I am such a very entangled person, especially the opposition between emotion and reason, which often makes me fall into entanglement. The most obvious thing I have encountered recently is that I am studying a course. There is a practical interview in the course. If you want to pa

I don’t know if there are people like me who are often in a state of entangled choices: entangled in people and things in reality, entangled in the choice of various ideas in thoughts, and conflicting feelings in emotions. Struggle...even ambiguity about whether to buy a certain thing or what to buy.

I am such a very entangled person, especially the opposition between emotion and reason, which often makes me fall into entanglement. The most obvious thing that

has encountered recently is that he is studying a course. There is a practical interview in the course. If you want to pass this interview successfully, you need to continue to carry out simulation exercises in groups of three to put the theory into practice. Internalize knowledge into practice.

We have a practice study group, and the students in the group are very active. Some students are constantly initiating team practice exercises in the group. My reason tells me that the interview time is getting closer and closer. I still feel that my mastery of skills is not very good, so I have to insist on practicing every day.

Actively participating in the drill is something I have to do at the moment, but in fact, every time I see a team-up pick-up call initiated in the group, I will stare at it in a daze, and I will continue to struggle in my heart: pick up, Still not answering?

I am often struggling on my own. Group after group of drill groups have successfully formed, but I am still stuck in the same tangle. I think, if it weren’t for the group rules that require everyone to complete drills at least twice a week , otherwise I will be kicked out of the group, and I may just be struggling quietly for a week.

Regarding the situation where I am often stuck in a tangled state and constantly put myself in a dilemma of choice, I have also conducted self-awareness and reflection. When I can't find the answer, I also seek peer supervision from my classmates. , the final result is that behind my entanglement, the deep emotion is fear.

When I first came to this conclusion, I couldn't understand it. For example, when I was debating whether to buy something, what was there to be afraid of? But when I peeled back my inner motivations layer by layer, I discovered that there was indeed fear behind it.

What are you afraid of? I am afraid that if I buy something, if it is not good, if it is not suitable, if I find something more suitable after buying it, I will regret it, blame myself, and even generalize to the extent of self-questioning and self-denial.

Thinking about it this way, the reason why I always struggle with whether or not to practice during simulation drills is that the inner emotion behind this is actually because of fear. Fear of not practicing well will create a sense of shame in myself; fear of practicing If you don't do well, you will be rejected by your classmates; if you don't practice well, you will lose confidence; if you don't practice well, you will lose confidence; if you practice a lot, you will fail the interview in the end...

I thought that I was struggling with what I like every day Being accustomed to fighting, in fact, you are fighting against the fear in your heart every day. The choice you make after the first struggle and the persistence after every struggle are a victory in self-confrontation.

Although I often have some self-doubt in such a state, and often even want to give up, in the end, there will be more times when I choose the right behavior and results.

True bravery is not the absence of fear, but moving forward despite fear. This is a sentence found in the Meditation Daily Sign Quotes.

The moment I saw this sentence, it made me accept myself more and accept my own entanglements and fears. While recognizing this sentence, I also understood: Oh, it turns out that although I have always been afraid, I have been moving forward bravely.