I have only followed four episodes of "Happiness to Ten Thousands of Houses" and it has already pissed people off. A happy marriage is a great joy, and it is only natural for a sister to send her off. Unexpectedly, something unexpected happened at the wedding, and his sister He X

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I have only followed four episodes of " Happiness Comes to Thousands of Homes ", and it is already very popular.

A happy marriage is a great joy, and it is only natural for a sister to send her off. Unexpectedly, something unexpected happened at the wedding, and his sister He Xuxing was bullied. Her sister He Xingxing beat Wan Jiajia in public, regardless of her status as the bride, which triggered a series of events.

In order to seek an explanation for her sister, Xingfu was complained by her parents-in-law, ignored by her husband, and scorned by her sister-in-law, who even mentioned divorce.

In fact, the whole thing was caused by Wan Chuanjia, but why did Wan Chuanjia dare to bully people like this in public? To put it bluntly, the Wang family is used to it. Judging from the way Wang Youde and his wife fawned over Wan Shan Tang, it was the discrimination they earned from their daily humiliation to the Wan family. The Wang family thought they were a small family, so they tolerated everything and fawned over them.

As long as Wang Qinglai is a bloody man, he will not let others bully his sister-in-law at his wedding, but not only did he not stop it, he also forced Xingfu to apologize afterwards.

Wang Qinglai's humble weakness hidden deep in his blood vessels, He Xuxun had long seen. On the wedding day, she also told her sister that her brother-in-law was too useless.

Then, He Xunxun, who saw through her brother-in-law's true nature at a glance, was a legal professional, and she knew clearly that those people's so-called "marriage troubles" had actually violated the law and had caused great harm to herself. Why did she give up asking for justice and left her hometown in tears? Why do you let your boyfriend repeatedly offend you with his words? Amid her boyfriend's aggressive words, she still wants to cry and say it's okay over and over again? Why does she, who is educated and understands human nature, keep humiliating herself?

With Wang Qinglai’s cowardly nature, we can imagine that there will be countless scenes of being bullied like this in his happy life in the future.

It is conceivable that if Lucky marries her boyfriend, life will not be easy in the future.

After seeing through the ups and downs that the two sisters encountered in their relationship, perhaps we will know what pitfalls to avoid and live a happy life.

1 He Xingxun realized that his brother-in-law was not good enough for his sister. He was a spirited but bloodless man.

On the happy big day, his sister was the bridesmaid. There was a lot of excitement outside with gongs and drums, but in the bridal chamber, He Lucky said to his sister:

Sister, you are really at a loss for marrying into Lao Wang's family.

He Xingfu said disapprovingly: What's the disadvantage of this? Your sister is not a wealthy lady. If there is a prince charming, it won't be your sister's fault. As long as you marry well in this life, your sister will be content with her in this life.

He Xingfu does not have many requirements for marriage, and she does not have a sense of superiority because of her beauty. She has a clear understanding and positioning of herself.

He Xuxun asked in confusion: I don't understand, what are you trying to do with my brother-in-law?

Xingfu said: I want him to be honest and willing to work, not to smoke or gamble.

He Xingxun felt that his sister was so beautiful and capable, yet she found such a brother-in-law. But what my sister wants is that he is honest and willing to work, and does not smoke or gamble. Isn't this the most basic requirement for a man?

She remembered that her sister only had such little demands for marriage, and it made her even more unworthy of her. She felt that someone like her brother-in-law who was too honest was not honest at all but a coward. She asked her sister if she could take her brother-in-law out in the future. The dirt has to fall off!

was unhappy. She asked her sister, "What's wrong with you kid? Why do you still look down on rural people after you've been in college for a few years?"

I have to say that He Xuxun's vision is quite accurate. She immediately saw the true nature of her brother-in-law, who was coward rather than honest. What happened next also witnessed her view of her brother-in-law.

Wan Heirloom brought several people to congratulate him. Wang Qinglai’s parents nodded and arranged him on the main table. This is their highest respect for the Wan Chuan family.

It was time for the wedding, but because the secretary didn't come, the mother-in-law asked the officiant to wait. He Xuxun complained that Wang Qinglai's family were all sycophants, and it was not the secretary's family to marry a daughter-in-law. It was outrageous to have to wait for the secretary to come to hold the ceremony.

He Xuxun once again saw the deepest human nature of Wang Qinglai's family. She complained to her sister that the Wang family were all sycophants, but she never expected that Wang Qinglai's family was anything but sycophants.

Wang Qingzhi told his brother Wan Chuan that his family was making trouble about the bride’s sister, but his mother said that his family was a small family and it was a good thing for people to make trouble.

