"Crows have the intention of feeding back, and sheep have the kindness of kneeling to breastfeed." This is true for animals, not to mention humans who stand at the top of the food chain? When we see those lonely old people with no guarantee of life in their old age, it is inevita

"Crows have the intention of feeding back, and sheep have the kindness of kneeling to breastfeed." This is true for animals, not to mention humans who stand at the top of the food chain? When we see those lonely old people with no guarantee of life in their old age, it is inevitable that we will feel sour. At the same time, I also wonder what the children of these elderly people are doing. Why not provide for their parents at home until they die?

Just like Li Cuihua, an old lady in her 80s, her face is covered with countless vicissitudes of life, and her eyes also contain tears. The house he lived in was just a temporary building, and the quilt had many large and small holes. Looking at the food Li Cuihua ate, it was even more surprising. It already had a rancid smell.

Regarding such a scene, I believe many people will feel particularly sad or heartbroken after seeing it. At the same time, some people may wonder, where have all the children of this old man gone?

You will reap melons if you sow beans, and you will reap beans if you sow beans.

When the reporter walked into Li Cuihua’s family, found out after some understanding that this was not a lonely old man. The old man had four marriages when he was young and gave birth to two sons and one daughter. It stands to reason that even if he has children, he should not be left without someone to take care of him. Is it because his children are not very filial? With such doubts, the reporter decided to investigate in depth. The final result of can only be described by the saying "if you sow melons, you will reap melons; if you sow beans, you will reap beans".

After Li Cuihua married her first husband, she gave birth to two sons and a daughter. Originally, this family was relatively happy, but no one expected that when the eldest son Lu Beiqiao was only 14 years old, Li Cuihua's husband died of illness. This made Li Cuihua immediately decide to remarry without thinking about the three children at all.

Although the eldest son was kneeling on the ground, crying and begging his mother not to leave, Li Cuihua's attitude was particularly firm and she completely ignored her son's reluctance. After some introduction by the matchmaker, they soon entered into their second marriage. At that time, Li Cuihua did not leave the house alone. Instead, she took the money she had saved with her first husband and took away her youngest son Lu Rongjing, who was only 4 years old.

Relatives and friends came to dissuade and enlighten Li Cuihua's decision. No matter what, the three children were still too young, and the oldest was only 14 years old. Even if you take away your youngest child when you remarry, what will you do with the other two?

In Lu Beiqiao's opinion, his sister is too young, only 9 years old, and he is not very old either. If his mother passes away, the only one who depends on him for life is his sister, and how should he take care of himself and support his sister?

Cruelly abandoning flesh and blood relations

However, Li Cuihua's heart was as if it was made of iron and was not shaken at all. She still resolutely remarried with her young son, and the happy life with her second husband only lasted for a year. Just when this marriage came to an end, many people said that Li Cuihua Kefu . Relatives and friends of this second husband felt that it was strange that Li Cuihua's husband died suddenly and suddenly, and they even sued Li Cuihua to the court.

After forensic identification and related investigation results, it was finally shown that Li Cuihua's second husband died of illness and had no significant connection with Li Cuihua. When this marriage came to an end again, Li Cuihua still did not give up the idea of ​​remarrying. Instead, he took his younger son and continued to remarry. married a businessman this time. Although he was not particularly wealthy, he was still somewhat famous among the local businessmen.

Not long after entering this marriage, Li Cuihua wanted to monopolize the economic power and keep all the money firmly in her hands, so the quarrel between Li Cuihua and her husband also started. Keep getting more. Sometimes the two of them would get into fights when they were arguing, and Li Cuihua would be beaten black and blue by her husband even when they were fighting each other.

No one among Li Cuihua's relatives or friends was willing to stand by her side. Many people spread a lot of rumors. It said that the life span of anyone who marries Li Cuihua will be affected. The two men who married Li Cuihua before both passed away not long after their marriage. And Li Cuihua's third husband, after hearing too many rumors, his attitude towards Li Cuihua became even worse.

Under the long-term domestic violence and mental pressure, Li Cuihua could not bear it at all, and finally decided to leave the family alone. When left this time, he also left his youngest son to his third husband. is also a painful blow to the younger son, and it also casts a shadow on the younger son's heart.

After experiencing the first three unfortunate marriages, Li Cuihua still had corresponding illusions about marriage. I met a man named Wan by chance. After a series of communication and exchanges, the two became interested in each other and finally entered the palace of marriage. Wan does not have a prominent family background and is a down-to-earth farmer.

Wan also had a wife before, but her wife suffered from cancer and passed away early. She gave birth to a son named Wan Liang. In the year when Wan and Li Cuihua got married, Wan Liang was only 15 years old. Li Cuihua settled down when she came to this family, and lived with Wan and his son for a full 36 years.

Wan Liang's dashed expectations

From a timeline perspective, 36 years is enough to make a person's heart melt, But what is puzzling is, what kind of conflict is there between Li Cuihua and the Wan family father and son? And why is there no one around to take care of me when my temples are turning gray? The most direct reason for is that Li Cuihua is not particularly friendly to his stepson, and is even a little harsh.

