I have 4 WeChat groups for classmates, one is a primary school group, one is a junior high school group, one is a high school group, and then a university group. But now I only keep one primary school group, and have quit all the others.
The elementary school group is very innocent. We have been together since we were young. We have a very pure relationship without any distracting thoughts. They exist just like their own brothers and sisters. Just say whatever you have to say, there is nothing taboo.
The group in junior high school, high school, and college was quite lively at first, but slowly it turned into some people talking and some people not talking. The ones who spoke were always the ones who were doing well, had achievements, and showed off every now and then in the group. . Those who don't speak up or answer conversations are always those students who live at the bottom, who don't know how to answer calls or how to interrupt their chat topics.
I went to the class reunion once or twice, but I never went again. In addition to showing off your wealth, having dinner together is also awkward. The students living at the bottom are very reserved and have nothing to talk about after a few pleasantries. It really doesn't make much sense. In addition, my work and life are not in the same city, and my work rarely interacts with them. I am usually very busy and very tired. There are also some family chores to deal with. So I decided to quit all three groups, leaving only one primary school group.
I don’t know if others are in a similar situation to me.