When Xingfu smashed Wan Qinglai's head with a bench, his mother slapped herself again in front of Wanshan Hall.

It was obviously Wan Chuanjia who bullied Lucky Qianqian, but instead of blaming him, they forced Xingfu to apologize to Wan Chuanjia.

Wang Qinglai's father was a bastard. He would bully his wife and children at home, and would even kneel down to others when he saw Wan Shan Tang.

In their understanding, Wanshantang is the secretary of the village. They are from a small family and must rely on the big tree of the secretary. Therefore, even if they knew it was Wan Chuanjia's fault, they still found all kinds of excuses for him, and instead accused Xingfu of being ignorant for standing up for his sister.

Because they usually kowtow to the Wan Chuan family, when Wang Qingzhi went to stop those people from messing around, the Wan Chuan family would say to him: I came to your house to make a fuss to give you face, don't be shameless.

The Wang family are no longer just flatterers as Lucky said to their sister, but they have a kind of servility in their bones. If she happily marries into such a family, it is destined that her future marriage life will not be too smooth.

2 He Lucky was humiliated at his sister's wedding, which opened the scars in his happy marriage.

Lucky was humiliated at his sister's wedding, which also opened the scars in his happy marriage.

She told her sister that she liked Wang Qinglai, who was honest and willing to work. No smoking, no gambling.

It is good to be an honest person, but if a person is too honest, he will be labeled as a coward. Why did Wan Chuanjia dare to do that to Lucky in front of everyone at the wedding? He has not figured out the tempers of Qing Lai and the Wang family. If it were any other family, even if he was the son of the secretary, no matter how arrogant and domineering he was, I believe he would not dare to make such a fuss.

In fact, the reason why Wan Chuanjia wanted to treat Lucky is because of his ugly human nature. He once said that someone like Wang Qinglai, who could not even slap a fart in three slaps, would marry a wife as beautiful as Lucky. He said When he said this, his jealousy was clearly revealed.

The darkest side of human nature is that he doesn't like others to be better than himself, so he wants to make the Wang family look ugly in public and challenge the bride's bottom line in public.

The Wan family members humiliated Lucky at the wedding, and what the Wang family did later exposed the scars in their happy marriage.

Women must not lower their expectations for marriage. We can make money with him to support the family, and we can accompany him to honor his parents. But when encountering issues of principle, men must show an attitude. Men must have a man. kind of. Instead of sitting back and expecting women to solve all the troubles. Just like Wang Qinglai, when something happened, the whole family did not dare to come forward, but they still insisted on going to the secretary to ask for an explanation.

The Wang family did not dare to ask the secretary for an explanation because they were afraid that life would be difficult in the future and that Wanshantang would put a damper on their family in the future. So they knew that Wan Chuanjia was at fault, but they still licked their faces and begged others to forgive them.

This is the disadvantage of being too honest. Sometimes a seemingly honest family will make themselves mad when something happens.

It can be expected that life after happiness will not be easy. From the moment she chose such an honest man, she put herself in the position of an iron lady.

A detail in the play is that Qinglai and Xingfu returned home. After receiving a call that his sister was fired, he asked Xingfu to go back with her, but Xingfu was worried about his sister, so Qinglai left without saying goodbye. You said that as a new son-in-law, even if he wanted to leave, he should at least let him know, but he left quietly and alone.

Xingfu discovered that he was missing while eating, so he kept calling him, but Qinglai didn't answer.Is this something a grown man does?

No matter what happened, what to say when answering the phone, first leaving without saying goodbye, and then not answering the phone, these are not things that a man would do.

Such an honest man, even if he has a hundred advantages, I will not let my daughter marry him. Because anyone who marries him will be pissed to death by his actions.

As long as a woman marries a successful man, she will have a different look on her face when she comes out. As long as a woman marries a man who has no hope, she will definitely live her life as a tomboy.

Happy Picture Qinglai was honest and ended up causing so much trouble for himself. It is really important for a girl to see a boy before marriage. An honest and cowardly man must not be married.

3 endured repeated bullying from her boyfriend because Lucky wanted too many things.

The family was sent to the hospital. After the guests dispersed, Lucky remembered that she had been on the phone with her boyfriend Daxun just now. She hurriedly went to find the phone, but the other party But it has already died. Lucky was heartbroken and Daxun hung up the phone, which only meant that he had heard everything she had just experienced.

She called Daxun to explain, but the other party didn't care about her and didn't comfort her. He just kept asking her if she was being bullied.

Daxun’s intentions can be imagined. He was afraid that Lucky would lose his innocence after being humiliated.

