Tao Meichen and Wang Bin got married a year ago. However, Tao Meichen was not happy after the marriage. Her parents-in-law always disliked her and always wanted to beat her son and daughter-in-law.
What Tao Meichen couldn't accept was that her husband also took the side of her parents-in-law and led her parents-in-law to her rental house and moved all the valuable items out of the house. The purpose of this was to force Tao Meichen to divorce.
The rental house Tao Meichen lives in now was rented temporarily after her parents-in-law kicked her out of the house and she had no place to go.
Tao Meichen was dissatisfied and came to ask for an explanation. As a result, her father-in-law touched her and injured her after leaving the room. Tao Meichen did not understand. If she wanted a divorce, she could sit down and discuss it carefully. Why should she act like an enemy?
It turns out that Tao Meichen and Wang Bin had done test tube after they got married, but it was unsuccessful. From then on, the Wang family's attitude towards her took a turn for the worse. Her parents-in-law believed that Tao Meichen was infertile, so they planned to force her to divorce and find a fertile daughter-in-law for Wang Bin. .
Tao Meichen couldn't swallow this sigh of relief, so she took her brother and the radio station's emotional mediator together to her husband's house. No matter how hard she knocked, she couldn't open it.
At this time, Tao Meichen's husband Wang Bin came back. He opened the door and asked Tao Meichen to take away his things. Tao Meichen and her brother came in and began to rummage through the cabinets, but they never found the most valuable gold bracelet.
Tao Meichen
Tao Meichen and Wang Bin were both married for the second time. Tao Meichen had a child before, and Wang Bin and his ex-wife had no children. Therefore, in Tao Meichen's view, if the two parties have children, the problem must be with the husband, but the whole family of her husband's family has Pointing the finger at yourself is unreasonable.
The reason why Tao Meichen did not want to divorce immediately was because the Wang family did not give her a clear explanation. She paid for the in vitro fertilization. After struggling for more than half a year, her body was almost exhausted. However, because she did not have a child, the Wang family said she would She was kicked out as soon as she was swept away. How could she swallow this breath?
Wang Bin's younger brother Wang Duo was also in the house. He allowed his sister-in-law to move whatever she wanted. As long as she thought it belonged to her, the younger brother would make the decision for his elder brother. This kind of thing was a bit strange.
Tao Meichen wanted her husband to express his true thoughts. Wang Bin sat aside and said nothing. Several times he wanted to speak but was interrupted by his brother Wang Duo. Wang Duo told the mediator that his brother had a bad temper and was not well educated. Without communication skills, he can only speak for his brother on his behalf. The mediator
could see that Tao Meichen was busy packing her things in the house, looking here and there in a leisurely manner. In fact, she just didn't want to leave and wanted her husband to open her mouth to persuade her to stay, but her husband didn't say a word.
Finally, Wang Bin stood up and walked out of the room, trying to escape. Tao Meichen chased after her and asked her husband to give an explanation.
Wang Bin said nothing
While Tao Meichen was chasing Wang Bin, Wang Duo pulled the mediator aside and said that he had information to break the news. Wang Duo told the mediator that Tao Meichen was not as innocent as you see. She did a very good job. Too much.
The reason why Wang Duo made the decision for his brother was that he owned the house where his brother lived with his parents. He originally bought this house for his parents to provide for their retirement, and later built a new house for his brother.
When Wang Duo first returned to Changsha, he wanted to go home to visit his parents and brother, but his parents stopped him from coming. He thought there was something wrong with it, so he hurried to his parents' house. When he opened the house, he was startled. It was similar to a coal kiln, completely blackened by smoke.
It turned out that after Tao Meichen and Wang Bin had a falling out, Tao Meichen piled her and her husband's clothes in the living room and set them on fire while everyone was away. This made the room dark and Wang Duo had to redecorate it.
Wang Duo angrily ordered his brother and sister-in-law to be evicted and gave them 2,000 yuan each to settle in. His parents also paid three months' rent at a time for his son and daughter-in-law.
It turns out that Tao Meichen has a very extreme personality, and similar incidents have occurred more than once. Because her company adjusted her position, she believed that the company was targeting her, so she caused a scene in the company. After cutting herself, she was sent to the hospital, but at home They also made a lot of noises one after another, and ordering clothes was just one of them.
Tao Meichen rummaged through her belongings
It can be seen that the Wang family's expulsion order against Tao Meichen was not about childbirth, but about being tortured by her until she was mentally and physically exhausted. This also understands why Wang Bin remained silent. This was a feeling of powerlessness.
After Tao Meichen got married, her father-in-law was very kind to her and never allowed her to spend money. Besides her underwear, all her clothes were washed by her father-in-law. Including what she said was that her father-in-law hurt her, but she also hurt herself. There is surveillance to prove it.
Even the expenses for the in vitro fertilization of the brother and sister-in-law were paid by his brother Wang Duo. This shows that the truth is not at all what Tao Meichen said. This can also explain why Tao Meichen's brother came to the house with his sister and did not speak out because of the injustice.
The Wang family once called Tao Meichen's father and asked him to take his daughter away. Tao's father claimed that he could not control his daughter, and then blocked the Wang family. The mediator
will lead Tao Meichen as a psychological counselor to receive professional psychological adjustment.
Tao Meichen said that she wanted to live a good life with Wang Bin, but every time her husband and wife had conflicts, her husband would avoid the problem and blacklist her. She could not vent, and she lost control of her emotions and acted irrationally.
