your talent, you should be confident enough. Don't worry about new people replacing you.

As long as you are you, no one can replace you. As long as you live seriously, write songs seriously, and sing seriously, there will never be anything wrong.

So are we. Instead of worrying about being replaced, it is better to embrace yourself, think about the best way to live your life, live and bloom your talents, and live a life without regrets.

Today’s topic: How do you think you should embrace yourself? Welcome to discuss and communicate.