Being humiliated at the wedding left a big shadow on Lucky's heart. She took a shower three times a day after returning home and always felt that she was unclean. She kept calling Daxun to explain what happened that day, but Daxun questioned her again and again.

In fact, the audience has already seen clearly that this Daxun is not a lucky match at all. If Lucky really marries him, life will not be easy in the future. This Daxun may bring up this wedding incident again and again.

The audience has already seen the truth, don’t you know Lucky?

In fact, she knew better than anyone else the true purpose of Daxun's repeated questioning. Since she knew, why did she still endure these humiliations?

is as honest as her sister Tu Wang Qinglai, and luck also has plans for Daxun. She studied law at university. She only has a qualification certificate but no lawyer's certificate. Her job is not easy to find, and Daxun's family promised to help her find a job.

Lucky once said in the happy bridal chamber that she did not want to return to the village after living in a big city. She wanted too much.

It is a good thing for a person to make progress alone. Fortunately, he did not think about winning the future on his own, but relied on the Daxun family. What she thought was not wrong. If the marriage incident had not happened, maybe Daxun's family would have helped her solve her work problem. But after the wedding incident, Daxun had obviously changed his attitude. Lucky knew it well but still cried and explained to Daxun over and over again. After all, she still had extravagant wishes in her heart. She hoped that Daxun's family could help her arrange a good job. She was reluctant to let Daxun, her urban boyfriend.

But she forgot that wishful thinking is not enough in relationships. Daxun's family already disliked her after knowing what happened to her, and had already begun to think of breaking up. It was luck that refused to give up, and finally forced Daxun's mother to step in for her son. Say a breakup notice.

Just because Lucky wanted too much, she had to endure Daxun's mother and son. It was unfortunate enough that she encountered marital trouble. It stands to reason that a woman can best see the true face of her boyfriend after encountering misfortune. In fact, she could see that she was lucky, but she refused to give up Daxun's conditions and allowed her to recall the scene of that day again and again. Let the other party rub salt into your wounds again and again.

When a girl is too dependent on others, when she cannot be self-reliant and cannot have an independent personality, if she happens to meet someone like Daxun, she is destined to suffer humiliation and discrimination again.

3 Mom's thoughtful words revealed the truth behind Xingfu's marriage to Qinglai, and also made Xingfu die asking for an explanation.

Happiness and luck have completely different views on marriage.

Xingfu decided to go directly to Wan Shan Tang to seek justice for his sister. Her mother was worried when she found out that her eldest daughter was missing.Previously, the matchmaker said that the Wang family was planning to divorce. Of course, the mother did not want her daughter to get divorced. She felt sorry for her younger daughter, but she didn't want her older daughter's family to break up because of it.

She asked Lucky what he thought.

Lucky said she didn't know what kind of life she was living these days. First she was bullied by others, and then she was distrusted by her boyfriend. She was in a state of panic, so how could she think about what to do next?

When her mother heard that she didn’t know, she immediately became angry:

How could you not know? You know our family best, including how you got it today. In order to support your education, your sister stopped studying in junior high school. She didn't get married until you graduated from college. I finally found a good in-law's house, but there was such a fuss as soon as I walked in. You said you were going to mess up her marriage because of this, what should you do? Lucky, are you feeling complacent?

Mom’s words reveal the truth about happily marrying Qinglai. This is also the real reason why Lucky gave up asking for an explanation and left in tears.

In our eyes, happiness means being beautiful and capable. Why did such a good girl choose Wang Qinglai, an honest and honest man from a small family?

Because there is no man in her family, because she has shouldered the burden of the family since she was a child, because she delayed her youth for her sister to go to college, because she wants to find an honest man to rely on, and because she wants to live her life according to her duties. Just like what she said to Lucky, she wanted Wang Qinglai to be honest and not smoke or gamble.

Happiness does not have many requirements for marriage, but it is precisely because of her lack of requirements that she chose such a hot-blooded man and allowed her sister to suffer such humiliation at the wedding. She stepped forward to seek justice for her sister.

And lucky? She does have requirements for marriage. She requires that the other party can solve her problems and arrange work for her. Because there are requirements, people's character is ignored. As a result, when she was humiliated, the other party didn't care about her. Instead, he stood on the moral high ground and despised her for being dirty.

Happiness and luck, the two sisters have different requirements for marriage, why do they have the same fate?

Of the two sisters, one has such low requirements for marriage that she falls into passivity. One who demands so much that one allows oneself to be despised.

For happiness, marrying a useless and honest man who has to rely on himself for everything is not as practical as living alone. For Lucky, she will one day understand that mountains will fall if she relies on them, and water will flow if they rely on water. Only relying on yourself is the best way..