Just like Wan Liang said, When Li Cuihua came home, he thought he could feel the warmth of his mother, but this stepmother was very strict about his food, clothing and clothing. Take the matter of studying, even Say no. Li Cuihua still did not give up financial management after marrying Wan.

All the money in the family is in the hands of Li Cuihua. When Wan Liang was in school, living expenses were tight. Sometimes he had to face hunger every semester to pay tuition fees, and his stepmother was not willing to pay. In order to continue to go to school, when Wan Liang was in school, the tuition fees were slowly raised from relatives and friends.

As time passed, my stepmother became more and more disgusted with Wan Liang. She even said that reading more books was of no use. It is better to go out to work early, even if you are illiterate, you can still eat and make money. For Wan, Li Cuihua's actions also made him feel very unhappy.

At this time, Wan was not here. He left the economic power completely to Li Cuihua as before, but instead made a calculation in his mind. After his son Wan Liang started a new family, he decisively transferred all the properties to his son's name one after another. However, because of this incident, there were more and more conflicts between Li Cuihua and Wan, and they quarreled countless times over this matter.

Although there are quarrels, life can still be passed, and it will not be without food and clothing. With Wan's death, Li Cuihua's age is also increasing, and there is no way to compare with the strength of his youth. Just in 2018, the place where Wan Liang’s family is located ushered in a wave of major development.

Because the family’s old house foundation covers a relatively large area and there is also a courtyard dam, the total amount of compensation received from these areas reached more than 1.8 million yuan. During the demolition, two options were given for Wanliang to choose from. One of the methods of is to take money directly. After taking the money, you can go where you want to go. Another way is to switch to resettlement housing.

When these two options were presented in front of him, Wan Liang chose the first one without hesitation, which was to take more than 1.8 million yuan in cash.At this time, Li Cuihua said that he had lived together for more than 30 years and that he was also a member of this family. He should also have his share in this compensation.

His stepson fulfills his filial piety

In order to settle down his stepmother Li Cuihua, built a simple house not far from home, furnished it with a few simple furniture, and would decorate it every once in a while. Buy some daily necessities and send them over. Several years have passed since then, and Li Cuihua lives alone in such a house.

As for Wan Liang, he had already moved into the city with his wife and children. Although they also bought a house in the city, the new house has not been handed over yet, so they only live in a rental house. In Wan Liang's view, even if he bought a new house, he would not take his stepmother over. After all, his stepmother was not kind to him when he was young.

But then again, Wanliang does not just ignore it and collects corresponding supplies every month and sends them over. For the eldest son Lu Beiqiao, he was able to grow up after his mother left only with the help of relatives and friends. Now he has built a house and owns a car through his own efforts. The most important thing is to live. Very happy, full of children and grandchildren.

As a daughter, Lu Jiumei hurried to her mother's residence after hearing about her mother's current situation. Seeing the scene in front of her, she felt particularly uncomfortable, and then went to find Wan Liang.

Wan Liang made it clear that during the demolition the houses were allocated according to households. Although it has been decades since his stepmother married into Wan's family, she has never bought a house for the family. The demolition money has no share in the mother's part at all, not to mention that the stepmother also has a biological son. He is just a stepson, not an adopted son! So there is no obligation to provide support.

went to court to discuss support

After the issues between the two parties could not be reconciled, Lu Jiumei called the reporter. When the reporter got involved, he took Li Cuihua, who was in his 80s, to Lu Beiqiao's home. The moment he saw his mother, Lu Beiqiao remained silent and his mood did not fluctuate at all. When it comes to the issue of supporting his mother, his attitude is very firm. It is completely impossible for me to provide for him in old age.

Judging from the local saying, you are not a mother. Your mother left the family when you were very young and did not support you at all. Now you have no obligation to support your mother. What's more, there is a stepson now, so the eldest son's attitude is more firm. At this time, the reporter took Li Cuihua to the youngest son's house.

The youngest son Lu Rongjing did not feel sorry for his mother when he saw her. felt a wave of hatred in his heart. said that when he was 16 years old, he was forced to go out to work due to pressure from various aspects of life. Although he has a stepfather, he is almost not good to himself. What's more, he doesn't have the ability to support his mother now. He has just started a family, and his life is quite stressful.

The only hope now lies in the daughter, but the daughters are already married. According to their local customs, married daughters have no obligation to support their parents. Faced with such a situation, the reporter could only contact the local judicial department for a series of mediations.

After some mediation, the final suggestion was to send Li Cuihua to a nursing home. As for the expenses, the children will share the expenses. During the mediation process, only the younger son, daughter and step-son Wan Liang came to the scene. The eldest son did not show his face at all.

After this mediation, Li Cuihua also moved into a nursing home. Her daughter's monthly expenses were 1,000 yuan. As for the remaining expenses, her stepson and younger son shared it equally. At this time, Li Cuihua's mood was mixed. He didn't know whether he was repenting for the things he had done when he was young, or he was finally relieved that his pension problem had finally been solved.

Conclusion

After learning about the old man Li Cuihua, it is really sad. Everything has its consequences. When Li Cuihua was young, she left her children behind and decided to remarry without hesitation. Did she ever think about the embarrassment of having no one to support her when she was old?