In the end, the two parties agreed to divorce. Wang Bin paid Tao Meichen 50,000 yuan at a time. Tao Meichen initially agreed, but later regretted it. The Wang brothers walked away because they had been tortured by Tao Meichen several times and had long been accustomed to it. They have not been able to divorce. .
Wedding photos of the two
To be honest, Tao Meichen has problems with her character. She can't get along well with anyone. The incident of having a child is just a trigger for conflict. The real reason for being kicked out is that she can't get along well with anyone.
Tao Meichen has a very paranoid personality and will use very strong methods to resolve any minor conflicts, which makes everyone who interacts with her miserable.
For example, during the company's normal job adjustment, she thought the company was deliberately targeting her and actually used tools to injure herself and was hospitalized. Which company would dare to hire such an employee?
For example, when she had a conflict with her husband, she actually set her and her husband's clothes on fire, leaving her brother-in-law's house in a mess. Wang Duo had to spend a lot of money to renovate the house.
Another example is that after being kicked out by her husband's family, she hurt herself again at the door when she came home and made a fuss. She accused her father-in-law of doing it. If you think about it, you can come to the conclusion. If it was really your father-in-law who did it, how can your father-in-law do it now? Can we live in peace and harmony?
Tao Meichen has many sisters in her family. She has been working since she was a child and has never had a fixed place to live. Therefore, having a warm home has become her biggest desire. However, the failure of her previous relationship has created her paranoid and very insecure character. She lacks the ability to relate to people normally.
Therefore, if Tao Meichen wants to solve the problem, the most important thing is to solve her own psychological problem.
Wang Bin is used to escaping
Wang Bin also has problems with his character. As a manly man, he only runs away when faced with problems, so he cannot make the final decision in everything at home, which ultimately intensifies the conflicts between husband and wife.
In this marriage farce, Wang Bin, as the protagonist, has a very low sense of existence, because his younger brother makes the decision in the whole family, and even his father pays more than him.
For example, although Tao Meichen did not do the housework at home, Wang Bin, as his son, did not do it either and let his father do it all. This is incredible.
As a man who has been married twice, he not only has no children, he does not even own his own house. He still lives in his younger brother's home, which shows that his first half of life was a mess.
Judging from his behavior when the couple quarreled, he was a person who lacked responsibility. Every time Tao Meichen wanted to make things clear with him, he never communicated. The only thing he could do was to block his wife, let alone Tao Meichen has a paranoid personality. Even a normal person can't stand such cold violence from her partner, right?
Wang Bin may be unable to have children, lack the ability to make money, and has a long-term low sense of self-worth, which has created his character of not being able to face anything and escaping everywhere. It would be strange if he married a serious person like Tao Meichen and there would be no problems. .
hopes that Wang Bin will take responsibility. After all, it is ridiculous to let his younger brother make the decision regarding marriage.
Tao Meichen receives psychological adjustment
The Wang family is so kind and righteous that the couple who cannot be measured by normal standards can only admit that they are unlucky. Apart from driving them away, there may be no good solution.
In the marriage of Wang Bin and Tao Meichen, there is no doubt that the father and brother paid more than Wang Bin, so they were deeply involved in the couple's marriage.
The Wang family is basically supported by his younger brother Wang Duo, who is more capable than his older brother. Both houses in the family are in his name. One is shared by him and his mother, and the other is left to his father for retirement and is lent to his brother and sister-in-law. Make a wedding room.
My brother lacks the ability to communicate with others, which is why Wang Duo always stood up for his brother. After his sister-in-law ordered clothes, Wang Duo was helpless and had to spend his own money to decorate the house. When he met such a brother and sister-in-law, besides Is there any other way to issue an eviction order?
Even if he invited his brother and sister-in-law to go out, he still took 2,000 yuan each and did not let anyone go out empty-handed.
The old father of the Wang family is also very devoted to his son and daughter-in-law. His son and daughter-in-law basically don’t spend any money to live at home. They all spend his retirement salary. This is equivalent to eating old age in disguise. Not only does he passively bear it, but he also helps his daughter-in-law wash clothes. Listen. Has any father-in-law ever done something weird like helping his daughter-in-law do the laundry?
It can be seen that the Wang family was extremely kind to the unreliable couple. In the end, they helped them rent a house because they were too unreliable.
Tao Meichen still doesn't want to give up.
Conclusion:
There is a problem facing the Wang family. They want to divorce, but Tao Meichen doesn't want to divorce. Tao Meichen wants to make it difficult for the Wang family by using the tug-of-war over divorce.
The Wang family proposed many plans, including financial compensation. They would rather suffer a loss than have one idea to return their lives to normal. Tao Meichen agreed to the agreement every time, but then went back on her word. Her original intention was not to separate, but she did not want to live a good life. .
It is true that Tao Meichen paid a lot for the birth, and the Wang family had some faults, but this is not the reason why the two parties have reached this point. The problem lies with Tao Meichen, and the initiative is also in her hands.
I hope Wang Bin will not blindly escape. Since he really wants a divorce, it is better to go through the legal process.
hopes that Tao Meichen can let go of her worries. What is the point of continuing to make trouble like this? What good is it to whom? Marriage is a kind of fate after all. Since it is unsustainable, even being a stranger is better than being an enemy, right?
